So I got sent home early today...

Using force to accomplish something is not a good Way. Rather than harm yourself with thoughts of violence and vengeance, consider how to better protect yourself from unjust aggression. Practice your zanshin; continuous awareness of yourself and your surroundings will go a long way in avoiding situations like the one you have described.

Nothing will frustrate an aggressor more than them not being able to harm you. Remaining calm and in total self control will frustrate them further. Many who resort to such aggression will quickly become disenchanted and look for easier prey. Consider learning how to neutralize aggressive energy by directing it in such a way that it does no harm, or when absolutely necessary, is redirected back at the aggressor.

The ultimate goal of an honorable warrior should always be to restore harmony. Sword of No Sword; win without aggression. An aggressor has already lost.

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he doesnt have a girlfriend, no girls like him

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Apparently, basically everyone who knows him thinks hes a lil beotch and isn''t surprised that he did what he did. He is now known school-wide as a coward and dishonorable ****.

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beat me plain and simple? no. I've already beat him "plain and simple" earlier this year. Obviously he didn't learn

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Why do you and the other fella have a disagreement in the first place? Is there trouble in paradise?

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I don't know TBH. Like I said, most people don't like him, and that's probably why. He's just a hostile person for no reason.

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Hmm... I wonder why...

If all hope is lost, ask uncle Beefy and his Yakuzas to help you out

Anyhow the fellow punched you first instead of punching few hundred other school mate of yours.
There must be a reason why he hates you.

Be careful though. He can't win against you in a fight head on, and if this assault didn't satisfy him. He try to kill you next time.

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If all hope is lost, ask uncle Beefy and his Yakuzas to help you out

Anyhow the fellow punched you first instead of punching few hundred other school mate of yours.
There must be a reason why he hates you.

Be careful though. He can't win against you in a fight head on, and if this assault didn't satisfy him. He try to kill you next time.

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Remember kids, school yard fights are always to the death.

Consider legal avenues as an outlet for your anger ; ie getting charges pressed and getting him forced to pay compensation for any medical costs, pain and suffering, etc.

Also, this guy's in JROTC? Could he not get kicked out for this?

CR

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beat me plain and simple? no. I've already beat him "plain and simple" earlier this year. Obviously he didn't learn, and decided that rather than try it again he would come up behind me. I will most certainly not try to get the drop on him like he did, because regardless of who he is I am honorable and I don't fight dirty.

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So if you already beat him up once before, what makes you think he will learn this time around?

I don't. But like I said, it'll make me feel better.

If it makes anyone feel better, my final decision will be based on what my girlfriend says about it. If she doesn't want me to I won't.

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If it makes anyone feel better, my final decision will be based on what my girlfriend says about it. If she doesn't want me to I won't.

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Wait, what?

First off, I didnt know you had one.
Second, dont let her control your life.
Based on everything Ive seen (Im a senior in HS and you seem to be a sophomore), HS relationships rarely last. I only know of one relationship which has lasted more than a year. So dont let her control your life until college (when relationships are more mature and more likely to last, maybe even end up in marriage)- at least.

Its your life. Not hers. You run it the way you want to.

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I don't. But like I said, it'll make me feel better.

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Beating the crap out of some person would probably make me feel better as well.

So would having sex with my friend.

Assault in the first case, rape in the second.

You may be in America, but you can't assault people because you feel like it.

You're showing the type of behaviour that gets you kicked out of anything that has discipline.

If you do it, you're no better than the guy at the end of this video:

Spoiler Alert, click show to read: 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPRX...has_verified=1

What that guy did at the end there left the man disabled.

think about that.

However, she is less likely to be subject to the derationalizing effects of emotions such as anger and hurt pride, and can make more sensible decisions. So I think it is a good idea.

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However, she is less likely to be subject to the derationalizing effects of emotions such as anger and hurt pride, and can make more sensible decisions. So I think it is a good idea.

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Do we even know what type of person his girlfriend is? For all we know, shes a "go get 'em tiger" person.

