Decisions, decisions....

Quote:

---

I could go the totally pissed off route and just go in angry as hell (pumped up by 20 minutes of Metallica beforehand, plus angry thoughts)

---

Yep, and we're surprised when people say "metal leads to violent behaviour!"

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by drone

I'm confused, which girl is this again? Younger sister, older sister, or friend?

Just blow her off, sounds like she is too much drama for you at this stage. Real life ignore button. :yes:

---

younger sister.

TBH, I was fine ignoring her until she began telling people I was a STALKER. and not the cool type that goes into pripyat and kills supernatural stuff either.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by Hax

Yep, and we're surprised when people say "metal leads to violent behaviour!"

---

only when I'm already angry. it definitely helps me get pumped up before a fight or football game or anything that anger would help with. think angry thoughts and play metallica at 40000000000mhz


also: thanks for all the suggestions guys. helpin soooo much.....

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by Prussian Iron

younger sister.

TBH, I was fine ignoring her until she began telling people I was a STALKER. and not the cool type that goes into pripyat and kills supernatural stuff either.

---

Fortunately for you, tomorrow is National Unfriend Day. I gather she did not block you or whatever stupid mechanism Facebook uses to keep stalkers at bay despite her claims, so here's your chance to get her out of your life. Unfriend her and just ignore her. If she comes up to you, be polite but disinterested. Don't feed the troll.

You should have gone for the older sister. :yes: More mature and out of your life in 6 months.

already unfriended as of last night :P

ignoring her isn't the issue though. people are telling me that she is spreading rumours and lies about me, and thats the only reason i care to talk to her. to make her stop and then ignore her afterwards.

Personally, if you talk to her, I think you'll make it worse.

I can't just let her keep spreading rumours to people I don't know yet, what do you want me to do? texting/facebooking can be ignored/taken less seriously.

And if shes spreading rumours about you:
1. Trying to track her down to speak to her only proves her point.
2. Its for a reason.

Best option: Ignore it. If someone mentions it to you, just say "Oh is she? Whatever floats her boat."

Indifference is your friend. If you stop caring, the problem will go away.

not when i'm trying to make friends and people are like "isn't that the STALKER? lets stay away from him"

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by pevergreen

And if shes spreading rumours about you:
1. Trying to track her down to speak to her only proves her point.
2. Its for a reason.

Best option: Ignore it. If someone mentions it to you, just say "Oh is she? Whatever floats her boat."

Indifference is your friend. If you stop caring, the problem will go away.

---

:yes:

She is screwing with you, don't give her the satisfaction. And nothing will piss her off more.

What's in a reputation anyway? Your close and personal will not change and will know who you are. Who cares about people you will never meet? Ignore her and move on with your life as the others have suggested. Ignorance (and a thick skin) are bliss afterall! This thread makes me so glad I am no longer in High School! :)

Alright so the deed is done. cursed her out, and she was flabbergasted and by her tone sort of remorseful. she knows how angry and disappointed I am, and is still denying ever saying anything (another lie, multiple people told me), and I am ignoring her now. still, she does sound sort of remorseful now though.
either way, shes a bitch and a liar and I don't associate with her kind.

This tread has enough story to fill a few youth romance books. Just change some characters in old horror monsters and you're golden.

Also take it from me, you shouldn't care about what people you don't know think about you.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by Prussian Iron

Alright so the deed is done. cursed her out, and she was flabbergasted and by her tone sort of remorseful. she knows how angry and disappointed I am, and is still denying ever saying anything (another lie, multiple people told me), and I am ignoring her now. still, she does sound sort of remorseful now though.
either way, shes a bitch and a liar and I don't associate with her kind.

---

Unless, o'course, they were actually lying at the behest of that guy you were competing with, eh?

Being the bigger man is awsome - with time you will find ways to ignore this sort of thing.

Just give it a few years.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by Philipvs Vallindervs Calicvla

Unless, o'course, they were actually lying at the behest of that guy you were competing with, eh?

Being the bigger man is awsome - with time you will find ways to ignore this sort of thing.

Just give it a few years.

---

if i was still competing i still wouldn't believe that (i know you were joking). hes not a bad guy, just a douche :P

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by pevergreen

And if shes spreading rumours about you:
1. Trying to track her down to speak to her only proves her point.
2. Its for a reason.

Best option: Ignore it. If someone mentions it to you, just say "Oh is she? Whatever floats her boat."

Indifference is your friend. If you stop caring, the problem will go away.

---

This.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by Prussian Iron

she knows how angry and disappointed I am, and is still denying ever saying anything (another lie, multiple people told me), and I am ignoring her now.

---

What if she isn't lieing?

What have you done?

One thing mafia has taught me: Never trust anyone, ever.

Have you:

1. Struck her with a closed fist?
2. PIIHP?
3. A combonation of the two

Don't give up until all options have been exshausted

SHE WANTS YOU, YOU JUST HAVE TO MEET HER HALF WAY

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by pevergreen

What if she isn't lieing?

What have you done?

One thing mafia has taught me: Never trust anyone, ever.

---

oh trust me, she is. the biggest reason I can tell? her sister isn't mad at me. if I had cursed her out and she had never said those things, she would be furious. hell, she was angry at me when I didnt even curse and we had the first argument. thats how i can tell.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by pevergreen

One thing mafia has taught me

---

lol