Modding the province-to-family-member-ratio

Hi all!
I'd really like to play with bigger families and therefore changing the province-to-family-member-ratio seems the right thing to do. Searching this forum i learned that this ratio is hardcoded. Since I've no programming skills (I usually only edit simple things like the character trait triggers...) my question is: does "hardcoded" mean it's not editable at all or just harder to edit? Has anybody ever done it or knows how it's done?
Thanks a lot in advance!

Hardcoded means it's not editable. Since Rome is written in C++, you can't decompile it. Therefore, unless you can write games in machine code (no one on the Earth can do that) it's totally uneditable.

*sigh*
too bad

Thanks for the answer!

Tobsen