I tend to annoy people

Hello guys,

it is me in a bad humour, or are the others? I don't figure that question by myself. Looks like everything I say, I do, I think, I hide, I don't say, I don't do seems wrong. If I say it, someone will stare and me and say how wrong I am. If I dont, why the hell didn't you say it?. If I do something, it may be wrong. If I don't do something, what are you waiting for?

I just don't understand people. People are untouchable, while I can be scum and be treated in a bad fashion. I just want to understand why?

Thanks for the mini rant and freedom of speech here.

Cheers

Caius.

You need to give us some details if we can say anything helpful.

Maybe it's not as bad as you think, sometimes people get paranoid with these things and blow them up in their mind when they get upset, but when you put it in perspective it's not so bad...

I annoy people as well, but who needs people.

so basically youre saying how you think you do nothing right.
join the club my friend. :2thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by Caius

Hello guys,

it is me in a bad humour, or are the others? I don't figure that question by myself. Looks like everything I say, I do, I think, I hide, I don't say, I don't do seems wrong. If I say it, someone will stare and me and say how wrong I am. If I dont, why the hell didn't you say it?. If I do something, it may be wrong. If I don't do something, what are you waiting for?

I just don't understand people. People are untouchable, while I can be scum and be treated in a bad fashion. I just want to understand why?

Thanks for the mini rant and freedom of speech here.

Cheers

Caius.

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Well, like Rhy says, it's kind of hard to tell what your problem is (even if there is one). However, one thing I have learned is that consistancy is good. Myself, I'm a terrible lier, so I make a virtue of being honest all the time, even to a fault.

Of course, I'm a bad lier because I think lieing is wrong to begin with.

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Originally Posted by Hooahguy

so basically youre saying how you think you do nothing right.
join the club my friend. :2thumbsup:

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Exactly, that is my problem.

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Originally Posted by Caius

Hello guys,

it is me in a bad humour, or are the others? I don't figure that question by myself. Looks like everything I say, I do, I think, I hide, I don't say, I don't do seems wrong. If I say it, someone will stare and me and say how wrong I am. If I dont, why the hell didn't you say it?. If I do something, it may be wrong. If I don't do something, what are you waiting for?

I just don't understand people. People are untouchable, while I can be scum and be treated in a bad fashion. I just want to understand why?

Thanks for the mini rant and freedom of speech here.

Cheers

Caius.

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l'Enfer, c'est les autres. 'Hell, that is the others'.

A famous saying by Jean-Paul Sartre. It is from his play 'Huis clos'. In which three people are locked in a house, a triple relationship, and turn the lives of the others into a hell.

The saying is oh so true. Hell is not an outside force, only people.



...then again, if hell is the making of people, then so is heaven. :sweatdrop:

There is no answer called "wrong" in what you say or think.
And the only completely wrong answer in do is taking the oppotunity for others to say, think or do.

This is because there is always a certain amount of correctness in every single thing.

If they get annoyed, that's their problem.

Thats what I think in this general issue.

I would like to know several examples that you experienced though.

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Originally Posted by pevergreen

I annoy people as well, but who needs people.

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Really? Wasn't I the one that was annoying you? IIRC, you were pretty pissed off, too.

Maybe you just care too much. I annoy some people and I really don't give a damn, can't get along with everybody.

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Originally Posted by Megas Methuselah

Really? Wasn't I the one that was annoying you? IIRC, you were pretty pissed off, too.

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I don't recall, but I can re-enact it if you want. :evilgrin:

But this is about our good friend Caius. :yes:

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Originally Posted by Caius

Hello guys,

it is me in a bad humour, or are the others? I don't figure that question by myself. Looks like everything I say, I do, I think, I hide, I don't say, I don't do seems wrong. If I say it, someone will stare and me and say how wrong I am. If I dont, why the hell didn't you say it?. If I do something, it may be wrong. If I don't do something, what are you waiting for?

I just don't understand people. People are untouchable, while I can be scum and be treated in a bad fashion. I just want to understand why?

Thanks for the mini rant and freedom of speech here.

Cheers

Caius.

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Well, look on the bright side. In this little corner of the internet, you're well-liked and respected; Caius the Bald. :yes:

If offline is different, who cares? Screw 'em. You're a good guy, and eventually people will see you for who you are.

It may be a phase, had about 3 years when certain types of people wanted to punch my lights out, no idea why, was no more or less obnoxious than before or after. Anyway it passed; also some days feel like people are laughing with you & others that they're laughing at you, just one of those oddities of life, (that or the FEAR). Best thing to do though is stop caring, take a deep breath & let it go, if nothing you do is condsidered right by other people, well that's their problem don't let them make it yours.

Ha, i am possibly the most obnoxious person in the world. I'm a self proclaimed arse and i have LOTS of friends. Trust me, if I can have friends so can you.

Your body is probably going through some changes right now and you feel self-conscious....... I kid you. Trust me, aside from Hitler , Hussein, Mao, Jeffy Domer, Custer, the devil. I honestly do not think there is a single person (or entity) ever in the history of earth who is not liked by someone, so i think you just misunderstood somebody.

Need more information. Lots of teenagers are jerks. Can't give answer without knowledge on additional variables.

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Originally Posted by a completely inoffensive name

Need more information. Lots of teenagers are jerks. Can't give answer without knowledge on additional variables.

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Oh?

Most people annoy me to be honest, including a fair number on this forum and this thread, but they don't annoy me enough to care about them.

So, worry about the people you like, if you don't like them why bother?

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Originally Posted by a completely inoffensive name

Need more information. Lots of teenagers are jerks. Can't give answer without knowledge on additional variables.

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How sadly true :no: Teens are people in transition, to a higher state (hopefully). Judged harshly, they should not. I cut other presumably teenage forumers slack if I see that they annoy people but not on purpose.

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Originally Posted by GeneralHankerchief

Well, look on the bright side. In this little corner of the internet, you're well-liked and respected; Caius the Bald. :yes:

If offline is different, who cares? Screw 'em. You're a good guy, and eventually people will see you for who you are.

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My thoughts exactly.

Don't worry, Caius. You're a more than decent fellow. And don't take things too seriously.

Everyone is annoying at some point.
Gandhi annoyed the heck outta the Brits, Nelson Mandela pissed off the South Africans, Martin Luther King Jr. all the bigoted whites. Just as long as you don't get shot, you're golden.

Annoying people doesn't end with your teen years, you should learn to wear it as a badge of honor, if you didn't annoy some people, then you're most likely going to be a bland, mediocratic, ingrate that really doesn't have anyone who appreciates you.

I annoy my wife on a daily basis, but she annoys me as well. We often annoy each other so badly that we just want to be left alone for a little while. and I don't think I'd want it even slightly different, if we didn't annoy each other, things would never get done.

So take heart my Argentine compadre, what may now be a weapon best used for bludgeoning, and pretty much swings on it's own, will eventually turn into a foil, and can be used with deft precision to get the things out of people that will allow you to be successful.

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Originally Posted by Marshal Murat

Everyone is annoying at some point.
Gandhi annoyed the heck outta the Brits, Nelson Mandela pissed off the South Africans, Martin Luther King Jr. all the bigoted whites. Just as long as you don't get shot, you're golden.

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Yeah, which is why Martin Luther Jr. got bombed. Now he's golden!

I'm just saying that not getting shot is a good policy, in general. But people do annoying things all the time.

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Everyone is annoying at some point.
Gandhi annoyed the heck outta the Brits, Nelson Mandela pissed off the South Africans, Martin Luther King Jr. all the bigoted whites. Just as long as you don't get shot, you're golden.
Yeah, which is why Martin Luther Jr. got bombed. Now he's golden!

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He died from being shot in Memphis. And he was not in his home during the bombing in Birmingham. So, his family was bombed, he was shot.

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My ultimate vocation in life is to be an irritant, someone who disrupts the daily drag of life just enough to leave the victim thinking there's maybe more to it all than the mere hum-drum quality of existence.

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*Elvis Costello*:2thumbsup:

General Handkerchief annoys me when he goes into every Mafia game just spam posting "Lynch:Beskar". :cry:

Id bet that the majority of people on a internet gaming forum arent the type of people calling you wierd.

And as far as you being wierd goes. It could just be the way you talk, you might have a wierd habit that you dont know about or dont realize etc.

Theres also the slim chance that your just socially akward. I used to be like that, but miraculously found a group of friends and grew out of it.

OR the people around you are arse's and probaly should be shot in the kneecap for being such.