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Wait, what?

First off, I didnt know you had one.
Second, dont let her control your life.
Based on everything Ive seen (Im a senior in HS and you seem to be a sophomore), HS relationships rarely last. I only know of one relationship which has lasted more than a year. So dont let her control your life until college (when relationships are more mature and more likely to last, maybe even end up in marriage)- at least.

Its your life. Not hers. You run it the way you want to.

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It's not about controlling me and don't you dare think for a second that it is. I want her opinion on it and that weighs very heavily with me, and thus will probably be my decision on the matter.

And I quote:

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If it makes anyone feel better, my final decision will be based on what my girlfriend says about it. If she doesn't want me to I won't.

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Plus we didnt even know you had a girlfriend, so she clearly must be new.

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Plus we didnt even know you had a girlfriend, so she clearly must be new.

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Isn't it that Canadian lass that he met in Disneyland?

Im more curious as to why he didnt make a "I GOT A GIRLFRIEND" thread.

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Im more curious as to why he didnt make a "I GOT A GIRLFRIEND" thread.

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he was affraid if someone hit her

of course

Don't attract Megas to this thread -- oh, wait, I think it's already too late!

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Isn't it that Canadian lass that he met in Disneyland?

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Ah. Canadian, eh? Niiiiice.

*throws out condoms in the garbage*

Hey, PI, bro! Where does this girl of yours live? What province? City?

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Ah. Canadian, eh? Niiiiice.

*throws out condoms in the garbage*

Hey, PI, bro! Where does this girl of yours live? What province? City?

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Weird thing is, I could answer that...

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Weird thing is, I could answer that...

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Was it on Wikileaks?

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Weird thing is, I could answer that...

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tell me you didn't add her.



and she brought a very important issue to my attention: if i get in trouble for it with my parents, it might keep us from seeing eachother. so, as much as it hurts to not do anything, I'll back off. she really doesn't want me to, and I won't, plus now I have an excuse to tell people why I won't fight him.

hmm, your parents will intervene on your personal relationships? that was soo... good of them :grin:

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tell me you didn't add her.



and she brought a very important issue to my attention: if i get in trouble for it with my parents, it might keep us from seeing eachother. so, as much as it hurts to not do anything, I'll back off. she really doesn't want me to, and I won't, plus now I have an excuse to tell people why I won't fight him.

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Tell her I said, "Hi."

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she really doesn't want me to

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Tell your boyfriend not to fight the other kid

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Me and her run your life boy. :whip:

I didn't know Canada had dolphins...

pi you need to face the facts about this girl man jeez.

This thread makes me sad

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Me and her run your life boy. :whip:

I didn't know Canada had dolphins...

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Dude. I'm not even kidding. Do not. Talk to her. I care too much about this girl for some guy I know on an online forum to say something that could **** me over. Please, I am asking you from the bottom of my heart, do not be her friend on Facebook, and don't try to contact her.

Took a look at your FB page, PI.
You're a Taylor Swift fan?
You lost your man card.
Again.

Plus I see no reference to a girlfriend.
In fact, your profile pic is of you and those cheerleaders. How does your GF feel about that? Or is your GF one of them?

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Took a look at your FB page, PI.
You're a Taylor Swift fan?

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Damned proud of it too.

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Plus I see no reference to a girlfriend.
In fact, your profile pic is of you and those cheerleaders. How does your GF feel about that? Or is your GF one of them?

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She doesn't get on facebook more than like once a week usually, and shes been so sick lately she hasnt gotten a chance to do anything.

that's my profile pic because i dont have a pic of us together unfortunately. she likes that I'm cool enough to take pics with pro cheerleaders, and doesnt take it as more than what it is.


anyway, I'm done discussing my girlfriend here, because like I said I'm not risking her because of some guys on the internet. it's past the point of conversation here, and nobody needs to bring her into anything or talk about her.

Awww... PI, you never let us have any fun... :no: