I know I can get a little fired up around here sometimes, and it might come off like I'm not listening. But Ironside & Lazul, in defending their culture on the grounds of having so many children born out of wedlock, made a great point.
I'm going to paraphrase, but they essentially said that while Swedes may not be as into traditional marriage as Americans, what does that really say, when over 50% of American marriages end in divorce.
Well, since then, we've had at least 1 more gay marriage thread (the topic is like a plague of locusts). But while it was ongoing, the political side of me got hijacked by my engineering mind. Gay marriage isn't even in the top 5 list of threats to the family. #1 on my list? The permissive and tolerant lifestyles that allow a society to claim adultery is an acceptable behavior that the other partner just has to learn how to handle, and the dirtbags who leave their spouses and children (note: men and women do this) to go get some new lovin.
I'd like to kick this topic off with a case study. Many Americans have held Lance Armstrong up as a hero and we have been proud of his accomplishments. Based on his behavior over the past 2 years, in my mind he has become the poster child of what is wrong with the traditional family. Mr. Armstrong, father of 3, recovered from cancer to resume his professional cycling career and win the Tour d' France, what 6 times? In September of 2003, after he knew his name would be out of the headlines, the sleazbag slid out like a snake and left his wife, the mother of his children, and the woman who supported him during his cancer, high and dry. Just out of curiousity, who do you guys think was paying the bills when Lance was out riding around before he got a sponsor. Or when he was laid up in a hospital bed. Aaah, gratitude.Selfish git tells wife 'Take a Hike'
Claiming irreconciable differences, he claimed 'we're better friends then ever. We just couldn't get along'. Well, the next year rolled around and we got the whole story. He was all over this little homewrecker: Ms. Sheryl Crow.
Shamless
So, what am I ranting about? I would like to nudge my conservative brethren, and ask them to save some of the moral outrage they seem to feel for gay marriage for people who really deserve it, like this piece of $^!% who left his wife and kids in a very public way. He's no hero of mine, and if you support traditional families, he shouldn't be one of yours either. Like I said in another thread, I hope rides over the side of an Alp and loses his other testicle.
Bookmarks