Ideas for a First Date

[woad&fangs]

Okay, in the next couple of days(probably monday) I'm probably going to ask this one girl out. Originally I was planning on just going to a movie with her but it seems that there isn't a lot of good movies out right now.

So do any of you have an idea? I want to hear them all ; the simple ideas, the romantic ideas, and the zainy/crazy ones. Also, if there is a good first date movie out right now I would love to hear about it. Keep in mind that I'm 16.

Thanks,~:flirt:

[Ice]

Okay, in the next couple of days(probably monday) I'm probably going to ask this one girl out. Originally I was planning on just going to a movie with her but it seems that there isn't a lot of good movies out right now.

So do any of you have an idea? I want to hear them all ; the simple ideas, the romantic ideas, and the zainy/crazy ones. Also, if there is a good first date movie out right now I would love to hear about it. Keep in mind that I'm 16.

Thanks,~:flirt:

First important question, do you have a driver's license and access to a car?

[woad&fangs]

Yes I do have a license and a vehicle. It may be a minivan but at least it can get me from point A to Point B.

[Kekvit Irae]

Naked jumping jacks.

[Somebody Else]

Last time I went on a date was with a girl I was already with (though, it was technically our first date...).

Dinner, then out on the town - meet up with friends, have a few drinks, a little dancing, then back to hers for... uh... coffee.

[Whacker]

Naked jumping jacks.
Kekvittles is probably a chea^H^H^H^H^H^H^H^Hfun date! :hide:

@ Waldinger

Ask her if she can lick her elbow, or if she can touch her elbows behind her back. ~:thumb:

Seriously though, I always liked going to those "Fun Times" kind of places, like where they have Go Karts and interactive games that couples can do. And honestly for me, those places were a good measure of the gal for the dates I went on in high school and college. The two or three times I went with a girl who didn't enjoy herself or try to have fun (how can you not at those places??) were pretty short lived relationships. Your mileage may vary.

Edit - Do something that you'll enjoy, and that she'll probably enjoy. The key here is finding something that's common ground for the both of you. If for example you hate dancing/clubbing, and that's all she wants to go do, then you're probably not too terribly compatible, as doing things as a couple is integral to a relationship. Thus, if it's really hard or impossible to find common ground, that should be a red flag to take into consideration. It's not fair to either of you to just do what the other person wants and something you don't enjoy.

[TinCow]

A nice dinner is always a winner, whether you're 16 or 60 and whether you're on your first date or 50th anniversary. Just make sure she doesn't pay for it. Afterwards depends on what she likes to do. A movie, a pool hall, dancing, whatever. Pick something she will like.

[Beirut]

A nice dinner is always a winner.

Yep. :yes:

Go somewhere nice if you can afford it. And have no expectations except a decent meal and a nice conversation.

Crushed expectations will come later when you've been together for a few years.

[master of the puppets]

find a nice cafe, a place where you can have some coffee and chat, a few in my area also have dancing and i girl NEVER turns down a good dancer.













...unless he is ugly or smells but i have never been down that road...

[Ice]

Yes I do have a license and a vehicle. It may be a minivan but at least it can get me from point A to Point B.

A minivan? Eh, I'd advise borrowing a friend's car. :laugh4:

I'd recommend you keep it simple. Go somewhere cheap-moderate for dinner, and then see a nice movie.

For movies I'd recommend something scary or something funny:

30 days of night would have her all of you in fear :yes:

The Heartbreak Kid looks funny.

It's your call.

http://movietickets.com/

[Csargo]

I'd say bring her somewhere you can sit and have a nice chat and get to know each other. :shrug:

[Ice]

I'd say bring her somewhere you can sit and have a nice chat and get to know each other. :shrug:

Like... dinner? :yes:

[RoadKill]

I advise you don't drive that minivan. Also keep it simple for a first date watch a movie. If you live in america or Canada go watch Saw 4 ( if shes scared of those movies you'll get some action). Then after the movie go bring her some where cool to eat (not Mcdonalds). And then bring her home.

[Marshal Murat]

I don't know. If she can't accept that you drive a mini-van, are you really compatible?

[Crazed Rabbit]

Movie and a dinner is a good idea.

As for movies, I'd be cautious against the heartbreak kid. I hear stiller plays a real jerk in it, and it's generally mean spirited. Might not be best for a first date.

Maybe The Game Plan?

CR

[Papewaio]

A mini-van has other connotations... if this van is rocking don't come knocking.

So if my 16 year old daughter (hypothetical at this point) had a date with a 16 year old boy who rocked up in a minivan I would interrogate the little tyke until he turned atheist.

Lunch or Dinner and a movie or something fun, ice skating or some such. Leave the beach for later unless you already have gone to the beach with her.

Be clean, smell nice and don't worry. Be yourself... just a shiny clean version.

[Strike For The South]

Whats a date?

[IrishArmenian]

Good music scene where you are? If so, find a small show that you're both interested in, preferably something one can dance to.

[Decker]

Whats a date?
Taking a HOT chick out to a Skynyrd Concert

[Lemur]

When I'm getting ready for a date, I have a few essentials:

Clown suit
Plastic tarps
Chainsaw
Full-sized van
Pre-dug pit in forest preserve
Five spools of copper wire

Oh, wait, I haven't been on a date in over a decade. Never mind. I was thinking of something else.

[Strike For The South]

Taking a HOT chick out to a Skynyrd Concert

A marrige?

[Decker]

When I'm getting ready for a date, I have a few essentials:

Clown suit
Plastic tarps
Chainsaw
Full-sized van
Pre-dug pit in forest preserve
Five spools of copper wire

Oh, wait, I haven't been on a date in over a decade. Never mind. I was thinking of something else.
You forgot air-fresheners. Don't want people smelling something funny.

[Whacker]

When I'm getting ready for a date, I have a few essentials:
Clown suit
Plastic tarps
Chainsaw
Full-sized van
Pre-dug pit in forest preserve
Five spools of copper wireOh, wait, I haven't been on a date in over a decade. Never mind. I was thinking of something else.

You forgot a gallon sized vat of Crisco and a spatula.

Amateurs, geez.

Edit - And some ketchup. I'm getting rusty here.

[Decker]

A marrige?
So that's how they do it down there~;) Howabout taking her to the local fair?

[Rodion Romanovich]

Take her to a place she never expected ....

*drumrolls*

*drumrolls*

*drumrolls*

*drumrolls*

Your own room at home, in front of your computer, playing EB!

[Shaka_Khan]

Go skinny dipping (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skinny_dipping) with her. You're just a kid so don't worry. I used to bathe with my sister when I was four.

[Rodion Romanovich]

That's a good idea, Shaka Khan. What's even better, is that if she doesn't like the date, and you are on a nudist beach, you may find another date pretty fast if you need one!

[Husar]

Don't worry about your car, I'm 22 and don't even have a driver's license.
But then I also never had a date...

Just go and have fun, somehow, if you can't have fun or she wants you to have a Ferrari, you may want to forget about her. :sweatdrop:
That's easier to say than do and considering my lack of experience...but anyway...

[pevergreen]

So Waldinger, we are in the same situation :laugh4:

My part of the world, a dinner is not really the go ahead, it isnt done at our age. Normally its hanging out at a shopping centre or the city. :shrug:

Depends what you like and what she likes. I was going to be sleeping over at her house with one of her friends (female) and no parents. But my plan to get it past my parents failed. So im just going over to her place (by that i mean...ummm...my project partners house...yeah:sweatdrop:) for 6 or so hours.

Should be fun nonetheless.

In short: if you are unsure of if it will work between the two of you, do something she likes, if you are sure, do something you both like.

[Beefy187]

Although I never had a date.. I never loved a girl.. I dont even have a soul..

ok never mind my miserable (but fun filled) life story can be posted else where

I rekon what to do on date really depends on the girls trait (sorry cant think of the word to replace it) and age.

If its outgoing type populer girl then dancing or watching movies is the way to go.

If its more quiet person then shoping, walking and lots of talking I guess. Just talk talk talk!

watching the sunset always seems to work in those Hollywood movies.

Flowers would be nice

Good luck Waldinger! You to Pever!!:2thumbsup:

[Drisos]

It depons on the girl's charactere, of course. But dinner/movie are options that almost can't go wrong. If she likes shopping, go shopping, if she likes dancing, go dancing, etc etc

It helps to just think of things you're planning to do, things you'd like to do, and then think of taking her with you on these occasions. You may just run into good ideas!

You don't even have to do anything special/go some place.. you could just ask her to come to your place. you can sit down and talk, watch some tv/movie whatever. do you have a dog? do you have some nature close to your own, go walk the dog together.. that can be nice as well. you don't have to be doing 'special things', you just want to get to know her etc.

Good luck! :book:

[SeekerDK]

I personally found that the odd date are the usual winners. Take her to do something you have never done you self or hasn't done in a while.

If there is a ice rink near by, then take her ice skating (work particularly well, if are not that good at it you self), also rollerskating, horseback riding, golfing (minigolf) and so on. But mind you, that it works best for something that you do with compatible "expertise" (or rather lack of expertise). It shows that you want to do thing not just to show off or because it's your hobby. And it is fun to suck at things when you do it together.

I found ice skating to work particularly good, since I pretty much suck at it and can spend most of the time holding on to her (as she is usually better then me), without it getting clingy or weird and on the same time I show her, that I'm not afraid to admit faults and imperfections and that help her relax and get comfortable.

It's not guarantied to get you laid (due to all the broken bones and all that :), but it will provide a memorable date and a topic of conversation on the next one.

The main theme is bonding (which is different from bondage, mind you) and doing something together on equal terms. A movie is in fact a pretty rotten date, but works ok, since nothing really can go wrong (if the movie is good, you can talk about it and if its bad you can make fun of it). Dinner is ok, but it is so traditional and will probably not be one of thous dates that you remember for years to come.

Mind you, that this is a guide to a long lasting relationship. If you want a one night stand or a superficial relationship, you need a whole different strategy of asserting you self as the prize-catch and the flawless super being who has cast his pitty on her and given her a shot. And to all the feminist women's libbers now articulating their protests.. "I don't like it anymore then you!", but I'm sorry to say, that is how the real world works in most cases, even if that doesn't include yourself and/or your sister.

[Philippus Flavius Homovallumus]

Depends on how well you know her. If it's only in passing ask her out for coffee, if that goes well at the end you can suggest dinner and a movie.

[Drisos]

And it is fun to suck at things when you do it together.

Good one!!!:thumbsup:

[Vuk]

Okay, in the next couple of days(probably monday) I'm probably going to ask this one girl out. Originally I was planning on just going to a movie with her but it seems that there isn't a lot of good movies out right now.

So do any of you have an idea? I want to hear them all ; the simple ideas, the romantic ideas, and the zainy/crazy ones. Also, if there is a good first date movie out right now I would love to hear about it. Keep in mind that I'm 16.

Thanks,~:flirt:

Take her out to eat. ~;) Nothing works as well for a first date. After that you want to take her places where you can talk with her (and listen to her ~;)), and get to know her.
GL
Vuk

[Husar]

I like that post, SeekerDK, sounds like you're having a lot of fun at dates. :2thumbsup:

[Prodigal]

[QUOTE=Beefy187]Flowers would be nice[QUOTE]

Don't do flowers until the next day.

If the date goes belly up, don't send them, if you're not sure how it went don't send them.

If you both had a good time, get some delivered, (if your budget can stretch to it). It is a major vote winner with the parents and girls love 'em, although her father will always think you're pond life, least all the fathers I met at that age did.

Bottom line, have a few plans, dinner, movies, bowling whatever, meet her, throw out a couple of suggestions if they get blanked, ask what she wants to do...Anyway have fun!

[woad&fangs]

Thanks for the ideas, everyone. Keep them coming.

[Vuk]

Thanks for the ideas, everyone. Keep them coming.


If it is appropriate, you could take her dancing. ~;) That is always fun.
The first time I went dancing with my girl, I had no idea how to, and neither did she. We had a blast. :P

Vuk

[SeekerDK]

And it is fun to suck at things when you do it together. Good one!!!:thumbsup:
Well yeah, the pun wasn't intended, but the equivocality seems rather inappropriate (or very appropriate, depending on standpoint).

I spirit of this lucky/unlucky mistake, might i suggest sharing a popsicle? :laugh4:


I like that post, SeekerDK, sounds like you're having a lot of fun at dates. :2thumbsup:
Alas, the hard part is not the date, but finding the right girl to take.

[Husar]

Alas, the hard part is not the date, but finding the right girl to take.
True, I found a few but apparently almost all of them so far had a very convincing date long before I met them... :sweatdrop:

[Louis VI the Fat]

Alas, the hard part is not the dateGood one!!!:thumbsup:

I don't know what I find funnier, you sneaking in another pun right after claiming they're all unintentional, or their really being unintentional little Freudian puns. :beam:

[Vuk]

Good one!!!:thumbsup:

I don't know what I find funnier, you sneaking in another pun right after claiming they're all unintentional, or their really being unintentional little Freudian puns. :beam:

u r a pervert

[Louis VI the Fat]

Hey, don't point at me. SeekerDK is posting all these vulgarities!

