She wouldn't have to lie about her ten year old, she'd just have to accompany it to the cinema. It is recommended for thirteen and over, but thirteen and under can view it with parental presence, as I recall.
I was allowed to see Braveheart at maybe eleven or twelve, and I turned out alright. Though I would be more concerned about my children seeing a sex scene than a violence scene, for a few reasons.
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