Decisions, decisions....

Alright, so now I've found a new girl, she gave me her phone number as I was about to ask for it, she's pretty smart, and she's Jewish (:yes::2thumbsup:). But her sister is similar, far prettier, and younger.

Basically I'm not sure which to choose, her or her sister? She is 16, and a senior, and her sister is 14 and a sophomore. So either way I'd be dating 1 year and 1 grade level away from my own.

I think I might go for her, but her sister is definitely hotter, and shes younger so I don't have to deal with being the less mature one in the relationship. ugh.


sorry, just had to post it. let's try to stay away from ideas involving "three" within 7 words of the word "some". and not get it locked this time?

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Originally Posted by Prussian Iron

Alright, so now I've found a new girl, she gave me her phone number as I was about to ask for it, she's pretty smart, and she's Jewish (:yes::2thumbsup:). But her sister is similar, far prettier, and younger.

Basically I'm not sure which to choose, her or her sister? She is 16, and a senior, and her sister is 14 and a sophomore. So either way I'd be dating 1 year and 1 grade level away from my own.

I think I might go for her, but her sister is definitely hotter, and shes younger so I don't have to deal with being the less mature one in the relationship. ugh.


sorry, just had to post it. let's try to stay away from ideas involving "three" within 7 words of the word "some". and not get it locked this time?

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Getting her number then going for her sister is a massive **** move.

Its not wrong, but you got her number. Her sister is 14, that you even thought of a word with three in it.

Get your mind out of the gutter. Make a choice, deal with it. But don't lead either on and go with the other.


Plus the older girl gave you her number, her sister probably won't.

I didnt think of three, someone else did.....

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Originally Posted by pevergreen

Getting her number then going for her sister is a massive **** move.

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<----- My sentiments exactly

the 16 year old obviously.

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Originally Posted by pevergreen

Getting her number then going for her sister is a massive **** move.

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absolutely.

Date the older one. Treat her well, don't be a :daisy:. She's smart, which means she's off to college and a new life in a year. That's when you go for the younger sister. Just remember that the older sister will tell the younger one everything.

At your age relationships are not going to last, think long term. Kids these days...

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Originally Posted by drone

At your age relationships are not going to last, think long term. Kids these days...

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You got her number, which doesn't mean she wants anything more than friendship, but as drone says, even if it does, at your age, if it lasts more than 2 weeks, its unusual, 2 months is like 25 years.

I thought about that, but I dont think she would appreciate me leaving her for her sister, neither would her parents

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Originally Posted by Prussian Iron

I thought about that, but I dont think she would appreciate me leaving her for her sister, neither would her parents

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If you thought about it seriously, I don't like your attitude.

But hey, thats me. ^_^

Go for the 16 year old brother.

I agree with what everyone has said here. If you are more attracted to the younger sister, you should have gone for her first.

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Originally Posted by AntiKingWarmanCake88

Go for the 16 year old brother.

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If he goes for her brother, he will just complicate things even more. ~;)

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I don't like your attitude.

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+2 ~;)

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Originally Posted by Prussian Iron

I thought about that, but I dont think she would appreciate me leaving her for her sister, neither would her parents

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That's not what I meant. If you can date the older for the whole year, great. But you need to understand that when she goes off to college, it's over. You won't be leaving her, she will be leaving you. If you two don't last the year, well, that's just the way it is at your age. Don't move straight on the the younger sister, in this scenario you can also wait until the oldest heads off next year. If you go this route (oldest then youngest), just remember that you are auditioning when dating the oldest, don't be a :daisy: around the parents or youngest.

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Originally Posted by A Nerd

I agree with what everyone has said here. If you are more attracted to the younger sister, you should have gone for her first.

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I thought she was too young, but now I know she's only a year younger than me.

Threesome

[A little too explicit, thanks, Lemur]

Also considering it's not love your after at the older will give you better chance at getting. And it wouldn't be as wrong. Cause trying to get some from a 14 year old is sick.

even though I'm a 15 year old......???

and who said I'm not after love? but at that I guess I'd be more successful with the 16 year old.

The older one is more likely to put out and to go for her sister would be a massive jack :daisy: move.

alright, I think I'll go for the older one. we've been texting all day and shes going to a party with me, so thats good enough for me.

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Originally Posted by Prussian Iron

even though I'm a 15 year old......???.

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For those reasons yes.

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Originally Posted by Prussian Iron

alright, I think I'll go for the older one. we've been texting all day and shes going to a party with me, so thats good enough for me.

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Cool. Story. Bro.

experience. all that needs to be said

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Originally Posted by Centurion1

experience. all that needs to be said

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Any 16 yr old with exp should be handeled with a double wrap

Age doesn't always correlate to maturity.

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Originally Posted by Decker

Age doesn't always correlate to maturity.

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a 16 year old is always going to be more mature than a 14 year old. And i never said sexual experience you perverts.

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Originally Posted by Centurion1

a 16 year old is always going to be more mature than a 14 year old.

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My mistake, I guess I wasn't clear enough. Prussian is 15 and the girl who gave him his number is 16 and unless he's a complete dunce, I don't see how being 1 year apart in age diference corralates to someone being more mature than the other on most occasions. But I do agree with your statement although there are of course exceptions.

If in doubt, date the older sister (gives you street cred to hook up with an older babe) while having a secret affair with the younger sister...

Problem solved :)

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Originally Posted by Prussian Iron

sorry, just had to post it. let's try to stay away from ideas involving "three" within 7 words of the word "some". and not get it locked this time?

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Tricycle?

But, seriously. The one who gave you her number. I mean, are looks all you care about? Comon' bro!

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Originally Posted by Psychonaut

Tricycle?

But, seriously. The one who gave you her number. I mean, are looks all you care about? Comon' bro!

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No, but they are very similar personality wise.

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Originally Posted by Shibumi

If in doubt, date the older sister (gives you street cred to hook up with an older babe) while having a secret affair with the younger sister...

Problem solved :)

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lol awesome :P


but no not really obviously........

So have the slam pieces been bagged and tagged?

???

I think he is being crude and vulgar. Just ignore it.

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Originally Posted by A Nerd

I think he is being crude and vulgar. Just ignore it.

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Yea, clearly. This thread started of with so much promise!

lololololololololololololololol

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Yea, clearly. This thread started of with so much promise!

lololololololololololololololol

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Well, excuuuuse me! :P

ok soi Sunday me and the 16 year old are going to see a movie. I dont see anything really good out, any suggestions for good teenage/date movies?

The Poughkeepsie Tapes.

It's like a romantic comedy.

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Originally Posted by Prussian Iron

ok soi Sunday me and the 16 year old are going to see a movie. I dont see anything really good out, any suggestions for good teenage/date movies?

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What's with Americans and going to movies?

I dunno, easy ice breaker I suppose... maybe more like tradition??? I still have my movie ticket from my first date with my gf...... and that was 3 years ago.

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Originally Posted by Psychonaut

What's with Americans and going to movies?

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The girl can have a good time (watching the movie) and the guy can have a good time (being with the girl) and there isn't a lot of time for talking, which means he can't screw up as much.

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Originally Posted by pevergreen

there isn't a lot of time for talking, which means he can't screw up as much.

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Yeh. I get that. But, it just seems so sterile. Like a military operation or something.

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Originally Posted by Psychonaut

What's with Americans and going to movies?

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because we are stereotypically all uncreative, fat, and barely mentally active beings who can think of nothing more to do than watch people on a screen for 2 hours.

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Originally Posted by Prussian Iron

because we are stereotypically all uncreative, fat, and barely mentally active beings who can think of nothing more to do than watch people on a screen for 2 hours.

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Thats the America I know!

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Originally Posted by pevergreen

Thats the America I know!

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and love :D

I think the movies is a great first date! Are you too young and is it too soon to give her a peck on the cheek during the film? Follow it with a nice sit down dinner. Not fast food or take out! If you are low on funds, each pay half. If you don't want to ask or feel like a cheapskate, skip dinner. Mom and Dad might lend you a few dollars. Good one on one time, improves a potential bond quite quickly. If you are out with too many people, you lose track and touch with one another. Dinner and a movie might be generic and an American cliche, but it's fun. And that is all that matters. In my humble opinion anyway.

