Well, Takeda got Mikawa when I wasn't planning on them getting that province, so I was pretty glad that the loyalists could wreak some havoc on that province, if only temporary. Indeed, you should be able to weaken a castle at least a few levels (or even one), but alas, that's the way it is (I would've loved a diplomacy system which emulated the historical situation; for example, Ieyasu who gets the Kanto for his old provinces).
Oda is indeed nothing more than two provinces without infrastructure; they do have Toyotomi though (thankfully he didn't spawn in a ashigaru unit). My main problem is borders and amount of troops/infrastructure. My current strategy is pretty much building/turtling in the east and carefully expanding in the west. But maybe you guys have other suggestions? The Takeda-border sounds like a good plan as well, but I'd need more troops for a manouvre like that, I think.
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