Quote Originally Posted by TuffStuffMcGruff
You can legally do these things but that doesn't mean that they have to be accepted by the hearts of men and women if you are found out.
McGruff, we all know what you mean. Honestly, we do. Lying to your spouse is bad - in most cases, not all. If you love a woman dearly like you apparently love your own - and with every reason, judging by the great pictures you posted on your profile page - then it IS bad to betray her and lie to her. No doubt about it.

But there is lying and lying. Mosley has admitted that he lied to his wife about his sexual activities, and stated that their exposure by the paper was very painful to his family as well as himself. Now something (experience, knowledge of other peoples' affairs) tells me that his wife would have preferred him to keep lying about them and keep them quiet as well, so she wouldn't have to confront this sort of information either in private or in public. And you know what? Despite all this they can still love each other, their sexual attraction may have been over for years or even decades, and they could still be faithful in all matters that are truly important to them. More than a few great minds have lived such lives, and more than a few marriages of convenience have survived because the partners conveniently looked the other way now and then.

What it comes down to, and what I and other posters are trying to convey to you, is that there are obviously criteria for good and bad, but that we can not possibly know if and how they apply in some else's intimate life. It is not you business, nor our business or the public's business to decide what is right or wrong in other peoples' private affairs.