Girl Help

[Prussian to the Iron]

Sorry, I had to post it.

So, there's this girl on my volleyball team (rec. obviously) who was on my team last year. Last year though, she seemed to really like me, but the last game I was going to ask her out at was canceled.

I want to ask her out now (even though the season just started), and she still seems to be interested in me. The problem is: there's now 2 other girls I might wanna ask out as well.

So what's the best way to go about this? And how should I go about asking? If it's the other 2, how should I get to know them?

Replies before 6:00 PM Eastern time would be great, because practice is at 6:30.

EDIT: I can sing 'Anyway you want it' by Journey word-for-word. Don't know if that helps.

[Strike For The South]

This thread has potential :popcorn:

[Rhyfelwyr]

You should really make your mind about who you want to ask out first. No point asking out one of them and then regretting it shortly after...

[Adrian II]

I don't know our age, but even if we suppose that you can handle three girls without making a juvenile fool of yourself, the four of you will probably end up friends and nothing more. If you want that one girl, you should make it clear to her that she is first choice by taking her out separately. Pronto!

[Prussian to the Iron]

that's why I'm asking; im not sure which. 2 of them are really pretty, but i know nothing about them. but then the 1 i've known since last year i know really well, and i know she likes me, but she isn't the best looker. I mean shes not ugly, shes just pretty average compared to the other 2.

[Monk]

EDIT: I can sing 'Anyway you want it' by Journey word-for-word. Don't know if that helps.

No.. that would not help. It's a date, not a wedding proposal. Just do what Rhyfelwyr suggests, figure out who you're interested in and then go for it.


This thread has potential :popcorn:

I got you covered.

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[Philippus Flavius Homovallumus]

Pick one, ask her out within two weeks.

Any sign of indecision/interest in other women will kill you dead. If girl one realises you are eyeing two and three she will place you in either the "clueless" or "arse" bin. You might get out of the one, the other you will be in for life.

[Prussian to the Iron]

so.....which should i choose? I'm really clueless here guys.

[Monk]

so.....which should i choose? I'm really clueless here guys.

I don't think any of us can answer that for you, in all seriousness. It's something you gotta decide yourself. :yes:

[Fragony]

so.....which should i choose? I'm really clueless here guys.

play it safe and have lunch with all three. That's the thing with lunch. I can be, but it doesn't have to be.

[FactionHeir]

Louis would say: Ask them out all at once, that's how its done in France! :grin2:

[Prussian to the Iron]

play it safe and have lunch with all three. That's the thing with lunch. I can be, but it doesn't have to be.

.....what?

invite people from volley-ball, which takes place at 6:30PM.....to lunch? when exactly would this lunch take place? only on the weekends obviously, and it would look weird taking 3 girls, 1 of whom i will ask out, to a place like Chili's, and even weirder at mcdonalds.

[GeneralHankerchief]

In situations like these, there's only one true answer you can count on: Chance!

You have three girls, right? And you only want to ask one out, yes? Obtain three coins. Assign each coin to a girl and proceed to flip all three in succession. Any coin that shows up as "tails" means you do not ask her out. Keep flipping until there is only one "heads" left. In the case that all remaining coins come up tails (or heads), simply flip again. In the unlucky case that all three come up tails on your first flip, that's God's way of telling you that you should look elsewhere.

Best of luck, and may the Chance Gods be with you! :yes:

[Fragony]

.....what?

invite people from volley-ball, which takes place at 6:30PM.....to lunch? when exactly would this lunch take place? only on the weekends obviously, and it would look weird taking 3 girls, 1 of whom i will ask out, to a place like Chili's, and even weirder at mcdonalds.

How do you people eat a lunch? A good lunch is a light dinner in a classy establishment, with the added benefit of no strings attached. And I don't mean you should have lunch with them all at the same time lol, it's a good way to feel the temperature of the water, and hey it's just lunch easy to get away with, no risks all gain.

[Louis VI the Fat]

Louis would say: Ask them out all at once, that's how its done in France! :grin2:Surprisingly, yes, I would indeed. French don't do dates like Americans all that much. When you're young, you go out in groups more. I'd get some guys together for some fun night out and ask all these girls to come along. Then take your pick. If you want to start something, there needs to be a 'click', a connection. So in fact, you are not taking your pick, the mood and the circumstances will decide if there's some picking to do. Dates shouldn't be awkward and hard work. They should be about having some fun with some girls. If there's fun, everything else will come naturally. If it isn't there - then hey, it isn't there.

(Ask your friends to keep their filthy hands to themselves!)


