Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
Kadagar,
An alcholic doesn't need to drink 6 bottles a night to be an alcoholic, sadly. I'm not suggesting it may be a problem to insult or judge on you or anything. I just think that this whole post kinda cries out that something's wrong, and that you know it, on some level.
Koga no Goshi
I give my Nihon Maru to TosaInu in tribute.
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
If you find out afterwards thats one thing but Im sure that wasnt the case all the time.Originally Posted by Kadagar_AV
There, but for the grace of God, goes John Bradford
My aim, then, was to whip the rebels, to humble their pride, to follow them to their inmost recesses, and make them fear and dread us. Fear is the beginning of wisdom.
I am tired and sick of war. Its glory is all moonshine. It is only those who have neither fired a shot nor heard the shrieks and groans of the wounded who cry aloud for blood, for vengeance, for desolation.
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
Yea I'm a functioning member of society!
There, but for the grace of God, goes John Bradford
My aim, then, was to whip the rebels, to humble their pride, to follow them to their inmost recesses, and make them fear and dread us. Fear is the beginning of wisdom.
I am tired and sick of war. Its glory is all moonshine. It is only those who have neither fired a shot nor heard the shrieks and groans of the wounded who cry aloud for blood, for vengeance, for desolation.
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
Too much censorship on these boards.
Last edited by Kadagar_AV; 10-22-2008 at 18:46.
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
How scummy of you.
There, but for the grace of God, goes John Bradford
My aim, then, was to whip the rebels, to humble their pride, to follow them to their inmost recesses, and make them fear and dread us. Fear is the beginning of wisdom.
I am tired and sick of war. Its glory is all moonshine. It is only those who have neither fired a shot nor heard the shrieks and groans of the wounded who cry aloud for blood, for vengeance, for desolation.
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
I have to agree with SFTS. You were not thinking rationally. Honestly, she's there with her new husband and cheating already.
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
Whatever you've lost, you're not going to get back.
It's part of life.
You sought something, you found it, and it isn't as pleasant as it is ever portrayed.
What are you seeking to find and satisfy through all these women? An Ideal? Curiosity? Pleasure?
What really made you decide to begin this lifestyle, and what causes you to continue it?
Anyway, I know this may seem out of place, but I'd like to recommend a few books if I could, that you may enjoy, or at least find an empathetic situation:
Women, Charles Bukowski
The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Milan Kundera
Couples, John Updike
My kingdom for a
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Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
I don't think I'm necessarily right either Kadagar, but I do think something is wrong to engage in this kind of behavior casually.
And I'm not a Christian, or super thumping moralist or anything. So I'm saying it without judgment, just an observation.
This is very sociopathic sounding. I would seriously treat this as a problem. You should talk to a professional of some sort.Like the honeymoon one, I was aware she was tehre with her new husband, what made me do it was actually curiosity... "Will she really..."
Koga no Goshi
I give my Nihon Maru to TosaInu in tribute.
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
How much of this is bitterness at women, and how much is bitterness at yourself?
Your OP suggests that, whatever temporary "fun" you were having, you were aware that you were putting your deeper life and self on "hold" while pursing this end (pardon the pun).
Perhaps it is time to return to your original course?
"The only way that has ever been discovered to have a lot of people cooperate together voluntarily is through the free market. And that's why it's so essential to preserving individual freedom.” -- Milton Friedman
"The urge to save humanity is almost always a false front for the urge to rule." -- H. L. Mencken
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
Too much censorship on these boards.
Last edited by Kadagar_AV; 10-22-2008 at 18:48.
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
Whatever one day you will get whats coming toward you
There, but for the grace of God, goes John Bradford
My aim, then, was to whip the rebels, to humble their pride, to follow them to their inmost recesses, and make them fear and dread us. Fear is the beginning of wisdom.
I am tired and sick of war. Its glory is all moonshine. It is only those who have neither fired a shot nor heard the shrieks and groans of the wounded who cry aloud for blood, for vengeance, for desolation.
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
Hey Kad,
I didn't mean you are a sociopath. But that was a slightly sociopathic act. Sociopath doesn't necessarily mean flipping out and mass murdering people. Just means you reject rules of behavior and social norms and only follow your own.
Koga no Goshi
I give my Nihon Maru to TosaInu in tribute.
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
As a Catholic, I believe that that may be said of all of us.
"The only way that has ever been discovered to have a lot of people cooperate together voluntarily is through the free market. And that's why it's so essential to preserving individual freedom.” -- Milton Friedman
"The urge to save humanity is almost always a false front for the urge to rule." -- H. L. Mencken
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
I meant in real life and you are right a man should not throw stones. This thread just hit a raw nerve Im done with it.
Thank you brother
There, but for the grace of God, goes John Bradford
My aim, then, was to whip the rebels, to humble their pride, to follow them to their inmost recesses, and make them fear and dread us. Fear is the beginning of wisdom.
I am tired and sick of war. Its glory is all moonshine. It is only those who have neither fired a shot nor heard the shrieks and groans of the wounded who cry aloud for blood, for vengeance, for desolation.
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
No, I'd say it was a bit harsh for you to have sex with another man's wife, so you could see if "she really would" was how you put it I believe.
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
A little adventure is ok these things happen, sex is fun enjoy it.
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
Kadgar ...
If you seek advice with your OP amongst your peers here at .org, at least I can give you one.
Stay away from the committed honeys. If you learn that she has a man, just abort whatever process you are running with her.
I have no problem with singles having casual sex, in fact I would encourage it. IMO a relationship is dependent on a couple having good intimacy. But I believe in families and as soon as you have found your partner you make the commitment to stay true.
To say that everyone cheats, is a fallacy. You yourself just admitted that you never cheat when in a relationship. I'll break it to you, this is the norm.
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Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
Why. Women are creatures with free will. She is either in a lose relationship so it doesn't matter, or she isn't and she has probably done it before and will most likely do it again, so it doesn't matter.
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
Too much censorship on these boards.
Last edited by Kadagar_AV; 10-22-2008 at 18:48.
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
Why are you not cheating while in a relationship?
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Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
My, my, what to say. My view is that you need a bloody good hiding for shagging other mens wives. If the husband finds out, what do you think will happen? You state that you've had sex with mothers, what happens to the kids if the parents divorce because of you? There are many single women out there, so why screw up a family. Besides that, as has been said, you sound terribly bitter towards females. I'd try a lot of positive self talk if I were you, (although I've never knowingly had sex with someone in a relationship, it's just plain wrong), you're the problem, not the women. This is evident in your treatment of them, which i find despicable.
What he said. ^^
There are times I wish they’d just ban everything- baccy and beer, burgers and bangers, and all the rest- once and for all. Instead, they creep forward one apparently tiny step at a time. It’s like being executed with a bacon slicer.
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To learn who rules over you, simply find out who you are not allowed to criticise.
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Give the man a break he is a swedish ski-instructor, hardest part of the job is probably fighting of these harpies no shame in losing once or twice.
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
No. There are plenty of single women about, no need to bugger up families.
There are times I wish they’d just ban everything- baccy and beer, burgers and bangers, and all the rest- once and for all. Instead, they creep forward one apparently tiny step at a time. It’s like being executed with a bacon slicer.
“Politics is the art of looking for trouble, finding it whether it exists or not, diagnosing it incorrectly, and applying the wrong remedy.”
To learn who rules over you, simply find out who you are not allowed to criticise.
"The purpose of a university education for Left / Liberals is to attain all the politically correct attitudes towards minorties, and the financial means to live as far away from them as possible."
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
Too much censorship on these boards.
Last edited by Kadagar_AV; 10-22-2008 at 18:49.
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
He isn't, these women are. Your best friend's girlfriend is a no, the rest is fair game. If I can get a go at Angelina Jolie I wouldn't be very burdened by the fact that she's with Brad Pitt.
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
Too much censorship on these boards.
Last edited by Kadagar_AV; 10-22-2008 at 18:49.
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
That's not the point. You stated that you did have sex with several married women. You are dodging responsibility. Did you know that under UK law, it could be you that would pay all the legal costs for the divorce. It could run into thousands of pounds. Just shrugging you shoulders and saying "Nowt to do with me guv!" is dishonest.
Your arguement is a bit like saying that you'd rob a bank, because if you didn't do it, someone else would. Some things are just wrong.
There are times I wish they’d just ban everything- baccy and beer, burgers and bangers, and all the rest- once and for all. Instead, they creep forward one apparently tiny step at a time. It’s like being executed with a bacon slicer.
“Politics is the art of looking for trouble, finding it whether it exists or not, diagnosing it incorrectly, and applying the wrong remedy.”
To learn who rules over you, simply find out who you are not allowed to criticise.
"The purpose of a university education for Left / Liberals is to attain all the politically correct attitudes towards minorties, and the financial means to live as far away from them as possible."
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
Too much censorship on these boards.
Last edited by Kadagar_AV; 10-22-2008 at 18:50.
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
I still think it depends on the person as well.
Im sorry Khadgar, but that post just makes me sick. (edit: First post)
Normally I would be all for you, but what I was told last night, just makes that terrible.
Last edited by pevergreen; 10-17-2008 at 12:04.
Re: Casual sex is good, or is it?
That actually happened? Sounds like something from the victorian era. People are responsible for their own relationships. If a woman cheats on her husband she is the only one who should be held responsible. Saying no to sex, no.
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