Actually, probably the best way to disarm her, and make quick friends with her is like this:
Find out if you have mutual friends. If you do, get yourselves acquainted. If not, make friends with a friend of hers, and then get acquainted.
The acceptance of you by people she trusts will allow her to trust you easier. Otherwise she might just think you're some creep who stares at her neck all day while you sit behind her on the bleachers.
And do not obsess!!!! All people need their space.
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