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    She was 16 at the time, can't really hold her responsible. There's the difference. What could have happened, as it happens a lot,is that she panicked after sleeping with him and once the gears got going there was no turning back. What she did was wrong but the system is worse. I think she deserves a little compassion instead of scrutiny
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    She never slept with him, apparently.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fragony View Post
    She was 16 at the time, can't really hold her responsible. There's the difference. What could have happened, as it happens a lot,is that she panicked after sleeping with him and once the gears got going there was no turning back. What she did was wrong but the system is worse. I think she deserves a little compassion instead of scrutiny
    What? 16 is young, but its not THAT young. Any 16 year old who thinks its okay to falsely accuse someone of rape isn't going to suddenly grow a better moral compass as they get older.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gelatinous Cube View Post
    What? 16 is young, but its not THAT young. Any 16 year old who thinks its okay to falsely accuse someone of rape isn't going to suddenly grow a better moral compass as they get older.
    I did.

    I mean, I wasn't that bad, but still.

    Even so - she didn't actually confess to the Police so she is not wholly repentant.

    On the other hand, sending her to gaol would not only be expensive it would bring her within the criminal community, which she is still outside.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Philipvs Vallindervs Calicvla View Post
    I did.

    I mean, I wasn't that bad, but still.

    Even so - she didn't actually confess to the Police so she is not wholly repentant.

    On the other hand, sending her to gaol would not only be expensive it would bring her within the criminal community, which she is still outside.
    Everyone matures, but being 16 is no excuse for something that bad. By the time you're 16 you may not appreciate why, exactly, something is right or wrong--but you are absolutely old enough to know where your actions stand in the eyes of society.
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    I dont understand how you guys really think you could ever forgive her. I certainly wouldn't have it in me considering he was likely raped himself in prison.

    As to maturity and her age. When I was fifteen I knew damn sure you couldnt walk around saying you were raped and send innocent people to prison. Heck, when I was 8 I knew you shouldnt do that. If we used her age as an excuse or that was common for someone that age wouldnt be many men of any age walking around free.

    If this girl hadn't gotten caught telling him it was a lie he would have not only been a rapist but a child molestor in the eyes of the law. He would have had to go to all of his neighbors houses and tell them to their faces that he was a kiddy diddler.

    If this was me in this situation and I was this fellow, if I knew she wasnt going to confess and get her just punishment and my name weren't going to be cleared...... there may be murder in my heart.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Centurion1 View Post
    you people are absurd.
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    I don't know bro, sounds like someone isn't the sharpest star in the shed.
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    I don't know bro, sounds like someone isn't the sharpest star in the shed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Centurion1 View Post
    you people are absurd. I'm going to hire someone to accuse each of you to rape. Then I want you to spend five years in prison where you will be labeled as a rapist to other inmates. Then YOU will likely be raped all the time until you get out five years later. So yeah you forgive her, uhuh. Really Phillips you cant even stand a woman you know getting married.

    Ill say when I was fifteen I knew damn sure you couldnt walk around saying you were raped and send innocent men to prison. Hell, when I was 8 I knew you shouldnt do that. If we used her dan age as an excuse and that was common for someone that age wouldnt be many men of any age walking around free.

    If this ***** hadn't gotten caught telling him it wa sa lie he would have not only been a rapist but a child molestor in the eyes of the law. He would have had to go to all of his neighbors houses and tell them to their faces that he was a kiddy diddler.

    If this was me in this situation and I was this fellow, if I knew she wasnt going to confess and get her just punishment and my name weren't going to be cleared...... I would kill her and I sure as hell wouldnt shed a tear.

    And Frags you stabbed somebody huh bro? How did you get out of the toolbox.
    I was never in it. You don't get into prison over something like that her, there were no charges he had no grudge. It was an accident I didn't mean to
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fragony View Post
    I was never in it. You don't get into prison over something like that her, there were no charges he had no grudge. It was an accident I didn't mean to
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    ;) I'm drunk frags dont take anything I say at face value. And curse you for having the old version of that post.
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    She should be sentenced to hard sexual labour to pay back the money. Off to Colombia.
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    Everyone matures, but being 16 is no excuse for something that bad. By the time you're 16 you may not appreciate why, exactly, something is right or wrong--but you are absolutely old enough to know where your actions stand in the eyes of society.

    Not if you're raised badly - at 16 you aren't an independant thinker, you are unlikely to have much experience of life outside your family or peer group. As such, you may not know that something like pergury is, or understand the consequences.

