The "I got dumped" thread.

[HoreTore]

Because I just did.

2,5 years, love of my life, etc etc.

Got the message at 14:24. I'm dumped. She no longer wants to live with me. I thought things were clearing up. She left this morning, to go home to her mother. She said it was to get away a little. I thought it was primarily the stress from exams and such she had to get away from, and that she would come back. But she won't.

Now I never get to hold her hand again. Never ever cuddle up beside her again. I'm scared. Of the future, of living without her.

She was everything to me. She is everything to me.

[Andres]

That's sad news HoreTore

A relationship of 2,5 years and apparently allready in the stadium of living together... I feel for you.

Is there still a chance that things will work out or is the break-up permanent?

Anyway, if you need an ear or a hug, we're here for you

[HoreTore]

Moved in with her desember 2006. Got together with her in oktober 2005. Heh, I got together with her the day after my footie team won the league.

Yesterday, they lost 2-1....

She says she's no longer ready for a relationship... She says things may be different in a year or two. But I doubt that will ever happen.

Right now, I feel like the worlds biggest dick. Because I thought things were going ok. Sure, the last months haven't been anything like the first months with her. But I thought it was just a phase. That we'd sort it out. But instead of doing that, I'm sitting here crying my eyes out...

[Fragony]

Sorry to hear that hope it works out for you. Love is the sweetest way to die.

[HoreTore]

It's been 3,5 hours now, and I'm torn... One part of me wants to hurt her and make her feel as bad as I do, the other part knows that she already does and wants to make her happy again.

We're communicating by sms. I could call her, but I know I wouldn't be able to say a word...

I feel very abandoned and alone now... I have done that for a while, actually, but I haven't been able to make her understand that... Instead, I have closed myself almost completely... Which has led to frustration, and I've taken it out on her... No wonder her feelings for me have disappeared.

[Husar]

Man, that's bad.

I'm sorry for you, don't know what to say but I hope you'll be fine however it works out.

[rajpoot]

When I got out of a relationship, I did nothing for a week but listen to sad dreary songs and mope around the house. But after the week, I realised that I was young and I had long to live and I could not cry away the rest of my days for someone who did not wish to be with me, when the right time comes, she'll come back, till then I just have to wait patiently, for we can all afford to wait.

My case wasn't like your's we hadn't been that long into the relation, but I loved her, and always will.

But she wanted a break, she said she didn't want anything from me any longer, it rent my heart, but i have faith, she'll come back, someday, she will.
Take heart, be strong.

[naut]

That sucks. The only thing I can think of is this.