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Woman who lied about rape asks for 'bygones to be bygones'
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A Los Angeles teenager convicted of rape in 2002 has been cleared after his "victim" admitted lying.
Brian Banks was sentenced to ten years in prison for raping Wanetta Gibson when he was 16 years-old. He entered a 'no contest plea' and served five years.
Soon after he was released in 2007, Ms Gibson contacted him on facebook with the words "let bygones be bygones". She admitted he was innocent but was concerned she would have to pay back the $1.5m the school gave her in damages at the time.
Mr Banks agreed to meet her and videotaped her with the help of the California Innocence Project.
He gave BBC Radio 5 live Up All Night's Rhod Sharp his first international interview along with his lawyer Justin Brooks.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-18266118
What an evil world we live in :no:
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She was 16 at the time if you aren't stupid at that age there is something seriously wrong with you. And she is sorry and wants to set things right. Blame the vultures who make a living with this kind of things instead.
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There's a jackass born every minute.
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Originally Posted by
Fragony
She was 16 at the time if you aren't stupid at that age there is something seriously wrong with you. And she is sorry and wants to set things right. Blame the vultures who make a living with this kind of things instead.
:stare:
When she was 20 that guy was still in jail for something he didn't do and she said nothing because she didn't want to return the 1.5 million.
In fact, the guy still has a criminal record and the woman doesn't want to set it straight because she could lose the cash she stole from the education system.
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Originally Posted by
Fragony
She was 16 at the time if you aren't stupid at that age there is something seriously wrong with you. And she is sorry and wants to set things right. Blame the vultures who make a living with this kind of things instead.
...:O
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What can happen to her now? Will she be charged and hopefully go to prison?
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Originally Posted by
Fragony
She was 16 at the time if you aren't stupid at that age there is something seriously wrong with you. And she is sorry and wants to set things right. Blame the vultures who make a living with this kind of things instead.
You're sorry when you accidentally step on someone's foot.
In this case, you're a criminal.
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I really hope the girl does not get away with this. That guy lost five of the prime years of his life.
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Originally Posted by
Skullhead
:stare:
When she was 20 that guy was still in jail for something he didn't do and she said nothing because she didn't want to return the 1.5 million.
In fact, the guy still has a criminal record and the woman doesn't want to set it straight because she could lose the cash she stole from the education system.
I wouldn't be angry at her, she made a mistake. It's very hard to steer a tanker once it has a route. Speaks volumes for her that she wants to put it right. It's basicly child-abuse.
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Originally Posted by
Fragony
I wouldn't be angry at her, she made a mistake. It's very hard to steer a tanker once it has a route. Speaks volumes for her that she wants to put it right. It's basicly child-abuse.
Actually the way I see it putting it right would be to return the money and apologise to the guy publicly. Asking him to let bygones be bygones does not make it seem as though she's feeling sorry for her 'mistake'.
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Pity she probably doesnt have the money any more.
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Originally Posted by
rajpoot
Actually the way I see it putting it right would be to return the money and apologise to the guy publicly. Asking him to let bygones be bygones does not make it seem as though she's feeling sorry for her 'mistake'.
I say we put the woman in jail and don't let her out until she repaid the 1.5m.
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Originally Posted by
Greyblades
Pity she probably doesnt have the money any more.
This, she is now on welfare since she blew it all.
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Yes, this is unacceptable, there must be justice, etc. etc.
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Originally Posted by
Skullhead
I say we put the woman in jail and don't let her out until she repaid the 1.5m.
That's likely be quite a while longer than five years I think.
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The problem with punishing this woman and saying she should be put in prison, is that it could act as a deterrent for other girls who have been raped to come forward. If a woman is raped and thinking about going to the police, reading about cases where a woman was charged with a false accusation and imprisoned could frighten them in to keeping quiet in fear, the rapist might even use such stories to try to ensure she doesn't come forward.
Some people will say that a genuine rape victim will have no risk of charges being brought against them, whether or not that is true, they are unlikely to be in a frame of mind to make such rational decisions at the time, a remote possibility could quite easily seem a certainty after such a traumatic experience.
