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Quote[/b] (TogakureOjonin @ April 21 2004,21:18)]Point taken Sulla. Option #2 in progress. Apologies to the thread readers for my part in the Toga vs. Orda thing.
Point taken BrutalDX. By default I am courteous to others. Respect is, as I said earlier, another matter. I do respect a person's right to speak their mind. But as I see it there are good and not-so-good ways to do this.
From my point of view, there is a "cause" in criticizing another's behavior when there has been a breach of courtesy in a public venue. Unless a person is the stubborn immovable type, or I have misperceived their behavior, they sometimes consider and adjust future actions, having been made aware that some found their behavior out of place. Not always, but often. Standing by and allowing the unpleasant behavior to continue unchecked indirectly contributes to the problem, imo.
I tend to take the initiative in such situations, because I've noticed that oftentimes there are others who feel the same way I do, but hesitate to be the first to say anything negative or critical. Once someone breaks the ice, then it often becomes apparent that that there were several to many who felt similarly.
Sometimes, I am wrong in my understanding of what has been said, as in the case of what you meant in your post. In these situations, I acknowledge that I misunderstood, and if I think it might be useful, I try to further clarify my point of view, as I have done here.