Casual sex is good, or is it?

[Andres]

The more complicated you make your life, the more chance of becoming unhappy.

Kadagar, I think one of the reasons you dislike women, is because you approach them as objects who exist solely to fulfill your sexual desires. As long as you don't change that approach, you won't find happiness in a relationship. The problem is not women, the problem is you.

And Kage: I've known two couples who tried the "you're free to sleep with somebody else"-approach: one ended in breaking up, the other one ended in a very painful divorce. That stuff just doesn't work and nobody will ever manage to convince me otherwise. People who do that and tell you that they have a healthy relationship are lying to you and themselves. My advice : either stop the madness and take a fresh start with "normal rules" for your relationship (your gf hates it as much as you do, so what's the point in keeping those "rules"), or, if too much damage has been done, quit the relationship and never do such a thing again.

As for me, I'm married and I consider loyalty and fidelity the most important things in a relationship. I cannot accept cheating and I strongly dislike people who cheat on their partner. As for the single guy/woman sleeping with a married woman/man, sorry, you get nadda, zero, nul sympathy from me. And I don't buy the petty "I'm not the one who's married/has a relationship, so I'm not the one doing anything wrong"-excuse. That's nonsense. You are knowingly cooperating in destroying a relationship or, even worse, a marriage. And the "but if it's not me, she'll take somebody else". You can at least be honorable for yourself. It's not because somebody else will lower himself to the lowest of levels, that you should do so as well. You have no apologies nor excuses. None, nada, zero.

I've seen too many broken marriages/relationships, both in my professional life as with people who are/were close to me. To be completely honest I detest people who cheat on their wife/husband or singles who happily cooperate, so I'll just refrain from further posting in this thread.

[ICantSpellDawg]

Water seeks its own level. You control your bouyancy.

Imagine if boy1 and girl build a sand castle together, then girl runs over to boy2 and they mutually decide that they will destroy the sandcastle that she and boy1 obviously built together.

Clearly girl is a sleezebag. What level of blame would you give boy2?

[Andres]

Water seeks its own level. You control your bouyancy.

Imagine if boy1 and girl build a sand castle together, then girl runs over to boy2 and they mutually decide that they will destroy the sandcastle that she and boy1 obviously built together.

Clearly girl is a sleezebag. What level of blame would you give boy2?

For his own five minutes of pleasure, he destroys the life of boy1.

Boy2 is extremely selfish and needs some re-education

[Louis VI the Fat]

Andres, evil orgahs are poking fun at you in the American election thread!!1!!


Well, me in fact. But I thought I'd mention it anyway.