Re: The secret crush thread!
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Originally Posted by Sarathos
Master of the puppets, as I have been reading this thread it seems quite clear that that you have quite the complex relationship going on. But what is really evident is your attempts to justify it, especially yourself. Morals don't suit everyone, nor should people be judged on whether they follow them or not, but you and the woman in question do seem rather happy together, you have a lot of fun, but since you say that you are the better man, it does beg the question of why did this woman date her current boyfriend? Now I have been in the same situation as you are, I was new to school last year and through the course of the year I developed a really strong relationship with the most amazing woman I have ever known. We became awesome friends, though at that point in time she already had a boyfriend. Now I was quite happy staying friends, but from her own words 'I was the better option' and she ended up leaving him for me. I don't really have the guts to be physical with some whom is taken, but it did tend to get that way and we did get pretty close at times though there was enormous restrain on my part. The bottom line is that its not a matter of which man is better, its a question of whom the woman is happy with, be it you or someone else. At the end of the day it is her decision and you have to respect that, sure you can influence that decision but it is up to her.
Sorry for the rant guys, Im not sure it actually makes sense to everyone but I just had to express myself a bit. I do hope all goes well for you MOTP, and to all the rest of you fine men here. May you all be blessed with a smart mind, a good heart and a beautiful woman.
For all those guys who are willing to know, the insight into a girls mind can be a tricky place. we see all the shades of gray and the slighter differences in between. when a girl makes a friend with a guy they usually do this to take some of the burden off with there current bf. i know i do this. what i know is that i never lie to my friends or my bf. my current bf knows every thing that i do. see where the complication lies is that said bf is away at college and wont come home for months on end. he has given me permission to do whatever i wish as long as i tell him. i planned in the beginning to never take him up on his offer until the separation became to much and i needed an anchor on life. thats when i met Master of the puppets. he became my handhold on life in between the times when my bf would come home. our relationship started to become stronger and with that something else grew. i tend to be a little headstrong and very forthcoming. so i was the one who pushed it all out of the water, making this very difficult. i know i admit, why push something when you know the outcome, well.....sometimes things are are way over your head and all you can do is ride the wave until the end.
MOTPs girl
Re: The secret crush thread!
That is very well said, and I do understand your situation. I know how seperation feels as I have had a similar experience. What you did, though it may seem reckless and bad and what ever they want to think, but it was your decision, you have your own reasons and people just need to respect that, I know I do.
Love makes things so easy and so difficult. To have a loved one so far away is difficult to bear but easy in the knowledge that they are always there. Circumstances change, and your decision was right by you.
On another point, a woman's mind really isn't that complex. Many woman and others many think this but I have been around woman all my life, (Im not boasting, I have three sisters and they all have many friends...) and I have had many years of insight into the mind of a woman and its not too different to men, women's minds are just more organised and priority order.
Re: The secret crush thread!
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Originally Posted by master of the puppets
MOTPs girl post
If it's OK with her boyfriend, it's fine in my mind. I still wouldn't approve of my girlfriend doing it, but if it's by mutual consensus, I see no problems. :bow:
Re: The secret crush thread!
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Originally Posted by Sarathos
but it was your decision, you have your own reasons and people just need to respect that...
Whoa,whoa,don't misinterpret me here. I'm not condemning MOTP. If I implied that,I didn't mean to and I apologize.
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Originally Posted by Evil_Maniac From Mars
No,see that's where I'd use your armor to my advantage. I'd lure you into an environment that's at 120 degrees,where the adhesive holding your armor together would melt and make it ineffectual. :whip:
