Relationship advice.

[pevergreen]

Title has nothing to do with thread.

Posts come from "Having a Good Day" thread:


I've had an odd day.

GF's friend confessed she wants to have sex with me. She just wants be to leave the girlfriend so she can do it.



As per the friend, having a talk with her now:

anna, affection effection and infection are completly different things, ill always love you louise, friends forever says:
i cant get you out of my head, i woke up this morning at 3.15
anna, affection effection and infection are completly different things, ill always love you louise, friends forever says:
and i was thinking of you


Ummm...I decided to tell the GF about it. I dont know how she is going to react. Apparently they are going shopping together on Sunday though.

EDIT:

anna, affection effection and infection are completly different things, ill always love you louise, friends forever says:
i think im actually falling for you



Wow new information:

W i t h e v e r y k i s s a n d e v e r y h u g Y o u m a k e m e f a l l i n l o v e says:
i think your cheeting on me with anna.



Wow. Unexpected.

W i t h e v e r y k i s s a n d e v e r y h u g Y o u m a k e m e f a l l i n l o v e says:
anna told me and you know what i really want to believe that shes lieing to me but i dont know anymore
I am the Fresh Prince of Bel-Air says:
well...she is
I am the Fresh Prince of Bel-Air says:
i cant do much more than say shes lying and i love you.
W i t h e v e r y k i s s a n d e v e r y h u g Y o u m a k e m e f a l l i n l o v e says:
how can i believe that shes my friend i just dont see why she would say something like that



Any ideas what to do?

@ Mods: Sorry for filling this forum up with worthless stuff that could be kept to somewhere else :shrug:

[Evil_Maniac From Mars]

Telling her what her friend said and why she is saying what she is now is probably the best route. Otherwise, her friend will keep lying and this may just get even worse. If your girlfriend cares about you, she'll understand you're telling the truth.

[Big King Sanctaphrax]

Hang on...so your GF's friend has told your GF that you're cheating on her with her, even though you aren't?

Wow. What a bunny boiler. I'd break off all contact with this psycho, and just continue telling your girlfriend the truth.

I edited the thread title.

[Veho Nex]

Back to sinans women are thread?

[Shahed]

I didn't read the other thread, but:

Did you actually do something with her ?
How long have they been friends ?
How long have you been with your girl ?

Just today a chick, who's a friend of a good female friend, called me (as I was expecting) and told me straight up that all it would take for me to sleep with her is that I don't tell our mutual friend and we do it away from town, so nobody else sees us together. I played along, and then refused. Why ? Because it's not the first time 2 chicks have tested me like that. "Check if he'll sleep with you and turn his back on me." My own personal reason for refusing is that I'd rather keep my very very good female friend (who obviously have her own sights on me) right where she is, in my friend zone. She knows I don't want sex from her, I like her as a friend. Not saying that is what IS happening here, just thought it's worth mentioning.

[Beirut]

Because it's not the first time 2 chicks have tested me like that. "Check if he'll sleep with you and turn his back on me."


I play it safe. From Day One I told Mrs. Beirut that I want to sleep with every woman I've ever met, including her sister, her best friend, and the waitress at that restaurant we went to on our first date. Preferably all at once.

Mrs. Beirut treats me like the pig that I am. Total honesty, no surprises. The basis of a steady relationship. ~:smoking:

[Shahed]

Way to go my friend.

[Myrddraal]

Just tell her everything straight and true.

If she believes your common friend above you, she doesn't love you.

[Decker]

I play it safe. From Day One I told Mrs. Beirut that I want to sleep with every woman I've ever met, including her sister, her best friend, and the waitress at that restaurant we went to on our first date. Preferably all at once.

Mrs. Beirut treats me like the pig that I am. Total honesty, no surprises. The basis of a steady relationship. ~:smoking:
:laugh4:

Funny tho is that it sounds like me and my gf.... except that I haven't told her that I'd sleep with her best friend, no sister, and definitely NOT the waitress at the restaurant from our first date haha... cuz she'd prolly slit my throat

[Mouzafphaerre]

I play it safe. From Day One I told Mrs. Beirut that I want to sleep with every woman I've ever met, including her sister, her best friend, and the waitress at that restaurant we went to on our first date. Preferably all at once.

Mrs. Beirut treats me like the pig that I am. Total honesty, no surprises. The basis of a steady relationship. ~:smoking:
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:laugh4: :2thumbsup: :grin2:
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[Caius]

Mrs. Beirut treats me like the pig that I am. Totalhonesty, no surprises. The basis of a steady relationship
Brutal Honesty, I'd say.

