Help joining games thanks!

[ZIM!!]

Hello, in MP I am unable to join games about 19 out of 20 times I try to connect. The games are open and able to be joined but I keep getting the no response from host message all the time. I have tried turning off my firewall and security software and Im still having problems can anyone help?
Thanks for any assistance or suggestions

[Jochi Khan]

Replied to your other post with same question.