Uhm no. What she says is that they have to realize how their actions are viewed by other people, and that some groups of people view certain actions differently than other groups of people. She doesn't say that women should stop inviting people home, she says that if you invite this and this person home, you should be aware that he might read more into it than that person over there.

And "not a perfect translation" is the understatement of the year. Complete forgery is a better term.