    And, she was a minor when the offence was committed - I appreciate that she should have confessed sooner but she can't have been continuously committing a crime by not confessing, that doesn't really work.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Philipvs Vallindervs Calicvla View Post
    Not if you're raised badly - at 16 you aren't an independant thinker, you are unlikely to have much experience of life outside your family or peer group. As such, you may not know that something like pergury is, or understand the consequences.

    And, she was a minor when the offence was committed - I appreciate that she should have confessed sooner but she can't have been continuously committing a crime by not confessing, that doesn't really work.
    At 16 even the most ill-mannered and poorly raised brat understands that rape is a serious crime. I'm not saying she should be locked up or anything, but she should be universally condemned as a horrible person.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gelatinous Cube View Post
    I'm not saying she should be locked up or anything, but she should be universally condemned as a horrible person.
    What would the point of that really be though? Should everybody boo when they see her, and throw rotten tomatoes at her? Doesn't seem a terribly constructive outcome, for any party involved.

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    Quote Originally Posted by johnhughthom View Post
    What would the point of that really be though? Should everybody boo when they see her, and throw rotten tomatoes at her? Doesn't seem a terribly constructive outcome, for any party involved.
    Well in our society horrible people tend to write a book, tour the talk shows, and make a quick million or two (oh wait, she already did that one).
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gelatinous Cube View Post
    At 16 even the most ill-mannered and poorly raised brat understands that rape is a serious crime. I'm not saying she should be locked up or anything, but she should be universally condemned as a horrible person.
    Do not unterestimate the limits of human depravity.

    Her punishment depends on your model of justice.

    Just Retribution would be five years in gaol and a 1.5m fine - but that is unlikely to serve society.

    So, what to do?
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    Have her sell off anything she bought with the 1.5 million and maker her give the money plus the what's left of the 1.5m to her victim.

    Then stick her on the sex offender registry for a year to see how she likes it.
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    put her in a government institution where she will get food and clothing and where she will work to serve society until she has paid back her debt to "society/government/victim".

    just what is the name for that...

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    put her in a government institution where she will get food and clothing and where she will work to serve society until she has paid back her debt to "society/government/victim".

    just what is the name for that...
    Gulag.

    What should not be forgotten though, is that she has two children by now, placing their mom in prison for five years may just make them the criminals they wouldn't be otherwise. I agree that she should be punished but I'm unsure about the severity, a financial punishment and compensation for her victim seems the most constructive to me.
    Can't make her work too much in prison because that would make the prison a socialist production facility that undermines the free market, especially if she is supposed to produce a profit of 1.5 million there.


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    She deserves to die. Seriously, if I go to prison for rape and the accuser later blows it off all non chalantly and admits it was about money, that person is dead.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Greyblades View Post
    Have her sell off anything she bought with the 1.5 million and maker her give the money plus the what's left of the 1.5m to her victim.
    What if she bought drugs, alcohol and parties for the money (which she most likely did)? Can't sell that anymore.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Major Robert Dump View Post
    She deserves to die. Seriously, if I go to prison for rape and the accuser later blows it off all non chalantly and admits it was about money, that person is dead.
    OK. Then you deserve to die for saying someone not guilty of homicide deserves to die.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Philipvs Vallindervs Calicvla View Post
    OK. Then you deserve to die for saying someone not guilty of homicide deserves to die.
    Suppose that the girl testified in court that this guy killed someone who is missing, and he would have gotten the death penalty. What would the girl deserve if later admits she lied?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Philipvs Vallindervs Calicvla View Post
    OK. Then you deserve to die for saying someone not guilty of homicide deserves to die.
    Saying that does not take someone freedom away for X amount of time and then callously blow off their suffering, which means you have a far lower standard for lethal retribution than do I.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Philipvs Vallindervs Calicvla View Post
    Do not unterestimate the limits of human depravity.

    Her punishment depends on your model of justice.

    Just Retribution would be five years in gaol and a 1.5m fine - but that is unlikely to serve society.

    So, what to do?
    In my opinion (and in my ideal world) she would do just that: five years in prison and a $1.5m fine. Retribution and flat-out punishment has its place in the criminal justice system.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Major Robert Dump View Post
    Saying that does not take someone freedom away for X amount of time and then callously blow off their suffering, which means you have a far lower standard for lethal retribution than do I.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Major Robert Dump View Post
    Saying that does not take someone freedom away for X amount of time and then callously blow off their suffering, which means you have a far lower standard for lethal retribution than do I.
    I don't have a standard for lethal retribution - but if I did I would think that wishing someone dead, seriously, would be worse than sending someone to prison because as bad a callous misanthropy is lethal vindictiveness is worse.
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    Hmmmmmmmmmm, I wonder if a rape kit was ever performed or any sort of physical evidenece was admitted.

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