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Originally Posted by A Nerd

I think the movies is a great first date! Are you too young and is it too soon to give her a peck on the cheek during the film? Follow it with a nice sit down dinner. Not fast food or take out! If you are low on funds, each pay half. If you don't want to ask or feel like a cheapskate, skip dinner. Mom and Dad might lend you a few dollars. Good one on one time, improves a potential bond quite quickly. If you are out with too many people, you lose track and touch with one another. Dinner and a movie might be generic and an American cliche, but it's fun. And that is all that matters. In my humble opinion anyway.

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wow, wow, wow.

Don't knock the food court, there isn't a better follow up to a movie. If your lucky there might be a more "up-market" eatery in the food court, say a Nandos. If this is the case, pass it off like you think it's a genuine restaurant. The only downside is if your running late and said girl has to be back by a certain time so you have to grab a "take away" and eat it on the way back. And remember, you're never too old for the food court.

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Don't knock the food court, there isn't a better follow up to a movie. If your lucky there might be a more "up-market" eatery in the food court, say a Nandos. If this is the case, pass it off like you think it's a genuine restaurant. The only downside is if your running late and said girl has to be back by a certain time so you have to grab a "take away" and eat it on the way back. And remember, you're never too old for the food court.

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I agree with you. I forgot about the food court! The food is geneally quite good, you can sit and chat, it is less expensive and convinient! Ha ha, I also forgot that most movie theatres are in the malls nowadays as well! Duh!

They don't sell Cashews And Milk at the food court though.



:mad::mad::deal2::deal2:

You can buy something oriental, then mix in the cashews. Buy milk at Dunkin Donuts if there is one, and omit the beverage at the oriental restaraunt. Then you can go to the food court and still have cashews and milk. Buy the cashews at a CVS or something if there is on in the mall. A perfect date made even better thanks to the delicious combination of cashews and milk! Get flavored milk too if one should so desire!

So bro have you sealed the deal? DONT LEAVE US HANGING THAT WOULD BE CRIMINAL. I WANT TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR ROMANTIC SCHOOL BOY EXPLOITS IT INTRIUGS ME AND ITS SO COOL THAT YOU HAVE TWO TO CHOOSE FROM. FISH IN A BARRELL MY FRIEND

Strike! Have you no respect for the coveted "do not disturb" sign?!

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Originally Posted by Strike For The South

So bro, have you sealed the deal? DON'T LEAVE US HANGING; THAT WOULD BE CRIMINAL. I WANT TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR ROMANTIC SCHOOL BOY EXPLOITS. IT INTRIGUES ME, AND ITS SO COOL THAT YOU HAVE TWO TO CHOOSE FROM. FISH IN A BARREL, MY FRIEND.

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:thinking2::angel:~;)

I never understood the "movie date" thing...

It is so... passive... Both sit in darkness and stare at a screen, not really romantic, is it?

When I still bothered I would suprise the girl with something active, paintball, gokart, dance class... The list goes on.


Last proper "date", I showed up at her door with a walz instructor, a pianist, a violinist and a cook. We had dance lessons to live music (lots of laughs from all involved) while the cook prepared a romantic dinner in her own kitchen. Worked wonders.

That might be out of some peoples monetary reach of course, but there are cheaper ways to come up with romantic suprises, heck, pretty much anything beats the cinema...

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Originally Posted by Shibumi

Last proper "date", I showed up at her door with a walz instructor, a pianist, a violinist and a cook. We had dance lessons to live music (lots of laughs from all involved) while the cook prepared a romantic dinner in her own kitchen. Worked wonders.

That might be out of some peoples monetary reach of course, but there are cheaper ways to come up with romantic suprises, heck, pretty much anything beats the cinema...

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Some? :inquisitive:

Monetary reach would be putting on a CD or MP3 player and doing the cooking themselves. Not have an orchestra, professional chef and a private waltz instructor turn up.

Standard dance lesson followed by a picnic then?

Dance lesson for 2 is maybe 40$, picnic even cheaper :)

Or just go and play laser tag, cheap and damn fun!

EDIT: If doing laser tag, remember you dont get points with the girl if you frag her repeatedly and then brag about it ;)

I've always favored a picnic which I put together, carefully and with taste (having gathered a little intel on what she likes ahead of time), red and white checkered throw, basket, and all. Take her to a nice place on a nice day with a nice view. Make sure the weather is good, and there's room for a nice picturesque walk. This scenario allows for the enjoyment of food and drink, and lots of conversation, without a lot of distractions if you go to the right place at the right time.