Oh, and at some point, I for one would climb on a table, rip open my shirt and belt out that Journey song. Girls dig that stuff.

Or not.

Who cares. Have some fun.

[Ice]

that's why I'm asking; im not sure which. 2 of them are really pretty, but i know nothing about them. but then the 1 i've known since last year i know really well, and i know she likes me, but she isn't the best looker. I mean shes not ugly, shes just pretty average compared to the other 2.

Pick the one you know and ask her to go see a movie/get dinner. Don't make this more complicated than it needs to be.

[Philippus Flavius Homovallumus]

that's why I'm asking; im not sure which. 2 of them are really pretty, but i know nothing about them. but then the 1 i've known since last year i know really well, and i know she likes me, but she isn't the best looker. I mean shes not ugly, shes just pretty average compared to the other 2.

Well, this tells us you aren't in love with anyone.


Surprisingly, yes, I would indeed. French don't do dates like Americans all that much. When you're young, you go out in groups more. I'd get some guys together for some fun night out and ask all these girls to come along. Then take your pick. If you want to start something, there needs to be a 'click', a connection. So in fact, you are not taking your pick, the mood and the circumstances will decide if there's some picking to do. Dates shouldn't be awkward and hard work. They should be about having some fun with some girls. If there's fun, everything else will come naturally. If it isn't there - then hey, it isn't there.

(Ask your friends to keep their filthy hands to themselves!)


Oh, and at some point, I for one would climb on a table, rip open my shirt and belt out that Journey song. Girls dig that stuff.

Or not.

Who cares. Have some fun.

Well, funnily enough... I would do exactly the same thing. Organise a group dinner, invite a whole bunch of guys and girls. It will make you lots of friends, and it will impress those girls when you pull it off.

So, Loius' advice is good.

[Beskar]

Sounds like John wants to have his cake and eat it.

You liked the original girl first and the most, then why not go for her? The other 2 might be "prettier" but who cares?

[Tratorix]

Oh, and at some point, I for one would climb on a table, rip open my shirt and belt out that Journey song. Girls dig that stuff.

Agreeing with this. Any girl worth keeping likes Journey. Also, date the one you actually know and like.

[pevergreen]

So two girls are pretty but you dont know them, one you do know, you like and you think she may like you.

Is this even a question?

Also, if you make your decision purely off how the other two look without knowing them, I will track you down and beat you.

[Centurion1]

The other 2 might be "prettier" but who cares?

99.9999999% of men world wide. :clown:


Seriously you gotta make your pick. Buthoneslty i would take out the one who has the greatest chance of saying yes. if you think they will all say yes then choose the nicest one. Ugh, i decided to go based totally off looks and i mean this chick was a looker, varsity soccer, homecoming queen, but she was a total biatch. Seriously, beautiful girl but i hated her attitude, oh and she was sort of dumb and i like a girl i can let my nerdy self out around not just my football captain side....

So to recap pick the nice one unless the pretty ones are nice too, then you always take the package deal.......

[Philippus Flavius Homovallumus]

So two girls are pretty but you dont know them, one you do know, you like and you think she may like you.

Is this even a question?

Also, if you make your decision purely off how the other two look without knowing them, I will track you down and beat you.

This isn't really good advice.

If you look at a girl and a "prettier" one comes up, and she suddenly has your attention, then the first girl doesn't have what you're looking for. Personality is essential, but so is sexual attraction. This isn't a question of looks, it's a question of which one can hold your attention in a room full of women.

Put simply, which one are you most attracted to?

This isn't a big brain or little brain question, it's a reaction one.

[Mailman653]

Oooh what a juicy thread! So....how many more hours before we find out what happend?:laugh4:

[Centurio Nixalsverdrus]

Well, if the nice one says no, you can always ask the next one.

Also, I hope the nice girl will get what a superficial **** you are and let you down.

[Hooahguy]

Also, I hope the nice girl will get what a superficial **** you are and let you down.

oooo thats mean. :no:

[Centurio Nixalsverdrus]

Mean? I wanted to add:



... but on the other hand, when the nice girl sees you fooling around with the attractive girls, she will see how attractive you are.

[pevergreen]

Also, I hope the nice girl will get what a superficial **** you are and let you down.

:yes:

I'm not saying its a bad thing that the other girl is prettier, but for him to just go "Shes pretty, therefore better than this girl I know and like and is still pretty, just not as pretty."

Remember, looks go away.

edit: im trying to say that if he has a genuine interest in one of the other girls, great! go for it. But if its only because of how they look (which doesnt mean he can't get to know them, and then find out they are great) I think that is just not on.