[Husar]

Yeah, Louis just makes sure that nobody misses them. ~D

[Vuk]

Here is an interesting idea. There is going to be a videogame convention near us next week, so my girl and I are gonna go kick some *$$! :P
That is kinda exotic, and sounds like it could be a lot of fun.
If she likes to game, and there is an event like that in close proximity to you, you could try that. (Though first impression do count, and you don't want her to see you as a "gamer". This could be fun for later on though. ~;))

Vuk

[SeekerDK]

I don't know what I find funnier, you sneaking in another pun right after claiming they're all unintentional, or their really being unintentional little Freudian puns. :beam:

Believe it or not, first one WAS unintentional (use the word "suck" on a regular basis, in my native tongue, with out it having anything to do with your mouth or a vacuum). Last one however, is an "old" standard joke (thou the last part of the sentence doesn't make it any less funny).

Lets see you find a pun in that! :laugh4:

[Drisos]

Well yeah, the pun wasn't intended, but the equivocality seems rather inappropriate (or very appropriate, depending on standpoint).

I spirit of this lucky/unlucky mistake, might i suggest sharing a popsicle? :laugh4:


Alas, the hard part is not the date, but finding the right girl to take.

Originally I didn't spot the 'mistake' either. I noticed it when reading back my post though. ~;)

ok, in the meanwhile, lets keep this thread axefree. :whip: ~;)

[AntiochusIII]

ok, in the meanwhile, lets keep this thread axefree. :whip: ~;)"Axefree." :inquisitive:

Drisos, don't tell me you share Lemur's fetish?

*ahem*

Anyway, I think SeekerDK's idea is the best. It's different enough to work but not in the geeky way (which is instant fail at 16).

[Kekvit Irae]

I'll throw up some good pointers for first dates. Sadly, I've been afflicted by bad dates because the other party decided not to go the road of common sense.

1. Do NOT talk about medical conditions or medications. Unless it's really obvious like an asthma inhaler, your date doesn't need to know you are a psycho that was just released from the hospital mental ward a week ago and are on six different medications at the same time. Total date killer.

2. If such a topic comes up, avoid correcting them. Rather, change the topic. This is the polite way of saying "STFU, n00b!"

3. Lay out your intentions from the start. If the date is supposed to be romantic, ask the other party if they kiss on the first date. This way you wont feel embarrassed or disappointed if they turn you down later on because you didn't ask and they didn't feel like it.

4. Being yourself is a good way of being single. Sad, but true. The first date is always supposed to impress, whereas the second date is where your true self can shine. However, do not overdo it. Don't go out wearing a tuxedo when your date is in blue jeans and a sweater. Keep a simple middle-ground between impressing your date (and saying "I'm the right guy for you") and being casual ( and saying "I'm just a laid-back guy"). Slacks, long-sleeve shirt, and a shave are all that's really needed.

5. SHOWER. Seriously, you don't want to know how many dates I've ended early because the other party decided to stink the place up.

6. Smile and make eye contact. It says to your date, "I'm friendly, and I'm interested in you." Don't overdo it. You don't want to look like a creepy stalker.

7. Tap your chin in thought when your date is speaking. This subtly tells the other party, "I'm interested in what you are saying and taking in every word."

[woad&fangs]

Thank you for the advice Kek. The chin tapping thing is something I have never heard of before.(although I might look a bit odd tapping my chin in thought while doing jumping jacks).

Maybe we should just start an officical thread for talking about dating/relationships instead of us always starting new threads(Me, Pever, Garci, and Husar have all had threads recently and Decker and Zain have been posting about their new girlfriends in the post celebration thread.)

Maybe we could call it the "official cake hunters thread" if it's okay with Husar.

[Husar]

7. Tap your chin in thought when your date is speaking. This subtly tells the other party, "I'm interested in what you are saying and taking in every word."
Good advice, she'll think you're listening while you're actually thinking about a good new strategy against the Mongols...

edit: Call it what you want, but note that my last thread was not one seeking for advice but an information for the endless people I sought advice from before. ~D

Currently I don't feel the need for such a thread and the kind of advice usually given, the more I have to look at according to other people, the less comfortable I will feel. And that's never good. I've also got no specific cake I'm aiming at currently, or none you're supposed to know about. :eyebrows:

[SeekerDK]

Great advise Kevit, just wanna add some commentaries.


1. Do NOT talk about medical conditions or medications. Unless it's really obvious like an asthma inhaler, your date doesn't need to know you are a psycho that was just released from the hospital mental ward a week ago and are on six different medications at the same time. Total date killer.

2. If such a topic comes up, avoid correcting them. Rather, change the topic. This is the polite way of saying "STFU, n00b!"

LOL.. Funny story. My last serious relationship started out with her telling me that she was borderline and me japing on about what a nerd i was. We stayed together for 1½ years and are still good friends today :2thumbsup:

But normally, yeah, it can be a real buzz killer, thou not something "normal" people make a habit of. To add to me previous post on showing your weakness, it a definite NO-NO, to talk about creepy/scary/disgusting stuff about you self. Bad habits can be a conversation starter, but there is a major difference between admitting that you bid your nails (don't bring it up on less she asks) and admitting that you bid you toe-nails, if you catch my drift.


3. Lay out your intentions from the start. If the date is supposed to be romantic, ask the other party if they kiss on the first date. This way you wont feel embarrassed or disappointed if they turn you down later on because you didn't ask and they didn't feel like it.

Ehhmm. It might be a culture thing, but in that particular question came up in a date in Denmark, it would be pretty awkward. Kissing a very natural part of a date and it would be sort of like asking the obvious. It can how ever be used if you are REALLY nervous and can't seem to get a chance to plant that first kiss. But defiantly not the best way to display you confidences in your self.

Thou I actually tried once, asking her if she had sex on the first date. She laughed and refused to answer, but it was defiantly not the worst question I asked a girl on a first date (and turned out she did :)
Mind you, that one only work with some girls and can easily back-fire. You might wanna save it till you turn 20 or something.


6. Smile and make eye contact. It says to your date, "I'm friendly, and I'm interested in you." Don't overdo it. You don't want to look like a creepy stalker.

7. Tap your chin in thought when your date is speaking. This subtly tells the other party, "I'm interested in what you are saying and taking in every word."

Great advise.
Additions:
Remember to blink!
If the eye contact gets wierd, there is an alternative to just looking away (which might not always be the best move, if the starring has already gone sour). Try a wink, a smile or if you have good facial muscle control in tight situations, a funny face - "sexy pout" or something (- not sure about that word.. Look it up in the dic, but have never heard it before).
Objective is to make her smile. If she doesn't, you failed: Look away and take a fast sip of you drink.

Follow-up questions are always a winner. I have most success with not telling anything about my self that she don't ask (other then SMALL anecdotes and personal experiences that fit the conversation), but it might just be a skill that I don't have (when I try, I usually end up talking about work, computers or M2TW :)


Anyway, I think SeekerDK's idea is the best. It's different enough to work but not in the geeky way (which is instant fail at 16).