I think others had said: Tell her the whole truth. I know you and other orgahs (including me) that prefer the whole truth, no matter if it hurts. If you prefer the truth, then tell the truth.

[Beirut]

Any ideas what to do?


Yes.

It might not be your best bet, but when I was having a problem with my three-women-ago woman, I gave her The Speech.

''Look at the wall. You see that rectangular thing on it with a window and a handle? It`s called a door. It`s used when you want to leave. Now either stay because you want to or get out because you want to, but don`t stand in the middle of the doorway blabbering on about this *******.''

Mind you, you should only say something like that if you're prepared for either eventuality.

(In case you`re curious, she stayed.)

[SwordsMaster]

Yes.

It might not be your best bet, but when I was having a problem with my three-women-ago woman, I gave her The Speech.

''Look at the wall. You see that rectangular thing on it with a window and a handle? It`s called a door. It`s used when you want to leave. Now either stay because you want to or get out because you want to, but don`t stand in the middle of the doorway blabbering on about this *******.''

Mind you, you should only say something like that if you're prepared for either eventuality.

(In case you`re curious, she stayed.)

Amen to that. This is generally good advice anyway. Only ever offer anyone choices if you're ready for all outcomes.

That being said, I had women shout "I hate you" and then drag me on to the bed and do unspeakable things to me. And then afterwards tell me she hates me again....

Womenz...

[Shahed]

Excellent.
That right there is an attraction switch: the willingness to walk away.

[Beirut]

That being said, I had women shout "I hate you" and then drag me on to the bed and do unspeakable things to me. And then afterwards tell me she hates me again....

Sweet! ~:smoking:

I like the ''women'' part, plural. I've certainly had women tell me they hate me, but they have never, as a group, laid siege to my fragile self afterwards.

Must be the surfboard.

[LeftEyeNine]

Excellent.
That right there is an attraction switch: the willingness to walk away.

"The runner gets chased" we call it :bow:

[Mouzafphaerre]

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We also say ":daisy: isteyen :daisy: :daisy: yakın durur" but that's barely relevant. :kiss:
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[pevergreen]

I didn't read the other thread, but:

Did you actually do something with her ?
How long have they been friends ?
How long have you been with your girl ?

No. I dont know, I think 18 months. I have known the friend for about 10 years. (Went to school with her until year 5, then met her again last year) and ive been just under 4 months with the gf.


''Look at the wall. You see that rectangular thing on it with a window and a handle? It`s called a door. It`s used when you want to leave. Now either stay because you want to or get out because you want to, but don`t stand in the middle of the doorway blabbering on about this *******.''

i like it. I think the gf is over it though.

Thanks guys.

[Sarathos]

Pever, do you know for a fact that you Gf is over it? Because I wouldn't just assume so, just because she don't talk about it doesn't mean that she is over it. Women brood a lot and tend to keep extreme feelings (i.e. pain) concealed. I would make sure she is ok because the last thing you want is this whole misunderstanding coming back to bite you.

[pevergreen]

Remind me to talk to you about this Sarathos. Remember, last time we talked on this topic, I was giving the advice, you didnt like it, so you left.

[SwordsMaster]

Sweet! ~:smoking:

I like the ''women'' part, plural. I've certainly had women tell me they hate me, but they have never, as a group, laid siege to my fragile self afterwards.

Must be the surfboard.

Hehe. The plural makes it sound too spectacular I think. I must clarify there weren't plural women there simultaneously, but rather 2 separate incidents of this, similar in execution, different in circumstancial circumstances.

Don't tell Beirut I secretly :listen: envy his axe.

[Sarathos]

Remind me to talk to you about this Sarathos. Remember, last time we talked on this topic, I was giving the advice, you didnt like it, so you left.

I do not remember such an event Pever, please do remind me.

[pevergreen]

I made a joke. You told her the joke and then: "thanks to me and a little help from you i just completely ****** my relationship"

Then you went on about how she didnt trust you etc etc.


i dont give a **** what the hell we agree on
i disagree that she thinks she can have all the love to herself
its not all about her
i deserve some too seeming i am doing most of it

My advice was: Stop disagreeing with her. She is right. :laugh4:

[LeftEyeNine]

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We also say ":daisy: isteyen :daisy: :daisy: yakın durur" but that's barely relevant. :kiss:
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...reminds me of "Seversen :daisy:, :daisy: severler" and that's somehow related.

However I think we've gone too Turkish here. :kiss:

[Sarathos]

I made a joke. You told her the joke and then: "thanks to me and a little help from you i just completely ****** my relationship"

Then you went on about how she didnt trust you etc etc.

Oh, I remember that. but I still haven't given up my manhood, even to her. No one is always right.