need help for apology...

**Veho Nex** · 02-05-2008, 05:57

Alright... Me being the horrid idiot that I am. Was quick in a send a while back to a gaming friend I've known for quite a while. So long story short, I pretty much told her that I thought nothing of her and that she was useless

... any ways quickly after i had sent it i get a curt reply saying "wow.... your nice, bye" then after a quick read through I see what I had written now need a good way to say I'm sorry(I just hate to really piss off friends, the reason why I'm doing this) anyways.... please

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**InsaneApache** · 02-05-2008, 06:10

Be honest and sincere.

Then offer to make amends.

Follow through.

No shame in apologising.

Best of luck.

**Beefy187** · 02-05-2008, 11:15

And talk on phone rather then text messaging. If the person goes fully mad at you dont say anything back.

Good luck

**Husar** · 02-05-2008, 11:38

Be honest, write what you think, explain your mistake, what IA said.

**Beirut** · 02-05-2008, 12:45

Gentlemen,

If you link to something, it's like you posted it here yourself, and your account will be held ruthlessly accountable if the material was as inappropriate as this was.

Even the public discussion of these sites will result in WPs and thread closures.

**Good Ship Chuckle** · 02-09-2008, 02:59

Originally Posted by Jkarinen

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Well, it seems that you have a bad habit of saying (or posting in this case) that which shouldn't be said. The best way to resolve the situations is to not let them happen in the first place. Think: "I wonder how my comment is going to make them feel" and "How would I feel if that was said to me."

Like mama said, think before speaking.

**Veho Nex** · 02-09-2008, 03:23

Yeh i kind of have trouble with that, but it's all good now. Appearently its because I'm the only guy to ever write a letter of apology to her. Ohh yeh I'm smooth.