Yeah! Freudian puns are the best :laugh4:

[Lemur]

For some reason, Kekvit Irae's post puts me in mind of a famous CraigsList posting (http://www.ofuzi.com/2007/05/27/i-need-an-unstable-woman-for-a-drama-filled-relationship/):

I need an unstable woman for a drama filled relationship

Hi there,

I’m seeking a like-minded woman to share a disastrous 3-9 month relationship with, ending in acrimony, emotional chaos, and possibly legal proceedings.

My name is Lloyd, I live in Chicago , I’m 27 years old, fairly well educated, I hold down a good job and am pretty stable. I’m told I’m fairly good looking, but I’ll let you be the judge of that - I’m generally caring and very honest.

I am looking for an attractive female who will at first give me obsessive love, praise and devotion - but whose paranoia, self-loathing and fear of rejection and abandonment will eventually lead her to alternately push me away and pull me closer in a love/hate cycle that will lead to infidelity, consensual sexual violence, and the eventual emotional breakdown of one or other party - or if we’re lucky - both!

You should:

* be 20 to 35 years old;
* have a history of short, intense, drama-driven relationships;
* enjoy degrading and dehumanizing sex;
* have undergone negative psychiatric evaluations in the past; and
* be willing to threaten self-harm and/or annihilation as a weapon to control your partner and make them stay with you and care for you.

Although not completely necessary, I would prefer women:

* with nice smiles;
* that have larger than average breasts;
* who are married or already in unstable relationships;
* that drink to forget; and
* who have had a previous established diagnosis of Borderline or Dependent Personality Disorder or Bi-Polar Affective Disorder - or who are currently taking Lithium Carbonate, SSRIs, or Tri-cyclic antidepressants

If you think you meet these requirements (and wow, I’m getting excited just writing them!), please don’t hesitate to get back to me as soon as possible. In the meantime, thank you for reading my advert, and do take care.

All the best,

Lloyd

ps This advert is in recognition of the big neon sign on my forehead that everyone else can see except me.

[Kekvit Irae]

When in doubt, you can always fall back on the time-proven method of naked jumping jacks.

[Rodion Romanovich]

1. Do NOT talk about medical conditions or medications. Unless it's really obvious like an asthma inhaler, your date doesn't need to know you are a psycho that was just released from the hospital mental ward a week ago and are on six different medications at the same time. Total date killer.

That is, if you're below 80. If you're older than 80, you should open the date not with "hi! you're looking terrific!" but "hi! I can see you've really taken your medication!"



3. Lay out your intentions from the start. If the date is supposed to be romantic, ask the other party if they kiss on the first date. This way you wont feel embarrassed or disappointed if they turn you down later on because you didn't ask and they didn't feel like it.

That is good. If you only look for sex, for example, just go around asking for sex. From what I've heard, all who tried it asked on average 20 girls before successful, at a cost of less than 5 slaps in the face.



6. Smile and make eye contact. It says to your date, "I'm friendly, and I'm interested in you." Don't overdo it. You don't want to look like a creepy stalker.

Here I must add, keep the eye contact relatively steady! Don't move the eyes around quickly, including turning away from the date and looking behind you. If you're worried about the voices behind you, bring a mirror that you can discretely hide in your palm!



7. Tap your chin in thought when your date is speaking. This subtly tells the other party, "I'm interested in what you are saying and taking in every word."
Yes, and I always find myself saying the "mmmhmm"s too close together that it sounds unnatural. Try to space the mmmhmms a bit more, and learn a list of synonyms to mmmhmm so that it doesn't sound too monotone. It doesn't matter if you're really listening - what matters if it sounds like you're listening. Nothing sucks so bad as if you're a really honest person that REALLY listens, and the date believes you're not.

8. for all eventualities, bring your spiked club. But don't make the common beginner mistake of keeping it visible! Hiding it in a long bag with the same shape doesn't work either! Try to hide it in a briefcase and don't look at the briefcase nervously at any time during the date!

[Kekvit Irae]

Trying not to turn this into a backroom discussion, another topic of discussion to avoid on a first date is religion. Unless you both go to the same place of worship and you both know what each other denominations are, avoid bringing the subject up. The first date is supposed to get the other party interested in you, not what you believe in. Once they are very interested in you, great differences like religions will seem smaller.

Take my own example as a date killer:
Them: "I go to a Church of Christ university. So, what church do you go to?"
Me: "...well my parents were Methodist, so I used to go to the First Methodist Church."
Them: "Used to? You don't anymore? Well, I'm afraid that I can't be involved with someone who is going to hell."
Me: "...check, please!"


Topics to encourage are random trivia facts. Use these to get a better judge of what kind of conversationalist your date is, and modify your conversation to suit. If your date is a History major, you've already got your foot in the door from going to a forum that is based around Total War. If your date enjoys movies, pop in a Casablanca (or other classic movie) quote or two, and your date will be swooning in no time (I know I will).
However, this is a double-edged sword as well. If your date is not exactly Einstein, modify your trivia to be more along the lines of something that everyday people can relate to, like local sports or such. The point of this is to not make your date feel intellectually inferior and to better get to know his/her habits and hobbies.

[Husar]

How about grammar? ~D

[Marshal Murat]

Who grammar needs?

[Rodion Romanovich]

It's more ipmortannt wid speling!

[Husar]

I meant grammar as a discussion topic for the first date. ~;)

There's nothing like telling her how bad the grammar of her last boyfriend was in those love letters he sent her. :sweatdrop:

[pevergreen]

:laugh4:

I think mine went well. just bummed round her place for 6 1/2 hours.

Spent 40 minutes in each others arms :smitten:

Be honest with each other is some of my best advice. If you dont like something she does, and it wont cause massive problems, let her know.
(she uses myspace a lot, i hate myspace. neither of us mind much)

Things like that. We later spent another 30 minutes leaning out a window talking about things, just being close to one another.

Now I remember why i liked relationships :laugh4:

[Husar]

[QUOTE=pevergreen]6 1/2 hours.
[...]
Spent 40 minutes
[...]
another 30 minutes/QUOTE]

Either she has many clocks or you had nothing better to do than count the seconds. ~D

J/k, good to hear you enjoyed it. :2thumbsup:

[CountArach]

I think mine went well. just bummed round her place for 6 1/2 hours.
Wow, that's stamina...

[naut]

:laugh4:

[pevergreen]

Wow, that's stamina...
:laugh4:

*Punches on arm*

Will post a picture of us when i remember to bring a camera.


None of that either CA....

[Vuk]

lol, pevergreen, I had no idea that Aussies dated. :P (See what a bubble I've been living in ~;))
:P

Speaking of dates, here's something kewl. My gf and I are going around town Halloween night (after school and work), and terrorizing a late night restaurant. :P We made the most gruesome costumes that you have ever seen. :P Loads of fake blood, slit throats, nails through fingers, the works. :P
Never done this before (it was her idea), so it could be fun. :P
Vuk

[naut]

Will post a picture of us when i remember to bring a camera.
I hope you don't mean a picture of you "bumming round". :fainting:

[CountArach]

I hope you don't mean a picture of you "bumming round". :fainting:

None of that either CA....
:bow:

[pevergreen]

:laugh4:

....:laugh4:

It was normal, just having nothing to do.

I will refrain from more use of that word, lest a close become upon us.

[Sarathos]

Ah pever you smoothy... But I reckon first dates shouldnt be too intense. pev's was ok but if you go in too hard too early could be a bit risky. My first date was us sitting in my room doing 'biology' which involved my bed and various awkward poitions......Im still not quite sure how that came to pass but hell, with an amazing girlfriend like mine it was the best study lesson ever. Recommedned :2thumbsup:

Sadly mine was only 4 hours. :shame:

[CountArach]

My first date was us sitting in my room doing 'biology' which involved my bed and various awkward poitions......
I shall refrain from commenting, but I think that everyone knows what should be inserted here

[Sarathos]

Such as..?

[SeekerDK]

Such as..?
Anatomy?

[Sarathos]

:laugh4:

[pevergreen]

Ah yes.

Though it wasnt quite like that, according to your earlier tale Sarathos.

As at that point, she was still going out with Killfr3nzy....

[CountArach]

Such as..?
Choo! Choo! It's the clue train! Last stop - YOU!

[Husar]

Ah yes.

Though it wasnt quite like that, according to your earlier tale Sarathos.

As at that point, she was still going out with Killfr3nzy....
:drama3:

I can already see out very own .org soap opera. ~D

[pevergreen]

I like to keep it clean, so the respectable lady in question will not be referenced by myself anymore.

Basically, I know that Killfr3nzy and Twilightblade do not read this thread.

Myself and Sarathos are not happy about their actions towards Ms. Sarathos.

We are doing something about it.

End of story :beam: (no violence.)

[Sarathos]

As at that point, she was still going out with Killfr3nzy....

No that was two times before. In the month she had been at my house 3 times: First time she was with killfrenzy, Second she was single and Third time was accepted me. I do have morals....


Choo! Choo! It's the clue train! Last stop - YOU!

Yay train ride!!!!! :2thumbsup:

[pevergreen]

My mistake

:bow:

Update from my side:

After letting parents know i was with this wonderful lady, dad had a nice rage at me for lieing to him. (Instead of saying i was at her house for that period of time on saturday, i was at "Sarathos's") Parents have justed invited us out to dinner.

:shrug: Might go, might not. After her pestering me to tell my parents, im now waiting on her to tell hers. :grin2:

[naut]

Big mistake pever, you've got get your parents to trust you. And then they'll let you do pretty much anything. (Well mine do anyway).

[woad&fangs]

drat, drat, drat. I Can't seem to find 5 minutes to talk to the girl alone and ask her out.

[Kekvit Irae]

drat, drat, drat. I Can't seem to find 5 minutes to talk to the girl alone and ask her out.

Chloroform. :tongueg:

[woad&fangs]

Chloroform. :tongueg:
:laugh4:

[pevergreen]

Hmm, most likely we will spend the night at my place...well until 11 or so :no:

[naut]

Chloroform. :tongueg:
:laugh4:

Best used in the phrase: Excuse me Miss but does this dirty rag smell like chloroform to you?

[CountArach]

Chloroform. :tongueg:
:laugh4:

:gorgeous: + :zzz: = :knuddel:

[Craterus]

Chloroform. :tongueg:

Never seen a woman advocate that tactic before... :speechless:

[Sarathos]

Never seen a woman advocate that tactic before.
Thats cause they're that only ones who know it works, they just don't let on.

[pevergreen]

That was a fun time :grin2:

She just left.

Details? Not PG-13, so I cant state :tongue:

Take that Sarathos >_>

[naut]

Details? Not PG-13, so I cant state
So you're saying you used the chloroform idea then.

[Husar]

I'd prefer the club method, like real cavemen do.

[Beefy187]

Ok this is not for me.. Its for my friend I swear (Pever and Sarathos can confirm that Im not the type of guy who goes out with someone):sweatdrop:

Apparently this guy is having trouble asking out a girl. Last time he was just 2 seconds away from asking and her friend randomly decided to join the conversation...

So he asked me if I know any cunning tactic to create a situation with just him and the girl he likes.

Thanks for help:beam:

[Husar]

So he asked me if I know any cunning tactic to create a situation with just him and the girl he likes.
Club or chloroform as mentioned already, depending on what kind of guy he is.

Apart from that, that's a good question, you can get most girls alone after stalking them for a while. ~;)
Otherwise he'd have to create the situation himself, say, by inviting her somewhere, but then that's already a semi-date once he tells her it will only be her and him. :sweatdrop:
Except maybe if they do their homework together or something.

[Somebody Else]

Ah... memories of the day my father met my first girlfriend. There he was, happily watching the news in the living room... We came down the stairs in dressing gowns, looking for breakfast. I rapidly ran into the kitchen, leaving them to it...

Also rohypnol

[Kekvit Irae]

Clubs leave nasty bruises that are just ripe for an assault charge.

[Husar]

Clubs leave nasty bruises that are just ripe for an assault charge.
Only if you're stupid enough to let her escape from your cave.

[woad&fangs]

Still trying to find a few minutes alone with her to ask her out. Luckily, tomorrow I'll be spending several hours with her and some friends so I should be able to get few minutes of that time alone with her.

[Sarathos]

I'd prefer the club method, like real cavemen do.Thats going a little bit primative isnt it Husar....?



Still trying to find a few minutes alone with her to ask her out. Luckily, tomorrow I'll be spending several hours with her and some friends so I should be able to get few minutes of that time alone with her.

Well that does sound promising and I hope it works. If her friends want her to go with him alone somewhere, just kinda move in and box them out, you got to be quick.

[woad&fangs]

I've was with her and some friends from around 8 in the morning until just about an hour ago and I didn't have any time alone with her to ask her out. I won't see her again until Monday. I'm going to call one of my friends and ask her for advice.

Not to bad though. I spent two months thinking that txtgirl just didn't want a relationship right then. Turns out that "I just want time to get things normal again," and "I don't think I'm ready for another relationship just yet" really mean "I just want to be friends". We're still friends though.

Having to wait a couple more days to ask out the girl I'm currently interested in isn't too bad.

[Decker]

I've was with her and some friends from around 8 in the morning until just about an hour ago and I didn't have any time alone with her to ask her out. I won't see her again until Monday. I'm going to call one of my friends and ask her for advice.

Not to bad though. I spent two months thinking that txtgirl just didn't want a relationship right then. Turns out that "I just want time to get things normal again," and "I don't think I'm ready for another relationship just yet" really mean "I just want to be friends". We're still friends though.

Having to wait a couple more days to ask out the girl I'm currently interested in isn't too bad.
Dude you should totally Josh her and tell her "hey I ned to ask you something privately," could work. I've never tried it, but if you have the personality(which I'm sure/hoping you have), you couldn't have a problem. Or if your friends are her friends(you guys just hung out all day together), then tell 'em you're gonna ask her out and that when the time comes you'll give em a sign if they are around and they'll leave so you whack her with your club, then chloroform her to make sure she's out, then take her to your cave and ask her out the right way:medievalcheers:.

No but really, good luck.

[woad&fangs]

Dude you should totally Josh her and tell her "hey I ned to ask you something privately," could work. I've never tried it, but if you have the personality(which I'm sure/hoping you have), you couldn't have a problem. Or if your friends are her friends(you guys just hung out all day together), then tell 'em you're gonna ask her out and that when the time comes you'll give em a sign if they are around and they'll leave so you whack her with your club, then chloroform her to make sure she's out, then take her to your cave and ask her out the right way:medievalcheers:.

No but really, good luck.

Just talked to my friend and she said basically the same thing(except without the club and the chloroform). She also said that she was surprised about who I like and didn't think she was my type(AKA not a crazy person), but then she changed the subject when I asked who she thought was my type.

[Husar]

but then she changed the subject when I asked who she thought was my type.
Hihihihi. :beam:

[naut]

she changed the subject when I asked who she thought was my type.
~:flirt:

[Killfr3nzy]

Either she thinks she is your type or that you would insulted by who she thinks your type is.
Also, I've found this thread a bit of an interesting read...'questions' shall be asked of Pever. Not so concerned about Sarathos, although I agree that it would probably be best if no-one showed the girl in question this thread.

Stay tuned for the next episode of 'Drama at the .Org'...
Killfr3nzy and Sarathos fight over Nameless'Girl in the school cafeteria, and will KP tell Pever about her kiss with Twilight?

[Kekvit Irae]

although I agree that it would probably be best if no-one showed the girl in question this thread.

Why not? Everyone can benefit from a good chloroform-induced naptime. :tongueg:

[woad&fangs]

Hehe, just talked to my friend again. She really was just surprised about who I like and nothing else but it did give me a fun hour of speculation.

*grabs a tub of popcorn*
I just love those Aussie comedies. I can't wait to see this one.

[CountArach]

Stay tuned for the next episode of 'Drama at the .Org'...
Killfr3nzy and Sarathos fight over Nameless'Girl in the school cafeteria, and will KP tell Pever about her kiss with Twilight?
Will KillFr3nzy find out that pever's baby isn't his? Will Twilight and Sarathos relieve the sexual tension? Stay tuned!

[woad&fangs]

This thread is hilarious. I added it to my sig.

[Killfr3nzy]

Will KillFr3nzy find out that pever's baby isn't his? Will Twilight and Sarathos relieve the sexual tension? Stay tuned!
I'm just glad I'm the man in this relationship.

Will Beefy ever find love? Will people finally stop mistaking him for Dennis?

[naut]

She really was just surprised about who I like and nothing else but it did give me a fun hour of speculation.
Sure she was.

[Sarathos]

Will KillFr3nzy find out that pever's baby isn't his? Will Twilight and Sarathos relieve the sexual tension?
No sorry, Twilight is with Killfrenzy. Well under Killfrenzy being his ****. And the only sexual tension between Twilight and I is when Im dead, yes Twilight swings that way.....

But thanks Killfrenzy for coming into the thread and completely screwing it up :2thumbsup:

Btw, that fight that is supposed to happen but wont, will be pretty one -sided so I really see no point. What do you have to fight over...?

(Language - Beirut)

[Beefy187]

Killfr3nzy managed to describe the relationship of Pever, TB, Sarathos, Killfr3nzy and Me in just 3-4 sentences

Quite impressive work there..:sweatdrop:

Im quite certain that I wont find me love unless someone smacks my head with a brick to change my persona (Im sure TB will be happy to hear that. He might prefer a axe though)

One thing I want to make it clear. If you make this "melodrama" messy then Beefy wont be happy. He shall chase peoples around with hordes of cows if he have to. :whip:


I was planning to tell my friend about the wonderful art of chloroform... This is the conversation we had

me: Heya. Have you asked her out yet?
friend: Nah not yet
Me: ok I got some ide...
Friend: she got grounded.
Me:.... Wow thats great.

Wish him luck... And wish you all happy bunch of lovers filled with future that it all works out:2thumbsup:

[Sarathos]

Killfr3nzy managed to describe the relationship of Pever, TB, Sarathos, Killfr3nzy and Me in just 3-4 sentences

He had babies with pever....??????


(Un-Frontroomish comments - Beirut)

[Beefy187]

He had babies with pever....??????

Yeah, thats only because he is overly sadistic and needs a smack in the head himself.....

Next week... Youll find out more about the 5 close friends... Did Killfr3nzy and Pever produce babies? Is that even possible?... Is what Sarathos said true?... Brandnew Org friends.. Coming back next monday

Bah I prefer House:sweatdrop:

Lets stop hijacking the topic guys and let others like Waldinger speak up:yes:

[pevergreen]

Hmmm...

(for reference KP is my lovely girlfriend, an ex student of our school [Myself, Twilightblade (TB), Killfr3nzy (KF), Sarathos and Beefy all attend the same school. Sarathos' current girlfriend is Killfr3nzy's ex, and Sarathos and I are not happy with the way KF and TB have been acting...)


KF and Sarathos in a fight? OOOooh, who would win...


So, TB, is there anything between you and KP?

Will there be a fight tomorrow? If so, who will win? Will Beefy be confused with Dennis?

[Beefy187]

I have a feelin that im slightly left out...

Theres 2 love fights going on... and theres me... people getting my names wrong because apparently all the asians looks the same:laugh4:

But seriously guys... If you want to keep ranting make a new thread (unless if everyone wants to see this new series of soap opera)
This topic is "ideas for a first date" not "how to choke your rival effectively"

[pevergreen]

I'll leave that up to the op, Waldinger.

[Killfr3nzy]

I have a feelin that im slightly left out...

