Having looked up and read some of these Bible passages, in the main they seem to be supporting what she wants to say, ie:
1) Sex is evil. Colossians 3:5. Matthew 5:28.
2) We are all sinners. Romans 3:22-24. Matthew 7:13-14.
3) Her way is the only true salvation (unbelievers and heathens like me are doomed...) and this is manifestly obvious.
In other words she has selcted particular sections with the aim of convincing you that she is right. Which is fine.
Now to counteract that find some verses that support her ex's/your side/ a different viewpoint to hers. Then you can get some discussion going. 
Anyways much of what she told you to read is, in my opinion either wrong - even many of my Christian friends say that God is not 'clearly seen and understood': or more to the point out-dated or open to interpretation as Alexander Sextus points out above. I wouldn't pay overly much attention to it.
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