How wrong is it to fall in love with a girl who has a boyfriend...

... and then try to seperate them or seduce her somehow? What if she is really beatiful?

Do what you want but you'll probably end up with your head and heart crushed but you'll never know until you try.

I did it once when I was in high school. It was fun at the time, but then she eventually broke it off with him after we did it a few times and left me for some other dude. Don't waste your time on cheaters. They will do the same to you. Its wrong because it tends to hurt you in the end.

2 cents from an old fogy in training.

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Originally Posted by Strike For The South

Do what you want but you'll probably end up with your head and heart crushed but you'll never know until you try.

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the worst thing is that I have to work with her for some project. I am not in love but I might lose control, cause she is just the right type but I I guess I can control it though...

Fart around her alot, then you won't have the issue anymore.

I believe it's wrong, for a few reasons:

1) If she's willing to do that, she's casual in that respect, or a slut. You don't want that.
2) If you go around trying to ruin their relationship, either you'll make both of them hate you, she'll refuse and not tell him, or you'll end up with a person who will change boyfriends at a whim, which you probably don't want.
3) It's just wrong. Think of how you would feel. It sounds like a cliche, but it's relevant.

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Originally Posted by TuffStuffMcGruff

Fart around her alot, then you won't have the issue anymore.

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great advice :yes:

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Originally Posted by Evil_Maniac From Mars

I believe it's wrong, for a few reasons:

1) If she's willing to do that, she's casual in that respect, or a slut. You don't want that.
2) If you go around trying to ruin their relationship, either you'll make both of them hate you, she'll refuse and not tell him, or you'll end up with a person who will change boyfriends at a whim, which you probably don't want.
3) It's just wrong. Think of how you would feel. It sounds like a cliche, but it's relevant.

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yeah maybe in time I might get my chance but then I can be with someone else but anyway I guess you're right

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Originally Posted by Mete Han

the worst thing is that I have to work with her for some project. I am not in love but I might lose control, cause she is just the right type but I I guess I can control it though...

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Dude after some trouble earlier in the year I had an ephinay and with it I realized Im the most enlightend man on the planet. there are plenty of girls out there you have to remeber two things.

1. Women are fickle evil creatures who do nothing but suck your life force. They lie cheat and steal they are the lowest form of human life. So just rember this

2. There will alwyas be another no matter what remeber that.

However this is countered by the fact

1. There soft

2. they smell nice

The most logical thing is of course to wait it out, which basically means you'll loose interest, and suddenly your problem is gone. And another girl will catch your interest.

If she breaks up with him on her own, on the other hand, just go for it. Also, if he seems to be a terrible boyfriend (from a neutral perspective) then you could probably justify it.

Why don't just leave her alone? Go to the plaza, go out to discos or something. You will find something better.

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Originally Posted by Evil_Maniac From Mars

If she breaks up with him on her own, on the other hand, just go for it. Also, if he seems to be a terrible boyfriend (from a neutral perspective) then you could probably justify it.

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I don't know the guy and actually I just met her a few hours ago... probably in the morning I'll feel nothing. but she is really sweet with fair hair and green eyes and every sweet little thing. She ain't sexy though, she is actually sweet and beatiful.

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Originally Posted by Strike For The South

1. Women are fickle evil creatures who do nothing but suck your life force. They lie cheat and steal they are the lowest form of human life. So just rember this

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I guess this is the exact reason I want to go for it, You know have fun for a few when you are really in love and then get rid of her. I hate attachment and the dark side of my personaility is that when someone starts to control me I want to destroy them in any context.

Yes women suck your life force, and they don't even respect total war!!!

Hey! Adultery and relationship destruction, even in the conspiratorial stage, are Frontroom affairs. :inquisitive:

If loving you is wrong, I don't wanna be right ...

Dont think about him - think about her. Opponent does not exist - objective is important.

i wouldn't call it "wrong" per se. but it is poor form, imo, and something i'd never want to do to a good relationship.

but listen to Tuff. if she'll bail on him for you, she's not worth any emotional attachment on your part.

Nothing wrong. Treat her as a friend, invite her along to things, stay friends. If she likes you she's sure to show it, then it's up to you what to do with that.

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Originally Posted by Beirut

Hey! Adultery and relationship destruction, even in the conspiratorial stage, are Frontroom affairs. :inquisitive:

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But It doesn't fit at all.

Women who cheat are nothing but trouble. Best thing you can do is get her out your head or atleast wait until they break it off.

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If she's willing to do that, she's casual in that respect, or a slut. You don't want that.

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Why not ? sluts are fun .

Pile-drive her, then give her the people's elbow. If she doesn't tell on you, then you'll know she's true.

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Originally Posted by Tribesman

Why not ? sluts are fun .

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I mean he doesn't want that for a lasting relationship. I'm not even going to presume that he's going think about breaking up a relationship just for a night with her, because I don't believe he's selfish, at least not to that rather extreme extent.

If she were single, that would be another matter.

Be Friendly around her, if she wants to hang out, only hang out casually, reject her advances. If she wants to hang out and her boyfriend is with her, be the bigger better man. If she loves her boyfriend she won't try anything, if she's with him because she doesn't know what to do, then she'll be honest and forthright. You need to gauge her reactions, and read them very..very carefully. Or if you the Seducer Type just have your fling and be done with her... after all you won't have to deal with the consequences unless her boyfriend happens to be the violent jealous type (like me):beam:

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Originally Posted by Tribesman

Why not ? sluts are fun .

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Originally Posted by Lord Winter

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I don't think I've ever seen the equation so succinctly summed up. :smile:

If it's a friend of you it's wrong, otherwise fair game

Sound advice all round. And completely useless, at least when you're madly in love and not a complete weasel. Go for her, I say, even if it is mission impossible.

It doesn't sound like she's a slut at all. Besides, sluts can be fun indeed, Foxache. :yes: