How sexually promiscous are you ?

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Originally Posted by Sinan

I told him what he needs to do, basics => false disqualifier, show no initial interest unless she does first, be interesting, when she shows interest get her to invest, qualify her, escalate physically, remove her from the group, then go more intimate... basically, without too much details. I wanted him to do the work himself. He only wanted me to give him a strategy, encourage him on and rescue the situation if needed. I walked up to 3 women in the cafe, of which was one he'd expressed desire in (the hottest one of course), and started a conversation. He joined us when I waved him in, after another hour he left with his choice to "take a walk outside". .

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I think the question for many of us really is, how do you tell that she is interested (and not just staring back because you are) and not actually looking at someone behind you or next to you (especially if you aren't currently speaking to her)

If people are watching you they start sitting in the same way you do.

Hi FH!

I was going to stop posting in this thread but as you've asked I'm very happy to oblige.

Interest levels vary, but even the slightest thing can be an indicator of interest. Most men miss these signs, as our father's never taught us this and we're not used to making the deduction when we have to. If you pay attention to her body language she will give clues, she will communicate with you subconciously. BEWARE: she can also play you, by giving you fake indicators of interest, to keep your interest aroused.

Non verbal ques assuming she's looking at you, some of these are indicators of interest, some are postures the female assumes to make herself more attractive. These postures can also be indicators of interest since she's making herself more attractive to someone, hopefully you. Some of these are body language ques, which she's emitting subconciously. She doesn;t know that she's doing it.

• Dilated pupils
• Facial expression (whole page can be written about this), she's looking at you with a positive vibe => approach invitation, go talk to her
• Eye contact (whole page topic)
• Eye expression - the look in the eye (hungry, sexy, liking, wanting, happy, encouraging, bedroom...)
• Holds eye contact just a second longer than you or more than she needs to.
• Dazed deer in headlights look
• Mirrors posture
• Puppy dog look (when a puppy wants food)
• Locks eye contact does not look away, if she does she looks away because she has to.
• Locks eye contact if looks away, looks away downwards and to the left (typical Asian thing)
• Reveals parts of her body, raises skirt, unbuttons blouse, parts thighs
• Touches, flicks or "fixes" her hair
• Sticks her buttocks out, or to the side
• Pushes her breasts up by "inflating" them (hope that makes sense)
• Straightens posture leaning towards you slowly and delberately
• Takes longer breaths
• Touches her neck
• Touches or brushes her breasts
• When you look at her body or at her, she starts looking at herself quickly (she's making sure she looks good for you)
• If she touches parts of her body slowly, deliberately, subconcious move relfecting what she wants you to do
• Smiling at you (most common approach invitation. Smile at her, if she smiles back... IMMEDIATELY walk up to her and start talking, say anything "How would I look if I color my hair pink?", but start talking)
• Laughing or giggling a lot
• Looks at you sideways while facing away from you (this is a very HIGH priority signal, she's trying to sneak peek you)
• One of her feet/legs are pointed towards you, while the body is faced away
• Looks over the shoulder (see babe thread Shakespeare "gilded cage tatoo girl"), with a slightly raised shoulder
• Lips are pouty, mouth is slightly open as if you were about to kiss
• Leans towards you
• Licks her lips
• Bites bottom lip, pulling it slightly into her mouth
• Stands or appears in proximity to you after eye contact (she wants you to start talking to her)
• Open body language, no crossed arms, body away from you etc..
• Locked eyes, she can't look at anything else but you
• Every time you look in her direction she turns to look at you, meets your gaze

It's not necessary to have any approach invitation or indicator of interest from her, you can walk in and cold approach. Then you work her to like you. However if you have one indicator or one approach invitation, your job is already easier. The easiest way is to let her look your way, look back at her and give her the most sincere and genuine warm friendly smile you can, if she smiles back, immediately walk up to her without hesitation and say something.

I think that's all I can think of right now. I've certainly missed many. Book => "Definitive book of body language" by Allan & Barbara Pease.

Baroque perspective of this thread:

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Antiquity's perspective:

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CHAPTER I. OF THE CHARACTERISTICS OF MEN AND WOMEN.
THE REASONS WHY WOMEN REJECT THE ADDRESSES OF MEN.
ABOUT MEN WHO HAVE SUCCESS WITH WOMEN, AND ABOUT
WOMEN WHO ARE EASILY GAINED OVER
THE wives of other people may be resorted to on the occasions already described in Part I, Chapter V, of this work, but the possibility of their acquisition, their fitness for cohabitation, the danger to oneself in uniting with them, and the future effect of these unions, should first of all be examined. A man may resort to the wife of another, for the purpose of saving his own life, when he perceives that his love for her proceeds from one degree of intensity to another. These degrees are ten in number, and are distinguished by the following marks:
· Love of the eye
· Attachment of the mind
· Constant reflection
· Destruction of sleep
· Emaciation of the body
· Turning away from objects of enjoyment
· Removal of shame
· Madness
· Fainting
· Death

Ancient authors say that a man should know the disposition, truthfulness, purity, and will of a young woman, as also the intensity, or weakness of her passions, from the form of her body, and from her characteristic marks and signs. But Vatsyayana is of opinion that the forms of bodies, and the characteristic marks or signs are but erring tests of character, and that women should be judged by their conduct, by the outward expression of their thoughts, and by the movements of their bodies.

Now as a general rule Gonikaputra says that a woman falls in love with every handsome man she sees, and so does every man at the sight of a beautiful woman, but frequently they do not take any further steps, owing to various considerations. In love the following circumstances are peculiar to the woman. She loves without regard to right or wrong, 1 and does not try to gain over a man simply for the attainment of some particular purpose. Moreover, when a man first makes up to her she naturally shrinks from him, even though she may be willing to unite herself with him. But when the attempts to gain her are repeated and renewed, she at last consents. But with a man, even though he may have begun to love, he conquers his feelings from a regard for morality and wisdom, and although his thoughts
are often on the woman, he does not yield, even though an attempt be made to gain him over. He sometimes makes an attempt or effort to win the object of his affections, and having failed, he leaves her alone for the future. In the same way, when a woman is once gained, he often becomes indifferent about her. As for the saying that a man does not care for what is easily gained, and only desires a thing which cannot be obtained without difficulty, it is only a matter of talk.

The causes of a woman rejecting the addresses of a man are as follows:
· Affection for her husband
· Desire of lawful progeny
· Want of opportunity
· Anger at being addressed by the man too familiarly
· Difference in rank of life
· Want of certainty on account of the man being devoted travelling
· Thinking that the man may be attached to some other person
· Fear of the man's not keeping his intentions secret
· Thinking that the man is too devoted to his friends, and has too great a regard for them
· The apprehension that he is not in earnest
· Bashfulness on account of his being an illustrious man
· Fear on account of his being powerful, or possessed of too impetuous passion, in the case of the deer woman
· Bashfulness on account of his being too clever
· The thought of having once lived with him on friendly terms only
· Contempt of his want of knowledge of the world
· Distrust of his low character
· Disgust at his want of perception of her love for him
· In the case of an elephant woman, the thought that he is a hare man, or a man of weak passion
· Compassion lest anything should befall him on account of his passion
· Despair at her own imperfections
· Fear of discovery
· Disillusion at seeing his grey hair or shabby appearance
· Fear that he may be employed by her husband to test her chastity
· The thought that he has too much regard for morality

Good post Roman.

The KamaSutra is something which does have sense in it. You can learn a lot from it, even today. Not only about sexual positions either. LOL it is funny though. What is the 1st image, it looks religious, and frightening.

For example, from the Kama Sutra, this is something which is largely true, even today (emphasis mine):

Men who will be fortunate with women

• Men well versed in the science of love
• Men skilled in telling stories
• Men acquainted with women from their childhood
• Men who have secured their confidence
• Men who send presents to them
• Men who talk well
• Men who do things that they like
• Men who have not loved other women previously
• Men who act as messengers
• Men who know their weak points
• Men who are desired by good women
• Men who are united with their female friends
• Men who are good looking
• Men who have been brought up with them (women)
• Men who are their neighbours (women)
• Men who are devoted to sexual pleasures, even though these be with their own servants
• The lovers of the daughters of their nurse
• Men who have been married late
• Men who like picnics and pleasure parties
• Men who are liberal
• Men who are celebrated for being very strong (Bull men)
• Enterprising and brave men
• Men who surpass their peers in learning and good looks, in good qualities, and in liberality
• Men whose dress and manner of living are magnificent

GOOD KARMA !

That will wrap up this thread nicely then. Thanks for all contributions. :bow: I'm sure Sinan is available for private consultation via PM.