I'll second Becoming Jane. I can handle chick flicks when they are period pieces, and faithful to the period. That way my brain can engage with it as a historical film rather than a romcom. Check out the BBC's versions of Jane Austen for very highbrow chick flicks.

Any man who likes Love, Actually needs to take a long, hard look in the mirror. Do you also enjoy musical theater? Do you watch a lot of Bravo TV? Is your house/apartment tastefully decorated? Are you a very good dancer?

Just askin'.