If conversation, personality, and sincere eye-to-eye expression are strengths, it's hard to go wrong with this. I don't like to waste time (I don't mean getting to sex; I mean getting to know each other well). You can cover much more ground on a date like this than on ten dates to the movies doing things where conversation and one-on-one, face-to-face interaction is inhibited.

But that's just me, and times and people have changed. Maybe this kind of thing doesn't fly with most anymore.

As to laser tag etc., once some time ago when I did a picnic as described, I took my date to a park alongside a local river where there was an archery range, and after lunch on the spur, we rented bows and did some shooting. It was spontaneous and she loved it. She out-shot me too, lol (and I wasn't letting her--I'm a former summer camp instructor for pete's sake--she was just a damn good shot!).

Might be a bit of a turn around, but now...I'm back at square one and I've taken a step forward surprisingly.

after a really great night (won't go over details, but essentially I spent 99.99% with the hot sister and her best friend), her best friend asked if i liked the sister, which sparked a whole conversation and she says that she likes me back too. so now I just have to deal with.....the original.....(evil overshadowing music)

So which one are you gonna do first then?

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Originally Posted by Prussian Iron

Might be a bit of a turn around, but now...I'm back at square one and I've taken a step forward surprisingly.

after a really great night (won't go over details, but essentially I spent 99.99% with the hot sister and her best friend), her best friend asked if i liked the sister, which sparked a whole conversation and she says that she likes me back too. so now I just have to deal with.....the original.....(evil overshadowing music)

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So wait, the sister likes you?

Or the best friend?

both. but the friend is too young so in that i was talking about the sister. I see how that would be confusing though.

BTW: both sister and her friend know that the other likes me. just so nobody asks about that.

Good for you. You seem to have acquired an admirer! Here's to pleasant conversation and forming out mood in delicate body languages!!!

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Originally Posted by pevergreen

Getting her number then going for her sister is a massive **** move.

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And so, I refer thee back to mine original wisdom. Sister is interchangeable for best friend in this situation.

oh no im not going for the best friend, we all know that. in fact the best friend is like trying to help me (without being asked, BTW) get the sister. good friend.

Dog move though.

But hey, thats my outlook on it, my sense of honour, not yours.

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Do both. Dump both. Sleep.

Be like him http://www.dumpert.nl/mediabase/1173...h_mustafa.html

rofl what a savage endboss, why do I suddenly feel like a sickly pale bag with bones

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Originally Posted by Psychonaut

Do both. Dump both. Sleep.

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I can haz intercourse?

gah, complications.

she likes some dude (9th grader, damned freshman!) who she met prior to me, but she still likes me (confusing). anyway my lucky break is I met him and he doesn't seem to like her, and other people think so too. I think I can work with that, if someone (not me) tells her that he's not interested than...I'll be good. plus they've known eachother for a long time, which means if he wanted to ask her out he wouldn't; I've never (nor have I seen anyone ever) known a girl for more than a few months and still ask her out. it gets too awkward, and this 9th grader certainly isn't confident enough to risk that. I'm so horrible >:)

The suspense! :drama2:

I'm truly on the edge of my seat.

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Originally Posted by Hax

I'm truly on the edge of my seat.

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If he can do the deed with both, this will actually make for a good story. :yes:

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Originally Posted by Rhyfelwyr

The suspense! :drama2:

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sarcasm, as always, is appreciated.

but it does interfere with my schoolwork. so hard to interpret meaning in stupid short stories while my mind is constantly brought back to the same thought processes revolving around all this. sunday it should be resolved though, I'll def make sure it's a yes or no. til then i cant think of anything to say to her; is it acceptable to just stop texting her completely for 5 days? or at least minimally?

If he does the deed with both, I'm talking to his parents.

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at the same time now that would be impressive

Great, this is keeping me away from my usual soaps.

I can't stop chanting "do them for me, do them for me!"

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Originally Posted by pevergreen

If he does the deed with both, I'm talking to his parents.

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I actually believe you. ******* spoilsport.

And I'll be with him, making the call. >:|

>:|

Hell, my Dad'd probly be giving me high-fives while my mom stays concerned about me having briefly dated the older sister and then the younger sister. Plus I'd have people to back me up when I tell everyone at school as well as my Uncle. and grandparents. and Obama. he'd high-five me too.