The "I got dumped" thread.

[pevergreen]

A woman can mold a man to her liking, a man must accept his woman for who she is.

I disagree. Gf and I have changed each other quite a bit. She no longer goes out partying and drinking.

Best way to get over female problems IMO:

We're sitting in Ventrilo, playing some dota.
We're pushing and we're owning, with the opponents we're toying.
We're sitting in Ventrilo, playing some dota.
Running around creeping, the opponents we're sleeping.

Works for me.

[Evil_Maniac From Mars]

We're sitting in Ventrilo, playing some dota.
We're pushing and we're owning, with the opponents we're toying.
We're sitting in Ventrilo, playing some dota.
Running around creeping, the opponents we're sleeping.

One of those guilty pleasures of life.

[Beirut]

HoreTore,

My man, you're going to have to suffer like all of us have. It's a part of life and utterly unavoidable. Drink beer, talk to your friends, visit your mom, read a book, watch a movie, do anything that will rescue your mood if only for a moment. Those moments add up. You'll live through this, you might not want to, but you will.

Besides, in a few weeks/months/(preferably not) years, you'll be rounding third base with that honey from the coffee shop.

You're only 21, the highs and lows of your love live have barely begun.

[HoreTore]

HoreTore,

My man, you're going to have to suffer like all of us have. It's a part of life and utterly unavoidable. Drink beer, talk to your friends, visit your mom, read a book, watch a movie, do anything that will rescue your mood if only for a moment. Those moments add up. You'll live through this, you might not want to, but you will.

Besides, in a few weeks/months/(preferably not) years, you'll be rounding third base with that honey from the coffee shop.

You're only 21, the highs and lows of your love live have barely begun.

Yeah, well...

It's 8 in the morning now, got back from work. Nobody home... Can't describe how that feeling was...

Trying to pick up the guts to pack a few things and drive away... I was stable a few hours at work, got my mind on other things(though most of the time spent wandering round like a zombie), but now I'm crushed again. Packing my stuff will no doubt be the hardest time so far in my life.

I still love her as much as I've always done. No doubt about that. I did send her a few messages with a rather sharp tone yesterday, I regret that more than anything. I have apologized for it, and I think she understands. The last thing I want is for her to hate me. I could never deal with that. Not now anyway.

Going back to mommy after I've packed. I'm not going to stay here, the only reason I lived here was because of her. She needs to live here more than I do. Not sure how long I'll be living with my family, but it'll probably be the better part of the summer, at least... Have to figure out my future again from scratch.

I may see her again tomorrow. Not sure if I should. Or what I should do if I do. Ah well, first things first...

[Beirut]

Hey, I'm not saying it's easy or fun or something that can be lightly dismissed. All I'm saying is that you've got no choice and you're going to have to muddle through as best you can.

If I could survive mine, you can survive yours. And though I never met another I loved as much, I did meet others I loved in different ways.

You're a man and this is part of it. To prove you're a man you've got to act like a man. Your heart may belong to her (for now) but your dignity is your own.

[Subedei]

Beer, friends, family, sports & travelling...everything that keeps ya head above the water & grabs your attention. Well, drink beer only with friends/family...NOT alone. It is more of a means to help talk about things you usally do not talk about.

Especially sports are good. I love to / have to swim, in case of a bigger emotional problems. Swimming helps your head to focus on the whats and whys me thinks. In case of very hard times...don`t swim in the sea/lakes/rivers, but in pools m8.

Good luck to you; Sub has been there once or twice, sometimes the ladies give us freakin`hard times...

[Caius]

sometimes the ladies give us freakin`hard times...

Thats wrong. Never called your lady five times with no luck?

[Andres]

What Beirut said

It's probably one of the hardest lessons you'll ever learn in life. It's part of growing up and becoming mature. You will be suffering for at least a few weeks, most likely a month or two, three. But that's ok, it's human.

But rest assured and remember this, while you are crawling through this awful period: there is light at the end of the tunnel. Plenty of it. And you will get there

[CountArach]

HoreTore man, this really sucks. I don't know what to say to you that will make it better, except that you will always have your buddies on this forum here to back you up whatever you do. Just remember that.

[Ice]

I disagree. Gf and I have changed each other quite a bit. She no longer goes out partying and drinking.

::cocks pistol::

[pevergreen]

::cocks pistol::

I hope you've got a permit for that weapon

We are both under 18, so while its not illegal for her to drink, I am strongly against anyone under 18 drinking.

Queensland has some screwed up laws.

Now