Having said that, the idea of someone falsely accusing another of rape is something I find repulsive, it really does ruin the other person's life, purely out of spite. I would love to see such cases dealt with by malicious fake rape claims being given the same sentence the accused rapist would have received. Unfortunately, it's not that simple.
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Originally Posted by
Skullhead
:stare:
When she was 20 that guy was still in jail for something he didn't do and she said nothing because she didn't want to return the 1.5 million.
In fact, the guy still has a criminal record and the woman doesn't want to set it straight because she could lose the cash she stole from the education system.
He didn't contest the charges - his lawyer should be going to gaol. The girl? Yes, she should be punished but I can see Frag's point, once the wheels start moving she would find herself rapidly in a situation where she would be behind bars if she admitted the truth.
Personally - I am hardly surprised, the only reason this came to light is that she felt enough remorse to want to apolagise. The fact that she appears to have no idea what she did to this guy, I just don't know what to think about that.
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Originally Posted by
rajpoot
Actually the way I see it putting it right would be to return the money and apologise to the guy publicly. Asking him to let bygones be bygones does not make it seem as though she's feeling sorry for her 'mistake'.
She admits he didn't do it, would you be angry at someone who wronged you at the age of sixteen. I almost killed somoene when I was sixteen I stabbed him in the gut. No idea why, I just did it. I am not that person anymore, and she probably isn't either.
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Won't someone think of the millions in state money, lost?
Sell off her organs and those of her children.
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Originally Posted by
Montmorency
Won't someone think of the millions in state money, lost?
Sell off her organs and those of her children.
At least give the money to the real victim.
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Originally Posted by
Fragony
I almost killed somoene when I was sixteen I stabbed him in the gut. No idea why, I just did it. I am not that person anymore, and she probably isn't either.
Stabbed? :dizzy2:
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Well yeah, I was a different person than I am now. A child at 15 and a terror at 16, turned normal at 18
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Originally Posted by
Fragony
Well yeah, I was a different person than I am now. A child at 15 and a terror at 16, turned normal at 18
Why did you stab him/her?
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Originally Posted by
Fragony
She admits he didn't do it, would you be angry at someone who wronged you at the age of sixteen.
Reformation and forgiveness are beautiful concepts but not always applicable. IMO 16 is old enough to know that you might be ruining a person's life. And it's not exactly a matter of simple wrong doing is it?
I mean I get your point but the guy in question spent five years in prison.....that's far more than what can be tolerated as a mistake made by a child.
Also I don't think that the 1.5 mill of state's money is the main issue. The issue is that a person was wrongly convicted.
Anyway I do not think that anything will happen to the girl unless, the man, presses the charges (that is the correct phrase I hope....?). If he really thinks that he can forgive her then it'll be commendable on his part.
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Originally Posted by
Fragony
I almost killed somoene when I was sixteen I stabbed him in the gut. No idea why, I just did it. I am not that person anymore, and she probably isn't either.
Was it him or her?
And out of inappropriate curiosity why'd you stab this person?
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Originally Posted by
Skullhead
Why did you stab him/her?
Just a fight. Have a few of my own, it was kinda normal to use knives but only to cut and not in the face. Stabbed before I knew it, I wasn't thinking. That is the best I can make out of it I don't remember much of it, but I almost killed someone that much is sure
@rajpoot of course it was a him
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Originally Posted by
johnhughthom
The problem with punishing this woman and saying she should be put in prison, is that it could act as a deterrent for other girls who have been raped to come forward. If a woman is raped and thinking about going to the police, reading about cases where a woman was charged with a false accusation and imprisoned could frighten them in to keeping quiet in fear, the rapist might even use such stories to try to ensure she doesn't come forward.
Some people will say that a genuine rape victim will have no risk of charges being brought against them, whether or not that is true, they are unlikely to be in a frame of mind to make such rational decisions at the time, a remote possibility could quite easily seem a certainty after such a traumatic experience.
Having said that, the idea of someone falsely accusing another of rape is something I find repulsive, it really does ruin the other person's life, purely out of spite. I would love to see such cases dealt with by malicious fake rape claims being given the same sentence the accused rapist would have received. Unfortunately, it's not that simple.
There's also the idea of women putting rape charges because they were dumped, never called again, felt ashamed in the morning, wanted money or publicity etc...
Man accused of rape end up in prison and have a stain for the rest of their lives, it's not a small matter. It needs to be shown that you can't be kidding with rape charges...
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Originally Posted by
Sarmatian
It needs to be shown that you can't be kidding with rape charges...
This is one of those legal areas where I do not believe there is a happy medium. If you come down hard on false accusations, you discourage real victims. If you tilt toward the accuser, you hand a powerful weapon to unbalanced/amoral women. It's an unpleasant bit of business.
I have seen both sides of this (not personally, thank goodness). I've known women who were violated, and I saw a guy get destroyed by a false accusation of rape. I don't see any easy answers.
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That said, if I ever get charged, I want to be tried as an attractive white female. That's an option, right? These women got probation. No, seriously.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ihLBCbNIDbI
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If she needed money I could have maybe helped her out. On that note, both of these girls are future strippers
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Re: Woman who lied about rape asks for 'bygones to be bygones'
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Originally Posted by
Lemur
This is one of those legal areas where I do not believe there is a happy medium. If you come down hard on false accusations, you discourage real victims. If you tilt toward the accuser, you hand a powerful weapon to unbalanced/amoral women. It's an unpleasant bit of business.
The one does not exclude the other. That there isn't enough proof to convict a suspect of a crime doesn't mean that there is suddenly enough proof to convict the victim of making a false accusation.
Prosecuting the woman in the OP would, at worst, give false accusers a clue that it isn't a good idea to admit you've been lying - especially to the person you've sent to jail. I doubt that genuine rape victims would feel discouraged to report to the police. I say charge the idiot and send her to jail.
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I found it really sad when they said "You are a big black guy, you are guilty". Damn bigots.
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Originally Posted by
Philipvs Vallindervs Calicvla
He didn't contest the charges - his lawyer should be going to gaol.
I'd like to agree with you, but what if the lawyer was right? If he'd fought the charges and been convicted anyway, he'd probably still be in prison today--hardly an improvement on his current situation. The girl's actions are despicable, and the lawyer's advice may have been horrible, but I think our legal system and our culture that tacitly assumes the guilt of anyone charged with a crime is just as culpable. Innocent until proven guilty needs to be more than just a nice saying, and the falsely accused need to feel confident that justice will be on their side.
Ajax
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Originally Posted by
Tiaexz
I found it really sad when they said "You are a big black guy, you are guilty". Damn bigots.
Who did?
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His original lawyer saying that the jury will be thinking that as soon as they lay their eyes on him.
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The lawyer interviewed said that 95% of cases are resolved by plea bargain.
The original lawyer told Brian that the jury would see him as a "big black man"...
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These things make my blood boil.
Send her to jail. Make her pay back a decent sum of the money/portion of her income goes towards him in the future.
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If you come down too harshly on someone who recants a false accusation, you'll discourage others from recanting false accusations.
CR
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Originally Posted by
Gelatinous Cube
The guy sat in jail for FIVE YEARS. Sorry isn't enough.
Would be for me if it's genuine, what good would it do to be spitefull
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Originally Posted by
Gelatinous Cube
You can't say that for sure. Five years in prison on a rape charge is five very unpleasant years. Five years where he didn't see his family, didn't see his friends, didn't get to progress his life in any meaningful way--all on top of being accused of something heinous.
All of this was because that dumb girl lied--AND GOT RICH FROM IT! There need to be consequences for this sort of thing. Its too easy for a man's life to be ruined or nearly ruined because of a false accusation.
But his name was cleared, she did what is right. Why play a game where everybody loses, letting bygones be bygones is better
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Originally Posted by
Gelatinous Cube
She did not do what was right. The right thing would have been to not lie in the first place. She stole 5 years of a man's life and got over a million dollars for it. How do you not see a crime there?
What she did back then was wrong, but she came clear, that's commendable it obviously bothered her. I would be angry at the system not at a then 16 year old girl. If she was older it would be different but she probably had no idea what she set in motion. Very stupid big consequences, but still just stupid. They should have a coffee and talk it out and never look back.
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Originally Posted by
Fragony
Would be for me if it's genuine, what good would it do to be spitefull
This I agree with. If her apology was heartfelt then perhaps a magnanimous man would let it go. It would also be the good thing to do.
But the point here is that I don't think the girl really meant it. I mean the way I've understood it is he served his time, and got out and then she asks him to let the past be. The only reason his name got cleared was because he managed to tape her confession and got it in the media.
I don't think the girl intended to tell anyone anytime soon that he was innocent.
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Originally Posted by
Crazed Rabbit
If you come down too harshly on someone who recants a false accusation, you'll discourage others from recanting false accusations.
CR
So, one who confesses murder shouldn't be prosecuted because other murderers won't confess in the future?
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Originally Posted by
rajpoot
. The only reason his name got cleared was because he managed to tape her confession and got it in the media.
I don't think the girl intended to tell anyone anytime soon that he was innocent.
This. She didn't want to clear his name because she was afraid she would lose the money she stole from the state. What a great remorse indeed.
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Originally Posted by
Visorslash
Once a jolly swagman camped by a billabong
Under the shade of a coolibah tree,
And he sang as he watched and waited till his billy boiled
"You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me."
Waltzing Matilda, Waltzing Matilda
"You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me"
And he sang as he watched and waited till his billy boiled,
"You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me."
Down came a jumbuck to drink at that billabong,
Up jumped the swagman and grabbed him with glee,
And he sang as he shoved that jumbuck in his tucker bag,
"You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me."
Waltzing Matilda, Waltzing Matilda
"You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me"
And he sang as he shoved that jumbuck in his tucker bag,
"You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me."
Up rode the squatter, mounted on his thoroughbred,
Down came the troopers, one, two, three,
"Whose that jolly jumbuck you've got in your tucker bag?"
"You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me."
Waltzing Matilda, Waltzing Matilda
"You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me"
"Where's that jolly jumbuck you've got in your tucker bag?",
"You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me."
Up jumped the swagman and sprang into the billabong,
"You'll never take me alive", said he,
And his ghost may be heard as you pass by that billabong,
"You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me."
Waltzing Matilda, Waltzing Matilda
"You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me"
And his ghost may be heard as you pass by that billabong,
"You'll come a-Waltzing Matilda, with me."
Sir. Step slowly away from the computer, and put the bottle down.
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Dont be a fool, that doenst work on Orgahs, why do you think strike is still here?
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Originally Posted by
Greyblades
Dont be a fool, that doenst work on Orgahs, why do you think strike is still here?
We can catch Visorslash before it's too late though.
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It's a temporary anger. Like a flash in the pan. But it doesn't change the fact that it is disgusting, and you know that.
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Originally Posted by
johnhughthom
Sir. Step slowly away from the computer, and put the bottle down.
I would prefer if you got rid of the quote. :shame: I'm glad this is the last of my alcohold and that I will be buying not too many more in my future.
EDIT: Certain issues get me angry regardless of the state I'm in. Child abuse, rape, torture, etc. And when people lie about those issues and get money out of it, can you understand why it makes me mad? I hate how people can do those things. They are so terrible. I can't begin to understand why they would do those sickening things. It's just so immoral.
EDIT 2: I think i need to sleep. The world is depressing.
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Originally Posted by
Crazed Rabbit
If you come down too harshly on someone who recants a false accusation, you'll discourage others from recanting false accusations.
CR
You could be lenient towards people who actually retract their false confessions in front of the police. Which is not what this woman did.
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Originally Posted by
Kralizec
You could be lenient towards people who actually retract their false confessions in front of the police. Which is not what this woman did.
Give her so e creds, why put the hurt where ít does not belong.
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this almost like my friend's story in the past... frighteningly similar...
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Would rather have these kinds of situations occur than the opposite.
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Originally Posted by
Skullhead
So, one who confesses murder shouldn't be prosecuted because other murderers won't confess in the future?
No. Try reading what I wrote again.
CR
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She should be required to pay back all the money she received, preferably to him.
I also wonder whether he gets some official papers that prove he was wrongfully imprisoned. Because he certainly should.
And then she should receive whatever punishment there is for false testament as a teenager. Completely ruining her life is useless because then she can never work to pay back the money.
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Even if he forgives her, the state should be responsible and get the money back - the money they got from tax payers or financial aid or someone. Give this money to the people who deserve it. This is a huge amount of money we're talking about. Letting her keep that huge amount of money will encourage others and there'll be more victims. We all know that this happens to a lot of people. More frauds like this need to be prevented so that innocent lives don't get ruined and the tax payers' money don't get wasted. The system has been played around with and this can hurt the system's judgement in helping the real rape victims.
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Originally Posted by
Fragony
What she did back then was wrong, but she came clear, that's commendable it obviously bothered her. I would be angry at the system not at a then 16 year old girl. If she was older it would be different but she probably had no idea what she set in motion. Very stupid big consequences, but still just stupid. They should have a coffee and talk it out and never look back.
im sorry but even a 16 year old knows very well that what she did was wrong. even though she does perhaps not clearly oversee all consequenses (amongst them the fact that she would feel incredibly guilty) but that doesnt mean she is totally has no idea of right and wrong. and if she didnt have any such sense when 16 what makes you think she would have when 18 or 20 or 22?
and yes shaka is right also. to be sorry doesnt automatically leads to forgiveness sometimes there has to be penance made. what if it was the other way around and this guy raped the girl, got away with it and then 5 years later contacts here says he's sorry and he shouldnt have raped her and please let bygones be bygones... would you agree to let this guy off? just let him walk away without any consequense while he ruined a persons a life with his action? even though perhaps he was just a horny 16 yo teenager... and ofcourse he is now a different person.
i very seriously doubt you would
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Originally Posted by
The Stranger
im sorry but even a 16 year old knows very well that what she did was wrong. even though she does perhaps not clearly oversee all consequenses (amongst them the fact that she would feel incredibly guilty) but that doesnt mean she is totally has no idea of right and wrong. and if she didnt have any such sense when 16 what makes you think she would have when 18 or 20 or 22?
and yes shaka is right also. to be sorry doesnt automatically leads to forgiveness sometimes there has to be penance made. what if it was the other way around and this guy raped the girl, got away with it and then 5 years later contacts here says he's sorry and he shouldnt have raped her and please let bygones be bygones... would you agree to let this guy off? just let him walk away without any consequense while he ruined a persons a life with his action? even though perhaps he was just a horny 16 yo teenager... and ofcourse he is now a different person.
i very seriously doubt you would
What would you want from her if it would have been you. Nothing to gain here in any way, letting it rest is just better. Forgive her for being incredibly stupid and let her have the life she has now. Sometimes you lose that's just how things go sometimes
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im not looking at this from a personal perspective. i dont even know if i can. i would not be the same person as i am now so i cant say if i would be bitter or if i would not be.
when do you determine that its better to let things go? i mean if she stole a pair of shoes i would be inclined to agree, if she murdered someone i would not be. this seems to be right on the edge.
but thats the personal perspective, there is also the perspective of the law and justice should always triumph. i dont think it would be just to let her walk. at least the money should be repayed. i do agree that giving her a prison sentence might be rather harsh in this case and would not really benefit anyone. but simple forgiveness doesnt send the right message either. we have these penalty to serve as warnings and if we are not consistent we would do better not to have laws at all.
