Of course one can find anecdotes upon anecdotes of atrocity by the Ottoman Empire.
Doing this completely disregards the long running practice of the Ottoman Empire's toleration of others.
Like it has been mentioned beforehand, comparing the Ottoman Empire to modern day Western nations is certainly going to be in the favor of the latter. Even comparing the Ottoman Empire to the previous Arab-Islamic empires is going to show that the Ottomans were less 'benevolent' than their predecessors (if the Ummayads were able to conquer Constantinople in 717, one could be certain that their would be minimal bloodshed of civilians as not only was it the norm of the early conquests of Islam to be magnanimous to the conquered civilian population, but also due to the fact that the Caliph at this time, Umar II was the most benevolent of the Ummayad dynasty).
But what still remains, is the fact that both in theory and in practice, the Ottomans had a much more tolerant and 'benevolent' regime than any of its contemporaries.
Once again, nobody in this thread started off claiming that the Ottomans were 'benevolent', but rather, charges against the Ottomans were made which were inaccurate and responded to.