Best love movies?

[Big King Sanctaphrax]

Casablanca, surely?

Edit-Didn't notice the recent qualifier in the OP. Hmm. A Very Long Engagement is a charming film about the power of love, although I'm not sue I'd class it as a romance as such.

[Incongruous]

I would strongly recomend Becoming Jane.

[Lemur]

I'll second Becoming Jane. I can handle chick flicks when they are period pieces, and faithful to the period. That way my brain can engage with it as a historical film rather than a romcom. Check out the BBC's versions of Jane Austen for very highbrow chick flicks.

Any man who likes Love, Actually needs to take a long, hard look in the mirror. Do you also enjoy musical theater? Do you watch a lot of Bravo TV? Is your house/apartment tastefully decorated? Are you a very good dancer?

Just askin'.

[cmacq]

The Hot Chick, The New Guy, Old School

[Martok]

I'll second Becoming Jane. I can handle chick flicks when they are period pieces, and faithful to the period. That way my brain can engage with it as a historical film rather than a romcom. Check out the BBC's versions of Jane Austen for very highbrow chick flicks.

I'll agree with period pieces as well. Paying attention to the historical aspects makes it easier to swallow the romantic stuff.

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I know these are supposed to be rhetorical questions, but I just can't help myself....

Any man who likes Love, Actually needs to take a long, hard look in the mirror. Do you also enjoy musical theater?

Some, actually. I cheerfully admit to enjoying The Music Man, The Sound of Music, and Moulin Rouge. Indeed, I'm probably the only heterosexual male in the Western Hemisphere that will admit to owning a copy of the latter.

Do you watch a lot of Bravo TV?

Only when reruns of The West Wing are on. Otherwise, no.

Is your house/apartment tastefully decorated?

Only if numerous stacks of books, Lego space sets, and classic Transformer figures posed all over my bookshelf count as "tasteful".

Are you a very good dancer?

Gods, no. I'm as uncoordinated as every other white American male.

[Devastatin Dave]

Old Yeller...

[cmacq]

A Guy Thing

[Fragony]

Leaving Las Vegas, Lost in translation (platonic), In the mood for love.

[Banquo's Ghost]

Some, actually. I cheerfully admit to enjoying The Music Man, The Sound of Music, and Moulin Rouge. Indeed, I'm probably the only heterosexual male in the Western Hemisphere that will admit to owning a copy of the latter.

Nope, you have company.

Beirut is right about The Notebook, but it's entirely a chick movie.

Casablanca goes without saying, but my favourites of the romantic genre (and I make no apology for being a sucker for this stuff) are:

Somewhere in Time
Joe versus the Volcano
Shakespeare in Love
Bridges of Madison County
Breakfast at Tiffanys
Robin and Marion (look it up - it's a real gem)

and Emma (the Gwyneth Paltrow version).

And yes, Lemur, I dress immaculately.

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According to my wife, anyway.

[Ser Clegane]

Robin and Marion (look it up - it's a real gem)

seconded - this was a very pleasant surprise when I saw it for the first time.

Among other favorites would be

Harold and Maude (I assume that one qualifies)
The Piano
The Remains of the Day

Probably missed something...

[cmacq]

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