Theres 2 love fights going on... and theres me... people getting my names wrong because apparently all the asians looks the same:laugh4:

But seriously guys... If you want to keep ranting make a new thread (unless if everyone wants to see this new series of soap opera)
This topic is "ideas for a first date" not "how to choke your rival effectively"
Step One) De-arm opponent. [Yes, 'de', not 'dis'.]
Step Two) Wrap legs in approximately ten feet of steel chain.
Step Three) Lock said chain.
Step Four) Proceed with Choking.

@Sarathos; Someone's a little touchy - and misinformed.
I did not add the bit about babies or the relationship between Pev and TB. I only added onto it.

Who would win in a fight?
To be perfectly honest, - unless you were really, really freaking angry at the time - me.
Situation;
Kill hands over money for his daily Breaker, then begins to walk towards the cafeteria entrance. Sarathos enters, sights Kill and storms over.
"Oi, Kill, what the hell was all that about my girl?" (This is an example of me using artistic licence; he doesn't actualy talk this way.)
Kill looks surprised.
"You have a girl now? Ooohh, you mean (girlsnamegoeshere)."
Sarathos gets in Kill's face.
"You wanna fight man, you wanna fight?!?"
"Not...really. I mean the school already offered to kick me out this year, which means I've fulfilled my quota, and if - "
The rest is cut off as Sarathos shoves Kill in the chest, hard. Kill, being naturaly weedy and unco, falls over. Unfortunately for Sarathos, Kill had already opened his Breaker, and it gets spilled in the fall.
*Breaker takes 5dmg from Sarathos, Breaker dies.*
Onlookers seem confused at the random WoW-style text hovering near the floor.
*Kill gains Flip-Out.*
"You spilled my ****** drink!!!"
Sarathos collapses backwards, holding his groin. Kill retracts his foot, gets up and finds the nearest chair, proceeding to beat Sarathos with it untill bystanders pry it from his hands.
*Kill looses Flip-Out; Sarathos gains Owned.*


THE END

(Language - Beirut)

[pevergreen]

Laugh!

Honestly, I'm fearing teh lock if i rebuke that indepth.
I can however point out the flaws:

You are the tallest out of all of us, Sarathos wouldnt act like that and there would be more people involved in it.

[Killfr3nzy]

You can get 'in the face' of someone taller than you; it just looks retarded, is all.
I know he wouldn't act that way, but it was a fight between me and him in a cafiteria; how likely is that to happen?
It's main point was that unless he started the fight prepared, my habit of escalating faster than everyone else would mean I win. Of course, he's normally too nice a guy to be physically violent anyway; fond (and vocal) reminiscing of 'Self Defence' classes with him always brings a smile.

[Sarathos]

@Sarathos; Someone's a little touchy - and misinformed.
I did not add the bit about babies or the relationship between Pev and TB. I only added onto it.

I didnt say you did, I simply added on to it too.

Well all that is true, I dont fight, but I still would like to know what we are fighting about...?

Even if there was a fight I wouldnt fight with anger (anger leads to the dark side) plus I dont go up to the cafe anyway, so it wouldnt happen there.

I think you underestimate me Killfrenzy, I can defend myself when need, and the bigger they are the harder they fall. (Those self-defence classes were trash, they seriously didnt nothing. Do 3 years and get a blue tip in Taekwon-do, then you can talk.

Until till you understand and respect your enemy, you will always lose.

[Killfr3nzy]

Did European settlers understand or respect aboriginies? I think not.
And who would you say has 'won' in this example?

I'm sure you can defend yourself, and if we were escalating at the same speed you'd definatly win, my point was that I tend to over-react.

Some news;
The 'fight' would be over your current- and my ex- girlfriend, and would be in the cafe because that's what I detailed in the first .Org Drama post.
My claim to your misinformation was when this happened -





Killfr3nzy managed to describe the relationship of Pever, TB, Sarathos, Killfr3nzy and Me in just 3-4 sentences

He had babies with pever....??????


Also, as Pever said, we should revert to topic, ie shut up, and/or create one for this purpose.
G'night all.

[pevergreen]

All right, stingy time.

One more post on this subject, and Im asking BKS and Beirut to hand out WP's to everyone involved, myself included if need be.

[Sarathos]

Way to ruin the fun pever.....:shame:

[Craterus]

It's a shame to see such a close-knit group of .Org members not being exactly friendly. ~:rolleyes:

[Rodion Romanovich]

Maybe they need a date together to sort it out? *desperate attempt to keep thread on-topic*

[Killfr3nzy]

An excellent school-cafeteria mass-date for us all?

[Caius]

An excellent school-cafeteria mass-date for us all?
Wow, I'm glad I don't have:
a-a gf
b-a gf who is the actual of a friend of mine
c-friends with gf's
d-friends of school here

So, I'm not good at this.

[Sarathos]

An excellent school-cafeteria mass-date for us all?

What is with you and the school cafeteria...:huh:

[Beefy187]

Maybe they need a date together to sort it out? *desperate attempt to keep thread on-topic*

No dw we are all close friend. Arent we lads?:whip:

Yea we are pretty close friends.. We just got twisted mind

But seriously unless our fellow Orgers are intrested we should stop posting about it. This can be settled easily in RL.

Killy No offence.. But if you got time to write up all this plz do finish the Castle. We are all waiting here:sweatdrop:

I agree Sarathos. Our school cafeteria is not exactly the best place to settle all this. We are rather shy arent we.
If we going to fully slap each other and chase each other around, best do it in more quiet place. Like in the library. (Just gotta avoid those librarian ppls)

And fellow orgers.. My apologies for us hijacking the thread. Plz dont let this thread die because of us.. since its a nice thread worth keeping it alive. :sweatdrop:

On behalf of my minions I apologize :bow:

[Andres]

Hah! You young whippersnappers already suffer from a lack of creativity on the first date :no:

Those youths nowadays ~:angry:


Does anyone have an idea for my 1.532nd date with my wife?

:creep:

[Beefy187]

Nice diner and a wine?:laugh4:

[Prodigal]

KP is my lovely girlfriend, an ex student of our school [Myself, Twilightblade (TB), Killfr3nzy (KF), Sarathos and Beefy all attend the same school. Sarathos' current girlfriend is Killfr3nzy's ex, and Sarathos and I are not happy with the way KF and TB have been acting...)


Which ones gonna turn out to be the long dead *fill in what here* who has had a full sex change & returned to wreak terrible vengance before revealing their true identity during the school-cafeteria mass date?

[pevergreen]

wreak terrible vengance before revealing their true identity during the school-cafeteria mass date?
Sounds like me.

who has had a full sex change
Beefy.

Honestly though, back on topic.