[Hooahguy]

Mean? I wanted to add:
oh. sorry. i thought it was a comment aimed at the general situtation. which it probably is anyways, but now i see your point.

heres my advice: pick one girl and run with her.

[Yun Dog]

BAH! what are you worried about - your not getting married to her - yet

go out with all of them - on different days/weekends

the first parts of a relationship are non-excluvise its well understood - while your sussing out if you like someone

besides, the fact that your dating one of the girls will make you more appealing to the others... it always does

and if theres one who interested in you.. it may spurn her into action before its too late

have fun .. its sounds like a great situation

dont take it seriously just as light hearted making friends and getting to know people and living life

man for you it doesnt rain - it pours :2thumbsup:

[naut]

I want to ask her out now (even though the season just started), and she still seems to be interested in me. The problem is: there's now 2 other girls I might wanna ask out as well.
Wait, so this is a problem?

[Beskar]

I think a couple in the thread probably suffers from "Nice Guy" syndrome. They are in the situation where he struggles to get out of the friend zone, and never gets to pick between girls because they go for jerks instead, who care more about looks then what they are like. As such, he might have been rejected by these girls as they dated idiots, sobbing at night over Prussian Iron dumping them for some prettier girl.

[Monk]

Wait, so this is a problem?

It's definitely a problem you want to have. :laugh4:

[Samurai Waki]

Have you tried talking them into a four way? Just tell all to meet you at a certain private location, and to keep an "open mind" before coming.

[pevergreen]

In other news:

BAAAW.

We now return you to your normal programme.

[Owen Glyndwr]

Well? What the hell happened? We're honestly all dying to know!

Because if there's one thing a human loves more than blood and guts and gore, it's definitely got to be sticking their noses in someone else's personal life hehe. (And if you can do both at the same time, thumbs up to you!)

[Fragony]

All quiet on the western front for Prussian Iron, that is a good sign! Probably resupplying his mannshaft for yet another push!

[Megas Methuselah]

Get rid of the first girl in the morning, and hunt for the next.

[Centurio Nixalsverdrus]

For all of you that didn't read the whole thread: Prussian Iron has not even talked to the pretty girls. He has just one girl that was reported to have been "nice" and talking with him.

[Prussian to the Iron]

OMG you guys are f%$*^($ hilarious! especially you Wazakashi!

Well, I decided I'm going for the one I already know, though I decided that last night when she made it plainly clear she wanted me to ask her out:

So she was at the water fountain, and I was the only person behind her, and we were alone. So, out of nowhere, she says something along the lines of "Oh, I got water on my Boob!". She then proceeded to, before we got back into the Gymnasium, bend down and then bend backwards in a very sexy way.

Hellz Yeah!!!

or as Flavah Flave would say:

YEAH BOOOEYY!!!

[Adrian II]

YEAH BOOOEYY!!!Case closed. :laugh4:

[KukriKhan]

So she was at the water fountain, and I was the only person behind her, and we were alone. So, out of nowhere, she says something along the lines of "Oh, I got water on my Boob!". She then proceeded to, before we got back into the Gymnasium, bend down and then bend backwards in a very sexy way.

And so it begins. Guy can't decide, smart chick decides for him, and makes him think it's his idea. Get used to it, it's the way the world works.

He'll be married by age 18.

[Prussian to the Iron]

Married by 18? not hardly. probably not til maybe 26-ish.

and im smart too....sob :'(

[naut]

So she was at the water fountain, and I was the only person behind her, and we were alone. So, out of nowhere, she says something along the lines of "Oh, I got water on my Boob!". She then proceeded to, before we got back into the Gymnasium, bend down and then bend backwards in a very sexy way.
You win. A strong, confident woman is way better than those pretty eye-candy ones.

And so it begins. Guy can't decide, smart chick decides for him, and makes him think it's his idea. Get used to it, it's the way the world works.
And I wouldn't change that for anything. :2thumbsup:

[Hosakawa Tito]

Married by 18? not hardly. probably not til maybe 26-ish.

and im smart too....sob :'(

Yeah, that's what we all say.

[Mailman653]

Next step is to get her to join us Orgah's and get her hooked on TW.

[Prussian to the Iron]

Next step is to get her to join us Orgah's and get her hooked on TW.

hmmm.........now how to do it?:evilgrin:

[Beskar]

I wouldn't advise showing her this thread.

[Adrian II]

I wouldn't advise showing her this thread.Ya know, if Prussian's description is anything to go by, she wouldn't mind at all.

