Generals wont marry

I might be posting in the wrong forum so punt me over there if i'm wrong. But i'm using the newest LTC mod with my M2TW:Kingdoms game and i'm having a coupla issues.

I'm a roleplayer who doesn't like going on conquering sprees. I rather like letting my enemies build up and then tearing them a new one during the late era when i have full access to all the gunpowder goodies facing a full array of badass late era units (Gothics, Musketeers, Janissarys, etc etc).

I know there's a limit on the # of generals where you can't have any babies when you have too many generals running around in relation to the number of cities you control. So i'm pretty ruthless in culling the truly incompetent and the old from my family trees and try my best to maintain a 2 generals to 3 city ratio (promotes quicker marriages and manageable amount of heirs, i use give_trait alot when i don't want a general to produce any more kids, neutering them so to speak). I tend to find when i maintain said ratio my generals get wives in a decent timeframe (when their in their baby producing prime from 20-30). However in my current game i'm having some serious wive finding issues where my horde of young bachelors are NOT marrying. And if they dont marry then they cant produce kids, and while i dont mind if a few remain unmarried right now it's nearly my entire current crop of pre 35s who have been unmarried for a long time (like 10-15 turns of no elgible woman to be found). Now i guess i can keep playing this out but its starting to bother me. I had everything humming along nicely where my bachelors were getting married at random times from 16-30 and me allowing them to produce a kid or two depending on how badass they are (sorta like Dune's Bene Gesserit). But now my neat family trees where i spent ALOT of time grooming are in peril of getting mucked up in a bad way.

Anyone know a fix to get them woman to love my poor men again? And no, they're not all flaming homosexuals, i woulda give_traited it outta most of em except for a couple just to check if they say anything different in prebattle speeches :P

Yeah having the same problem with unpatched M2TW original, ive conquered the British Isles, France and Denmark+Germany but none of my generals will get married. I wanted my King to get married so badly i had to marry him to a none charm Sicilian wretch, that is how bad it is getting. Its very annoying the fact that half of my continental Europe cities dont have a general and im still not getting any marriage proposals, I would get English princesses to marry into my family but i dont have any, and my youngest most capable generals are growing old very quickly.