Get her friends on your side. If you can get their approval beforehand, then thats a step ahead. Especially if you cant get alone with her, let the people know beforehand. I had to do that yesterday.

story:
Went over to KP's house, had a swim, met one of her friends...who knew me. :confused: Apparently i went to school with her for six years. :shrug: Anyway, we were trying to get alone, so we could talk...:flirt: In a last ditch attempt we opted to go back to my place... She followed us. It took the dogs destroying KP's shoes and us going upstairs to find some she could borrow for us to be alone. I tell you... some people...

[woad&fangs]

Wow, just wow. Over the last day and a half I half been slowly having an epiphany and I have finally made sense of my feelings for the first time in a long time. I should have an interesting(and fairly long) story to tell when I get back tonight.

[Vuk]

A mini-van has other connotations... if this van is rocking don't come knocking.



...

?

[Kekvit Irae]

...

?

Allow me to translate:

"If this stationary semi-large automobile transport is moving due to sexual encounters within, please do not disturb the inhabitants."

[edyzmedieval]

Allow me to translate:

"If this stationary semi-large automobile transport is moving due to sexual encounters within, please do not disturb the inhabitants."

:laugh4: :laugh4: :laugh4:

[Vuk]

Allow me to translate:

"If this stationary semi-large automobile transport is moving due to sexual encounters within, please do not disturb the inhabitants."


...WOW!
The minds here at the Org...
~;) :P

[woad&fangs]

Okay, so I actually ended up asking out my friend who I asked for advice.~:flirt:

That is the short version of this tale. The long version could take me well over an hour to tell and all intermediate versions make no or almost no sense so I will leave it at this unless I get an evening with a lot of free time soon.
~:flirt:

[CountArach]

Allow me to translate:

"If this stationary semi-large automobile transport is moving due to sexual encounters within, please do not disturb the inhabitants."
Best explanation of it ever!
:laugh4: :laugh4: :laugh4: :laugh4:

[Decker]

Okay, so I actually ended up asking out my friend who I asked for advice.~:flirt:

That is the short version of this tale. The long version could take me well over an hour to tell and all intermediate versions make no or almost no sense so I will leave it at this unless I get an evening with a lot of free time soon.
~:flirt:
Split it up into posted segments in-between the 2-3 other conversations going on here. They'll be plenty of time my .org mate. That way, you don't have to make one mega huge post and everyone can wait for the next part...kinda like Harry Potter, if you get my drift.

[Husar]

I know what you mean Waldinger, maybe. :dizzy2:

[Boyar Son]

So just got here...

was there a flame just now??

(Language - Beirut)

[pevergreen]

Oh yes. But its over now... or it better be :evilgrin:

[Killfr3nzy]

Pever, not even your attempt to be a mini-mod could stop me flaming if I desired to, I just feel that Sarathos is a little sensitive on this topic...of course, these things can be hard to tell over the internets.

Also @ Waldinger; Ah-HAH! Thought something like this would happen.

[Beefy187]

I can ditch an episode of House for this thread:laugh4:

Plz do tell us about your tell Waldinger


Dear Pever

I may seem like a grumpy old fella who has no intrest in the opposite sex what so ever.... I may have never fell in love and I dont intend to for coming years... I may has more similarities to my mother then my father... I may be skinnier then you Pever.. Which is quite an achievement.. I may have a high pitched voice sometimes...

That doesnt make me a women does it?

[Sarathos]

Pever, not even your attempt to be a mini-mod could stop me flaming if I desired to.

Ah yes he probably could...the others mods like him, not you


I just feel that Sarathos is a little sensitive on this topic

Why do you care I feel? And Im not sensitive, Im just protective about the dignity of a certain woman who you never gave half about.
Also why do you feel I am too protective? You think I should just give up, slack off and not care like you d

My apologises pevergreen, ban me if you will.

[Cimmerian]

Aw, I feel so irrelevant in this conflict.

@ Waldinger - woo! woo! cheer! good work mate. Even if she turned you down(which doesn't sound like from what your wrote), good work, that takes courage!

[pevergreen]

It takes someone special like Cimmerian to make this topic go back on track, though i will ask a few things:


That doesnt make me a women does it?
If i ever implied you were female, it was by mistake. You are a great man Beefy, I respect you for your courage. :bow:

As to Killfr3nzy and Sarathos I again ask that you cease the fighting here. If it must happen, do it via insulting e-mails, txt messages or in real life. There comes a point where you have to take a stand. Doing that via these forums is not the best way to handle it. I suggest you both refrain from posting in this thread for a while, as well as using the "Ignore this User" function avaliable when you view that persons profile, so you can not see their posts.

Thank you, and good day. :bow:

[Cimmerian]

I heard a quote once that said: "Make love, not war"
Although, Im not sure how that would work for you guys... not to mention what <x> would have to say about it.

[Beefy187]

For all users of our school weve made a new forum so do your yapping there... No need to make a mess in front of fellow orgs

To get thing back on track.. My brother got rejected by person he likes (its quite an achivement... I thought he had no guts to ask people out like me)
Apprently the girl was recently dumped by other guy and she is in no mood to make a new relationship...how ever she did say "you seem to be a nice guy"

My brothers not that cut but I do like to cheer him up a little (We havnt had a decent conversation in ages so thats part of the reason) and give him some advice.

Could you help me out?:help:

[pevergreen]

For advice to him?

I cant really help you out there, I think you should just get him in your room and kick his ass (nicely) in Civ 4. Just become closer as brothers.

[Beefy187]

Its not the relationship issue. His in diffrent country and he attend uni there.. I just got something against skype so I just use msn and type/talk for 3 min (when I type I cant be my self.. So convo dies out in few min)

I thought cheering him up a bit would be nice to him... Especially when he has to spend almost all his time writing up essays.... And on the top of that getting rejected.

[Sarathos]

As to Killfr3nzy and Sarathos I again ask that you cease the fighting here. If it must happen, do it via insulting e-mails, txt messages or in real life.

Now where is the fun in that? Bringing it into real life is kinda making it personal, we all have our different opinions so why cant we express them? Agreed it is far off topic so I shall cease my rebellion.

Happy now pev?

[Cimmerian]

You could tell him that if you were the girl, you would have accepted him.

[pevergreen]

Thats a good idea Cimmerian, but slightly odd.

Still, better than anything i can think of :shrug:

[Beirut]

Does anyone have an idea for my 1.532nd date with my wife?

:creep:

Sit her in a chair and let her watch you clean the bathroom. She'll get more excited than taking a first date on your private Learjet to see your 1000 acre poodle puppy ranch in Barbados.

[pevergreen]

That may have a lot of truth to it beirut :bow:

[Beirut]

Gentlemen,

There are some very un-Frontroomish posts in this thread. Flames and threats are not allowed here.

The hostility stops now.

[Sarathos]

Of course, My apologies

[woad&fangs]

(My apologies to Waldinger. His post was deleted and should not have been - Beirut)

[Beirut]

Closed for review.