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So....I was dating this girl, you see. And a few days ago, it was our one month anniversary. Things were going slow...painfully slow...but I had no troubles with it. And then I was talking to her one morning, and I reminded her it was the anniversary. So she asks me what it is the anniversary of, and I tell her it was for our relationship. She then claimed to have forgotten we were dating. : /
Ouch. But if things were going really slow like you say, I'm guessing she was telling the truth. How does she act towards you is she still friendly or is she cold towares you and tries to avoid you?
pevergreen
11-15-2010, 07:26
Maybe you werent actually dating?
Maybe you werent actually dating?
This. Probably a miscommunication, you thought you were and she didn't. And one month isn't anything special, it's kinda creepy IMHO to go on about anniversaries that are less than a year, six months is kinda acceptable if you are under the age of 21, since that is like an eternity for a youth.
PanzerJaeger
11-15-2010, 09:27
Wow. How does that even happen?
pevergreen
11-15-2010, 09:33
Yeah Motep at your age, don't mention anything less than a year.
Eh. It was just a "hey, we've been dating a month now."
I mean, her forgetting is understandable, I suppose, she has been under alot of stress lately.
pevergreen
11-15-2010, 15:10
Forgetfulness is fine, but forgetting you are in a committed relationship? I don't see it happening.
Well it obviously came up, does the lovely lady recognise that you are in a relationship?
Rhyfelwyr
11-15-2010, 16:13
I can tell I will be bad with these sorts of things, since when did people even celebrate a one month "anniversary"?
I thought usually it's the female that brings these things up. "Today is the 3-month anniversary of the first time you bought me flowers!", that kind of crazy, out of the blue thing that girls do.
Strike For The South
11-15-2010, 17:15
I see a bright furture for this relationship
AggonyDuck
11-15-2010, 21:31
Just to point out, the term X-month anniversary is an oxymoron.
Maybe you werent actually dating?
Yea she probably used the word "forgot" cause she was trying not to hurt your feelings or something.
ELITEofWARMANGINGERYBREADMEN88
11-15-2010, 23:20
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YIkoSPqjaU4
This is a great song you should have played for her when she said that.
Hosakawa Tito
11-16-2010, 00:43
Seems to be a communication and perception problem here. Time to move on.
Just as a bit of news, I broke up with her today.
ELITEofWARMANGINGERYBREADMEN88
11-16-2010, 18:34
I see a bright furture for this relationship
I think so!....:balloon2:
Just as a bit of news, I broke up with her today.
Wait, Never mind STFS.
Sorry to hear that Motep. Don't worry, there is still more hot babies out in the see for you :D.
Strike For The South
11-16-2010, 18:36
Damn me and my romantic heart
Louis VI the Fat
11-17-2010, 02:31
Just as a bit of news, I broke up with her today.Does she know? Did you tell her you were breaking up with her?
Louis VI the Fat
11-17-2010, 02:33
Me and Strike will celebrate the third anniversary of our marriage tomorrow!
Does Strike know you two are married? People in general hate surprises
Is Strike abusive toward you? I hope not! :O
Louis VI the Fat
11-17-2010, 23:55
Is Strike abusive toward you? I hope not! :OHe beats me with his belt when dinner's late. ~:mecry:
A...a...and in...in...in bed he sometimes wants me to do certain...'things', foul things, things he knows I don't like and which no free chrisTIAN MAN OUGHT TO HAVE TO ENDURE YOU HEAR THAT STRIKE I WON'T HAVE IT ANYMORE TAKE IT EWLSEWHERE YOU NASTY BRUTE
Sorry to hear that Motep. Don't worry, there is still more hot babies out in the see for you :D.
Yeap. That having been said, I am no longer single. (And this time, I am confident that she knows that we are in a relationship. This she, of course, being a different she than the aforementioned she with whom communication failed)
Strike For The South
11-18-2010, 03:46
He beats me with his belt when dinner's late. ~:mecry:
A...a...and in...in...in bed he sometimes wants me to do certain...'things', foul things, things he knows I don't like and which no free chrisTIAN MAN OUGHT TO HAVE TO ENDURE YOU HEAR THAT STRIKE I WON'T HAVE IT ANYMORE TAKE IT EWLSEWHERE YOU NASTY BRUTE
BACK IN THE KITCHEN YOU HARLOT
Cute Wolf
11-20-2010, 15:25
never think you've got a real relationships before you got the enggagement ring... :grin:
at least that does give some guarantee of the longeivity of relationship in question
Megas Methuselah
11-24-2010, 07:04
Lol, this is hilarious. I don't know how in the hell I missed it.
Yoyoma1910
11-24-2010, 08:00
Really, the most important relationship, is the one you have with yourself.
Just don't have that relationship too often or you'll go blind.
Just as a bit of news, I broke up with her today.
How can you break-up if you weren't even really dating?
That's a bit of a pickle, isn't it?
Megas Methuselah
11-25-2010, 01:01
That's a bit of a pickle, isn't it?
Speaking of which, did she ever get around to playing with that pickle?
Lets she...she didnt even know we were dating. : |
I would have to say no
Yoyoma1910
11-26-2010, 06:11
Just remember:
The world is currently populated with somewhere around 7 billion people.
Many of those are females.
About 28% of people have some form of mental illness.
There are these things called STDs, which, well frankly, a lot of people also have. Some of these also cause mental illness.
Girls like flowers.
Good luck.
Megas Methuselah
11-26-2010, 06:43
Lets she...she didnt even know we were dating. : |
I would have to say no
Bro, I don't want to sound like a jerk or anything, or appear as if I'm spiteful of you over some obscure matter, but I honest to goodness cannot stop laughing, lol. I'm serious, my stomach is sore right now...
Yoyoma1910
11-26-2010, 07:03
You know what, high school relationships suck and are confusing for everyone. Later you'll look back on them with those strange glasses of nostalgia.
Megas Methuselah
11-26-2010, 07:10
You know what, high school relationships suck and are confusing for everyone. Later you'll look back on them with those strange glasses of nostalgia.
Alcoholism solves everything.
Bro, I don't want to sound like a jerk or anything, or appear as if I'm spiteful of you over some obscure matter, but I honest to goodness cannot stop laughing, lol. I'm serious, my stomach is sore right now...
I see your point for laughter. Taking an unbiased place in this, it would be very amusing. In fact, even with the biased place that I hold, I am amused...albeit in a very sad and pathetic sort of way.
In time I will have a good belly laugh on the matter, but for now, I will stick to the depressing chuckle
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