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She was 16 at the time, can't really hold her responsible. There's the difference. What could have happened, as it happens a lot,is that she panicked after sleeping with him and once the gears got going there was no turning back. What she did was wrong but the system is worse. I think she deserves a little compassion instead of scrutiny
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She never slept with him, apparently.
Also, a welfare mom paying the state back 1.5 lemons? Good one, that. Just dissolve her as a warning to the others.
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Originally Posted by
Gelatinous Cube
What? 16 is young, but its not THAT young. Any 16 year old who thinks its okay to falsely accuse someone of rape isn't going to suddenly grow a better moral compass as they get older.
I did.
I mean, I wasn't that bad, but still.
Even so - she didn't actually confess to the Police so she is not wholly repentant.
On the other hand, sending her to gaol would not only be expensive it would bring her within the criminal community, which she is still outside.
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I dont understand how you guys really think you could ever forgive her. I certainly wouldn't have it in me considering he was likely raped himself in prison.
As to maturity and her age. When I was fifteen I knew damn sure you couldnt walk around saying you were raped and send innocent people to prison. Heck, when I was 8 I knew you shouldnt do that. If we used her age as an excuse or that was common for someone that age wouldnt be many men of any age walking around free.
If this girl hadn't gotten caught telling him it was a lie he would have not only been a rapist but a child molestor in the eyes of the law. He would have had to go to all of his neighbors houses and tell them to their faces that he was a kiddy diddler.
If this was me in this situation and I was this fellow, if I knew she wasnt going to confess and get her just punishment and my name weren't going to be cleared...... there may be murder in my heart.
And Frags you stabbed somebody huh bro? How did you get out of the toolbox.
(anecdote anecdote anecdote)
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Originally Posted by
Centurion1
you people are absurd.
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(implies that someone resided in a toolbox.)
I don't know bro, sounds like someone isn't the sharpest star in the shed.
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Re: Woman who lied about rape asks for 'bygones to be bygones'
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a completely inoffensive name
I don't know bro, sounds like someone isn't the sharpest star in the shed.
I like to think that I am a white dwarf intellectually.
(yes I am aware of what that implies)
I agree a rephrasing and editing is in order.
Also an additional article you all may find of interest.
http://brown-spectator.com/2012/05/a...-its-students/
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Re: Woman who lied about rape asks for 'bygones to be bygones'
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Centurion1
you people are absurd. I'm going to hire someone to accuse each of you to rape. Then I want you to spend five years in prison where you will be labeled as a rapist to other inmates. Then YOU will likely be raped all the time until you get out five years later. So yeah you forgive her, uhuh. Really Phillips you cant even stand a woman you know getting married.
Ill say when I was fifteen I knew damn sure you couldnt walk around saying you were raped and send innocent men to prison. Hell, when I was 8 I knew you shouldnt do that. If we used her dan age as an excuse and that was common for someone that age wouldnt be many men of any age walking around free.
If this ***** hadn't gotten caught telling him it wa sa lie he would have not only been a rapist but a child molestor in the eyes of the law. He would have had to go to all of his neighbors houses and tell them to their faces that he was a kiddy diddler.
If this was me in this situation and I was this fellow, if I knew she wasnt going to confess and get her just punishment and my name weren't going to be cleared...... I would kill her and I sure as hell wouldnt shed a tear.
And Frags you stabbed somebody huh bro? How did you get out of the toolbox.
I was never in it. You don't get into prison over something like that her, there were no charges he had no grudge. It was an accident I didn't mean to
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Re: Woman who lied about rape asks for 'bygones to be bygones'
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Fragony
I was never in it. You don't get into prison over something like that her, there were no charges he had no grudge. It was an accident I didn't mean to
;) I'm drunk frags dont take anything I say at face value. And curse you for having the old version of that post.
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Re: Woman who lied about rape asks for 'bygones to be bygones'
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Centurion1
;) I'm drunk frags dont take anything I say at face value. And curse you for having the old version of that post.
