On Conquest!

**Strike For The South** · 11-16-2008, 21:33

Originally Posted by Strike For The South

move on

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**Alexanderofmacedon** · 11-16-2008, 23:13

I'd agree with SFTS, but if you really can't move on at all, there is no use in sitting by. If it's obvious the friendship is too awkward, you might as well ask once more. If you get a yes, great, if you get a no, you finally have closure. Don't talk to her anymore unless she talks to you.(in other words dont be mean, but just dont mess around if you dont have to).

best of luck

**Kekvit Irae** · 11-17-2008, 00:01

Once you've hit the awkward zone, there's no hope. It seems to me like she's trying to avoid the subject without offending you.
As the others have said, move on.

**Hooahguy** · 11-17-2008, 00:58

thats the problem. i cant move on. ive tried many, many times. every time, whenever i ..... think of girls...... i think of her. my mind wont let me think of anyone else.
i dont just think shes hot, i like her for who she is as a person...
god, im screwed....

**KarlXII** · 11-17-2008, 01:12

Hate to be blunt, but get over it. Move on. Plenty of fish in the sea, as the French say.

**Hooahguy** · 11-17-2008, 01:12

lol... ill try....

**Strike For The South** · 11-17-2008, 01:46

Originally Posted by hooahguy

thats the problem. i cant move on. ive tried many, many times. every time, whenever i ..... think of girls...... i think of her. my mind wont let me think of anyone else.
i dont just think shes hot, i like her for who she is as a person...
god, im screwed....

No you're not just remember there is always someone better!

**Centurio Nixalsverdrus** · 11-17-2008, 22:51

King Henry:
When sitting behind her, tap on her shoulder and ask her a study related question. The first impression is incredibly important, so make sure to show your chocolate side. Some days later, approach her "by pure coincidence", smile at her and start talking. Or just smile and talk to her on the first occasion... Afterwards, ask her en passant if she likes to go to the canteen with you.

Originally Posted by hooahguy

thats the problem. i cant move on. ive tried many, many times. every time, whenever i ..... think of girls...... i think of her. my mind wont let me think of anyone else.
i dont just think shes hot, i like her for who she is as a person...
god, im screwed....

Totally know your situation. For some odd reason, girls don't seem to appreciate it very much if you like her as a person. Girls almost always like the

-chaps. So my advice would be, be an

and ignore her. If you are lucky, some weeks later she will offer you a cookie or something like that (Really happened to me). Than do not freak out but stay reserved albeit friendly. Slowly. You cannot force anything.

**Hooahguy** · 11-17-2008, 23:34

heres the ting: we do talk. mostly online, but sometimes face-to-face.
as of now, i talk to her. a bit. its not totally awkward, and if it is its only for her. we say hi in the hallways. were breaking the ice, after a year or so.
but its slow.
any ideas on how to break the ice with her?

**Strike For The South** · 11-17-2008, 23:35

Originally Posted by hooahguy

heres the ting: we do talk. mostly online, but smetimes face-to-face.
as of now, i tlak to her. a bit. its not totally akward, and if it is its only for her. we say hi in the hallways. were breaking the ice, after a year or so.
but its slow.
any ideas on how to break the ice with her?

Dont come off as needy. Just move on.

**Craterus** · 11-18-2008, 00:46

Originally Posted by Centurio Nixalsverdrus

King Henry:
When sitting behind her, tap on her shoulder and ask her a study related question. The first impression is incredibly important, so make sure to show your chocolate side.

Risky. Some girls don't like the approach from behind.

**Alexanderofmacedon** · 11-18-2008, 01:07

Though it's not the case for all woman, it seems from my experience many like being treated like crap. Maybe it's the effort to get the guy that makes them like it more and more. Being only 18, I think it's also possible it's a maturity thing. While some girls mature, I think most woman realize a sweet devoted man who gives them affection is the way to go.

As of now hooahguy, I have the same problem. I will not say I'm 'needy', but I have no problem devoting more than the good amount of time and energy. I've learned to just cool it. Keep excitement to yourself and treat them normally. Hard for nice guys, but not impossible. Good luck.

**naut** · 11-18-2008, 14:17

Originally Posted by Craterus

Risky. Some girls don't like the approach from behind.

Oh my.

Good luck King Henry V, your Uni sounds similar to mine. So damn hard to get the time or space to get into a conversation with anyone.

And hooahguy, you have to move on. If you don't I'll fly over there and make you move on.