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    Well here's my problem! I always stuck out from the crowd because of my thoughts and my behaviour, a sort of anarhist, and because of that everyone's been poking at me. It can be everything you want, I still stand out. It's like a bright yellow flower in a huge mass of black flowers. No matter from where you view the field, that yellow flower is the first thing which gets in your eyes.

    For example, today we had an assembly, and everyone stood down and stuff, apart from the teachers. I seriously didn't want to sit down because I was really like void and I really didn't care about what was going on. I was the only one standing up.

    After the assembly finished, 4 guys were asking why did I stand up because I made a clown of myself.

    I don't care a damned bit about what I did, but it affects the relationships around, and no girl will ever take me seriously.
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    Someone will admire you for what you do. It might take some time, but someone will.
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    Quote Originally Posted by edyzmedieval
    I don't care a damned bit about what I did, but it affects the relationships around, and no girl will ever take me seriously.
    Fact of life:

    Women are different. Not everyone wants everything taken seriously. I recommend https://youtube.com/watch?v=Tqf9PuKi63E
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    Quote Originally Posted by edyzmedieval
    For example, today we had an assembly, and everyone stood down and stuff, apart from the teachers. I seriously didn't want to sit down because I was really like void and I really didn't care about what was going on. I was the only one standing up.

    After the assembly finished, 4 guys were asking why did I stand up because I made a clown of myself.

    I don't care a damned bit about what I did, but it affects the relationships around, and no girl will ever take me seriously.
    So sit down next time...

    Seriosly though, if you used to be fine with such things then you have probably just worked yourself up. Just calm down, put it in perspective, then go talk to her. That's all you need to do...
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    After being here in the frontroom for as long as I have, and experiencing in a way the topic at hand, I have to the conclusion that women account for much of the sadness and anger expressed here.

    You have my sympathies.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Ice
    After being here in the frontroom for as long as I have, and experiencing in a way the topic at hand, I have to the conclusion that women account for much of the sadness and anger expressed here.

    You have my sympathies.
    You can talk. Today you just celebrated 3 year of Orgahing. My 3 years will be on the 25th.

    I thank Dutch_guy for lifting my spirits. He reminded me that there are other people in life which are much better than the ones you encounter every day.

    But still, I feel void/blank now. It seems that even though I make friends easily for the past 2-3 years because of my outgoing behaviour and stuff I've been poked at and this brings you down.
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    Quote Originally Posted by edyzmedieval
    You can talk. Today you just celebrated 3 year of Orgahing. My 3 years will be on the 25th.

    I thank Dutch_guy for lifting my spirits. He reminded me that there are other people in life which are much better than the ones you encounter every day.

    But still, I feel void/blank now. It seems that even though I make friends easily for the past 2-3 years because of my outgoing behaviour and stuff I've been poked at and this brings you down.
    Dude, really, stop whining. "I'm feeling down because i stand out and noone will ever like me." Come on. With that attitude, you're probably right. Look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if you like yourself. If the answer is yes, then go out and do stuff. If the answer is no, you have problems you won't solve on this forum.

    Go join a gym. There's nothing like a 120 kg bar hovering over you to snap you out of your depression.
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    Quote Originally Posted by edyzmedieval
    You can talk. Today you just celebrated 3 year of Orgahing. My 3 years will be on the 25th.
    Wow, no kidding, it has been 3 years. I didn't even realize that. Thanks!



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    while everything you do may not seem appropriate you are not a follower and you are a free thinker. Just dont be a slave to doing things different just for its own sake. Thats as much a slave as following the rules for rules sake. People like you can grow into the greatest thinkers, artists, and entertainers. because you push the envelope.

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    http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=yjnvSQuv-H4

    If you like yourself, then it doesn't matter what other people think.
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    Bloody hell. I have had it with these whiny topics asking for life-advice. Not just this one, but come on, there must be better places to vent.
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    Then why did you post? No one is forcing you to read it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ichigo
    Then why did you post? No one is forcing you to read it.
    Because as far as I'm concerned the best advice is to do something. Nobody here can help someone with their specific problem(s) - all that can be provided is false confidence.

    If someone really wants to sort out a problem, they should do it. But these depressive threads serve no purpose except to whine and complain, solve nothing, and frankly I'm sick of it. I know enough people in the direct vicinity who can moan endlessly, but when push comes to shove don't actually do anything to help themselves, thankyouverymuch.

    But perhaps some people do get a kick out of dishing out hollow, disney-esque advice. I don't know.
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    Worrying is like a rocking chair - it give you something to do, but it doesn't get you anywhere.

    I needed the place to vent, that's why I came here. And as HT said, we're all strangers and we all vent here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Geoffrey S
    If someone really wants to sort out a problem, they should do it. But these depressive threads serve no purpose except to whine and complain, solve nothing, and frankly I'm sick of it. I know enough people in the direct vicinity who can moan endlessly, but when push comes to shove don't actually do anything to help themselves, thankyouverymuch.
    Which is exactly what you're doing now.
    I think you're underestimating how good it can feel to just say what you have on your chest sometimes to total strangers. They might not give usefull advice, but you've been able to say it at least, and that helps putting everything in perspective and getting over it.
    Last edited by Conradus; 05-20-2008 at 11:31.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Geoffrey S
    Bloody hell. I have had it with these whiny topics asking for life-advice. Not just this one, but come on, there must be better places to vent.
    Bah, we're all strangers here, and the tone is friendly; it's the perfect place to went.
    Still maintain that crying on the pitch should warrant a 3 match ban

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    Quote Originally Posted by Geoffrey S
    Bloody hell. I have had it with these whiny topics asking for life-advice. Not just this one, but come on, there must be better places to vent.
    This is The Frontroom, where people chat with their buddies at the Org.

    Deal with it.
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    By the by, I came home after work to an office floor covered with the dog's breakfast, which seems to have erupted from every orifice in his body.

    The next snotty post in this thread gets a virtual representation of my mood on their account.
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    And what is that mood?

    Do you want to talk about, Beirut? Cos here's the place.


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