Have one on me I'm buying
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Re: Woman who lied about rape asks for 'bygones to be bygones'
She should be sentenced to hard sexual labour to pay back the money. Off to Colombia.
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Re: Woman who lied about rape asks for 'bygones to be bygones'
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Gelatinous Cube
Everyone matures, but being 16 is no excuse for something that bad. By the time you're 16 you may not appreciate why, exactly, something is right or wrong--but you are absolutely old enough to know where your actions stand in the eyes of society.
Not if you're raised badly - at 16 you aren't an independant thinker, you are unlikely to have much experience of life outside your family or peer group. As such, you may not know that something like pergury is, or understand the consequences.
And, she was a minor when the offence was committed - I appreciate that she should have confessed sooner but she can't have been continuously committing a crime by not confessing, that doesn't really work.
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Gelatinous Cube
I'm not saying she should be locked up or anything, but she should be universally condemned as a horrible person.
What would the point of that really be though? Should everybody boo when they see her, and throw rotten tomatoes at her? Doesn't seem a terribly constructive outcome, for any party involved.
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Gelatinous Cube
At 16 even the most ill-mannered and poorly raised brat understands that rape is a serious crime. I'm not saying she should be locked up or anything, but she should be universally condemned as a horrible person.
Do not unterestimate the limits of human depravity.
Her punishment depends on your model of justice.
Just Retribution would be five years in gaol and a 1.5m fine - but that is unlikely to serve society.
So, what to do?
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Have her sell off anything she bought with the 1.5 million and maker her give the money plus the what's left of the 1.5m to her victim.
Then stick her on the sex offender registry for a year to see how she likes it.
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put her in a government institution where she will get food and clothing and where she will work to serve society until she has paid back her debt to "society/government/victim".
:juggle: just what is the name for that...
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Re: Woman who lied about rape asks for 'bygones to be bygones'
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The Stranger
put her in a government institution where she will get food and clothing and where she will work to serve society until she has paid back her debt to "society/government/victim".
:juggle: just what is the name for that...
Gulag.
What should not be forgotten though, is that she has two children by now, placing their mom in prison for five years may just make them the criminals they wouldn't be otherwise. I agree that she should be punished but I'm unsure about the severity, a financial punishment and compensation for her victim seems the most constructive to me.
Can't make her work too much in prison because that would make the prison a socialist production facility that undermines the free market, especially if she is supposed to produce a profit of 1.5 million there.
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She deserves to die. Seriously, if I go to prison for rape and the accuser later blows it off all non chalantly and admits it was about money, that person is dead.
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Greyblades
Have her sell off anything she bought with the 1.5 million and maker her give the money plus the what's left of the 1.5m to her victim.
What if she bought drugs, alcohol and parties for the money (which she most likely did)? Can't sell that anymore.
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Major Robert Dump
She deserves to die. Seriously, if I go to prison for rape and the accuser later blows it off all non chalantly and admits it was about money, that person is dead.
OK. Then you deserve to die for saying someone not guilty of homicide deserves to die.
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Philipvs Vallindervs Calicvla
OK. Then you deserve to die for saying someone not guilty of homicide deserves to die.
Suppose that the girl testified in court that this guy killed someone who is missing, and he would have gotten the death penalty. What would the girl deserve if later admits she lied?
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Philipvs Vallindervs Calicvla
OK. Then you deserve to die for saying someone not guilty of homicide deserves to die.
Saying that does not take someone freedom away for X amount of time and then callously blow off their suffering, which means you have a far lower standard for lethal retribution than do I.
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Major Robert Dump
Saying that does not take someone freedom away for X amount of time and then callously blow off their suffering, which means you have a far lower standard for lethal retribution than do I.
owned XD
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Major Robert Dump
Saying that does not take someone freedom away for X amount of time and then callously blow off their suffering, which means you have a far lower standard for lethal retribution than do I.
I don't have a standard for lethal retribution - but if I did I would think that wishing someone dead, seriously, would be worse than sending someone to prison because as bad a callous misanthropy is lethal vindictiveness is worse.