Agoge questions

[Ludens]

Thanks for the answer, Bovi.

The family member has to have the "youthful" trait: so he must be younger than 20 and cannot be adopted or married into the family. Adoptees and suitors always start out as "man grown", regardless of age. (Unfortunately the trait cannot see the characters actual age, and since adoptees can be anything from 20 to 60 years old, it was decided to give them the rather neutral "man grown" trait.)