Coping with Bi-Polar

[Lemur]

That's tough stuff, Redleg. My thoughts are with you, and my prayers. I dated a bi-polar girl back in the 1800s when I was young, and it was ... memorable. I can only imagine how much excitement accrues to marrying a woman with that condition.

I'm truly sorry to hear she's messing with your finances in the ways that only a spouse can ...

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I'm sure this is nothing you haven't seen before, but just in case:

How to survive in a marriage when your spouse is Bipolar
Marriage & Manic Depression: Making It Work
Bipolar: Beating the Marriage Odds