Casual sex is good, or is it?

**Lemur** · 10-16-2008, 21:48

Kadagar, it's useful when you're tied up in knots to ask: What do you want? Seems to me you thought you wanted to bang as many partners as possible, then realized what an empty thing that was.

So if you could have your way, what would you want now?

**Ice** · 10-16-2008, 22:32

Originally Posted by Lemur

Kadagar, it's useful when you're tied up in knots to ask: What do you want? Seems to me you thought you wanted to bang as many partners as possible, then realized what an empty thing that was.

So if you could have your way, what would you want now?

I'd have to agree, although I can't really offer much advice for a solution other than don't screw committed people. It sounds like you have a lot of regret.

**Kadagar_AV** · 10-16-2008, 22:41

Too much censorship on these boards.

**Koga No Goshi** · 10-17-2008, 00:56

Originally Posted by Kadagar_AV

Koga, Maybe. I always liked sex:)

Liking sex =/= compulsion to have sex.

3 digit partners, that's over 100 presumably right? That's beyond just liking sex, that's nearly self destructive behavior in terms of risk, STD's, etc.

**Evil_Maniac From Mars** · 10-17-2008, 01:12

Originally Posted by Kadagar_AV

SFTS. maybe, but I am a nice player. I dont intentionally hurt people. Sure, I might cause hurt if soemone finds out they have been cheated on, but, well, it#s bound to happen with or without me.

No. If there were less people doing what you have done, not nearly as many people would have been hurt. Sorry, but that's the cold, hard truth. You did something wrong if you knew they were taken. So did they, admittedly, but you had a certain responsibility. SFTS is right.

**Kadagar_AV** · 10-17-2008, 01:53

Too much censorship on these boards.

**Strike For The South** · 10-17-2008, 01:57

Originally Posted by Kadagar_AV

EMFM, your logic is only true if the girls really wanted me. However, my belief is that most girls wants "a ski instructor" or "a cool guy". Meaning, if I was not around, some less attractive ski instructor would have got the girl, or some less cool guy. But she would have had sex either way.

Sure, you flatter my ego when you think the girls falls for me, however, I dont believe it to be true (in some cases, maybe, but that's very few).

They may have but that guy would've ruined a family not you.