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ELITEofWARMANGINGERYBREADMEN88
02-24-2011, 14:28
So apparently if there is a bunch of people here with low Self-Confidence with the ladies and such. So lets bounce ideas off of one another.


Who wants to go first? :balloon2:

Strike For The South
02-24-2011, 14:29
If you cater to what you think others want you to be, you will never have self confidence

Just do you and shake the haters

/thread

ELITEofWARMANGINGERYBREADMEN88
02-24-2011, 14:33
If you cater to what you think others want you to be, you will never have self confidence

Just do you and shake the haters

/thread

+1for STFS. Be a Hungarian Hussar (Like me!!!!). Don't care what anyone thinks. :balloon2::balloon2::balloon2::balloon2:

pevergreen
02-24-2011, 14:59
Stop asking for advice on internet forums.

ELITEofWARMANGINGERYBREADMEN88
02-24-2011, 15:00
Pwnt.

pevergreen
02-24-2011, 15:03
Heres a better idea.

Stop posting altogether.

Rhyfelwyr
02-24-2011, 15:06
What's with the animosity above?

Anyway, I echo Strike's advice, you be calm and be yourself, and you can't really go wrong. Don't worry about being rejected, because it will happen to everyone at some point.

A lot of the time these people that seem like players in fact only really get one acceptance for every 10 rejections.

Strike For The South
02-24-2011, 15:07
What's with the animosity above?

Anyway, I echo Strike's advice, you be calm and be yourself, and you can't really go wrong. Don't worry about being rejected, because it will happen to everyone at some point.

A lot of the time these people that seem like players in fact only really get one acceptance for every 10 rejections.

Why does it always come back to women with you?

Rhyfelwyr
02-24-2011, 15:09
Why does it always come back to women with you?

idk, early mid-life crisis?

Wait, no... the OP specifically talked about women, I knew I posted that for a reason.

Samurai Waki
02-24-2011, 15:09
I could say something extremely cliche' so that's exactly what I'm going to do.

Words and phrases like "self-confidence" are just that, they don't really don't mean anything if you don't know what it is. Get out of the house, do things you like (that don't involve the computer), find meaning in your existence, do something to promote that meaningfulness with others who share that desire, and everything else will work itself out.

Csargo
02-24-2011, 15:10
Why does it always come back to women with you?

WHY YOU GOTTA BE LIKE THAT SFTS?

Rhyfelwyr
02-24-2011, 15:15
WHY YOU GOTTA BE LIKE THAT SFTS?

~:mecry:

ELITEofWARMANGINGERYBREADMEN88
02-24-2011, 16:37
Heres a better idea.

Stop posting altogether.


That's sounds good advice for everyone Pever. :balloon2:


What's with the animosity above?

Anyway, I echo Strike's advice, you be calm and be yourself, and you can't really go wrong. Don't worry about being rejected, because it will happen to everyone at some point.

A lot of the time these people that seem like players in fact only really get one acceptance for every 10 rejections.

What animosity?

No sense in being a player. Besides, once the girl finds out she being played, she just going to ditch you and you going to have to try all over again.


I could say something extremely cliche' so that's exactly what I'm going to do.

Words and phrases like "self-confidence" are just that, they don't really don't mean anything if you don't know what it is. Get out of the house, do things you like (that don't involve the computer), find meaning in your existence, do something to promote that meaningfulness with others who share that desire, and everything else will work itself out.

:yes:

miotas
02-24-2011, 16:45
People are stupid. Ignore them and do whatever the :daisy: you feel like.

Fragony
02-24-2011, 16:57
Wear clothes you feel comfortable with. Everybody is insure about him/her-self, the ones claiming they aren't probably all the more.

ELITEofWARMANGINGERYBREADMEN88
02-24-2011, 17:09
I just wear my leather jacket (real one) and blue jeans and an ice shirt and colonge and that's it. I go in fancy enough because I don't want to look like a bum (like a lot of my fellow students look like they came out of a drug house). I don't care what anyone thinks of me at this point.

edyzmedieval
02-24-2011, 18:20
I just chill out and look relaxed. You don't even have to move a muscle.

Centurion1
02-25-2011, 06:17
stop being a *****

Secura
02-25-2011, 10:35
Finding confidence is about realising that the opinions other people have about you don't really matter; if they don't like you, who cares? Is it really that big a deal?

Why should you tailor yourself to their requirements? Wear the clothes you like, listen to the music you enjoy and live life however you want... it's their loss, not yours!

Megas Methuselah
02-25-2011, 22:38
Heres a better idea.

Stop posting altogether.

Don't be a hater, man. I like this kid, and I like it when people take advantage of the frontroom's tome of combined knowledge.

But when a girl looks at me, and smiles and doesn't look away... Ooooooh, I love it when that happens.

Beefy187
02-26-2011, 02:07
Hey I might need some advice too.
Not too concerned about womens but I do want to raise my confidence.

The main problem seems to be my horrible fashion sense and weak looking body (yet fat on my stomach)

pevergreen
02-26-2011, 02:28
The main problem seems to be my horrible fashion sense and weak looking body (yet fat on my stomach)

You and me both buddy :sad:

Megas Methuselah
02-26-2011, 03:15
Situps. Crunches. Barbells.

Lazy. You.

pevergreen
02-26-2011, 04:03
Lazy. You.

Not debating that.

Megas Methuselah
02-26-2011, 04:50
Not debating that.

Oh. Ok, then.

Peace.

Motep
02-26-2011, 05:10
People are stupid. Ignore them and do whatever the :daisy: you feel like.

Do it, and do it well. Dont be afraid of opinions. It works

a completely inoffensive name
02-26-2011, 15:35
Hit the lawyer, delete your gym and facebook up.

Beefy187
02-26-2011, 15:42
Situps. Crunches. Barbells.

Lazy. You.

Done all that. Main problem seems to be slow effects, leading to lack of will to continue

a completely inoffensive name
02-26-2011, 15:44
Done all that. Main problem seems to be slow effects, leading to lack of will to continue

Follow my advice.

Beefy187
02-27-2011, 01:17
@ ACIN

What would you advice this skinny chubby fellow?

a completely inoffensive name
02-27-2011, 01:31
@ ACIN

What would you advice this skinny chubby fellow?

Twin tasers.

Beefy187
02-27-2011, 01:34
Twin tasers.

I have no one who shoots Twin tasers at me :D

a completely inoffensive name
02-27-2011, 02:59
I have no one who shoots Twin tasers at me :D

Then you are dooooooooooooooooomed.