[Mailman653]

Ya know, if Prussian's description is anything to go by, she wouldn't mind at all.

Even when she reads that he was considering two other girls who are prettier than her? Or when she reads this statement: "I mean shes not ugly, shes just pretty average compared to the other 2."

Even if I were nice and easy going, Id be a little pissed, I would rub it in every so offten too just for fun:laugh4:

[Prussian to the Iron]

yeah wtf? any girl would mind that.

[Centurio Nixalsverdrus]

Congrats!

Mentioning "water on her boobs" is as close as you can get. The next step for you would be to ask her if she wants to go for a ride. Don't waste anymore time, be as direct as possible.

[Philippus Flavius Homovallumus]

Congrats!

Mentioning "water on her boobs" is as close as you can get. The next step for you would be to ask her if she wants to go for a ride. Don't waste anymore time, be as direct as possible.

I would be a bit classier than that.

Try dinner and a movie, and don't try to skip the Third Date Rule, (that's a bare minimum).

[Prussian to the Iron]

you guys understand i'm 14.5 and shes like 15 right?

[Philippus Flavius Homovallumus]

you guys understand i'm 14.5 and shes like 15 right?

Ah, well you will be married by 18, then.

Anyway, MacDonalds and a movie?

Picknip? It'd be nice if you have a nice local park, if it has a pond take some bread to feed the ducks with.

[Mailman653]

Oooo older woman :laugh4:

A picnic is very creative and can be quite enjoyable with the proper planning.

Roll out the maps, pick the location of where you'll launch the operation. Then figure out the logistics, food, transport etc. Then have a nice time, after nice time is finished, you'll need an exit strategy as well.

And don't forget to have different plans set up too just in case a situation turns out differently than you had originally planned. :army:

[Megas Methuselah]

Oooo older woman :laugh4:

Cougar and its boytoy! :laugh4:

[Prussian to the Iron]

"it's"? now we're referring to 15 year old girls as "it's"? what has the intarwebz come to?

[Xipe Totec]

If you take my advice you'll spend as much time with girls as you can while you are still young, especially the ones who like you. When you get to my age they are just part of happy memories or absurd and forbidden fantasies :shame:.

[pevergreen]

If you take my advice you'll spend as much time with girls as you can while you are still young, especially the ones who like you. When you get to my age they are just part of happy memories or absurd and forbidden fantasies :shame:.

QFT.

On that subject I get to go say goodbye to the one I want.

yay.

[Samurai Waki]

If you take my advice you'll spend as much time with girls as you can while you are still young, especially the ones who like you. When you get to my age they are just part of happy memories or absurd and forbidden fantasies :shame:.

Have you tried becoming a Guitarist for a local metal band? All the young girls, and shame you can handle.

[Alexander the Pretty Good]

Oooo older woman :laugh4:

A picnic is very creative and can be quite enjoyable with the proper planning.

Roll out the maps, pick the location of where you'll launch the operation. Then figure out the logistics, food, transport etc. Then have a nice time, after nice time is finished, you'll need an exit strategy as well.

And don't forget to have different plans set up too just in case a situation turns out differently than you had originally planned. :army:

Not much fun in Stalingrad?

[Adrian II]

A picnic is very creative and can be quite enjoyable with the proper planning.

Roll out the maps, pick the location of where you'll launch the operation. Then figure out the logistics, food, transport etc. Then have a nice time, after nice time is finished, you'll need an exit strategy as well.

And don't forget to have different plans set up too just in case a situation turns out differently than you had originally planned. :army:Okay, that's the woman's part. What should the guy do.

[KukriKhan]

Okay, that's the woman's part. What should the guy do.

Heh. Bathe before the event. Wear a clean shirt. One with a collar. Try extra-double hard to show up on time. She'll handle the rest. :)

[Philippus Flavius Homovallumus]

Okay, that's the woman's part. What should the guy do.

I dunno, I reckon you can pick up a picknick, and surprise her with it, whilst leaning arogantly against a wall and smiling.

[Yun Dog]

If you take my advice you'll spend as much time with girls as you can while you are still young, especially the ones who like you. When you get to my age they are just part of happy memories or absurd and forbidden fantasies :shame:.



:laugh4::laugh4::laugh4::laugh4::2thumbsup:

Amen brother

edit: on topic - sheez she had to go as far as the 'water on the boob' to get his attention - think how many must slipping past while this guy is examining his shoelaces!!!!

Initiate plan A dude

clear for action

go to defcon 1

this is not a drill

sound the trumpet

call the charge

Its sad really what predictable pawns men are in the hands of women