On Conquest!

**Hooahguy** · 11-17-2008, 23:34

heres the ting: we do talk. mostly online, but sometimes face-to-face.
as of now, i talk to her. a bit. its not totally awkward, and if it is its only for her. we say hi in the hallways. were breaking the ice, after a year or so.
but its slow.
any ideas on how to break the ice with her?

**Strike For The South** · 11-17-2008, 23:35

Originally Posted by hooahguy

heres the ting: we do talk. mostly online, but smetimes face-to-face.
as of now, i tlak to her. a bit. its not totally akward, and if it is its only for her. we say hi in the hallways. were breaking the ice, after a year or so.
but its slow.
any ideas on how to break the ice with her?

Dont come off as needy. Just move on.

**Hooahguy** · 11-17-2008, 23:39

even if i did move on, i should still try to be friends with her.....
which will be acheived when we break the ice....

**Strike For The South** · 11-17-2008, 23:43

Originally Posted by hooahguy

even if i did move on, i should still try to be friends with her.....
which will be acheived when we break the ice....

Men and women can never be truly platonic friends but hey put her on the back burner until she is comfortable with you again. I dont have a problem with that. It might happen it might not. I wouldn't lose sleep over it

**Yoyoma1910** · 11-18-2008, 00:03

Originally Posted by Strike For The South

Men and women can never be truly platonic friends but hey put her on the back burner until she is comfortable with you again. I dont have a problem with that. It might happen it might not. I wouldn't lose sleep over it

Also, women are often more interested in a man if other women are also interested in him. It makes their job of figuring out if a potential mate is a looser or not easier. If you haven't been tested by another driver, how is she supposed to know you're not a jalopy?

**Centurio Nixalsverdrus** · 11-18-2008, 00:11

Originally Posted by hooahguy

even if i did move on, i should still try to be friends with her.....
which will be acheived when we break the ice....

I know it's frustrating but just wait. Be friendly, but reserved. Try to be cold-blooded about it (even though it's impossible), that will make your friendship appear more desirable. In reality no girl wants somebody who's chasing after her.

**||Lz3||** · 11-18-2008, 05:18

Originally Posted by hooahguy

even if i did move on, i should still try to be friends with her.....
which will be acheived when we break the ice....

hum happened to me once...I had this crush with someone for 2 years or so, so when I finally I made my move, I was already in the "Friend zone" or sort of, so she gave me a plain no .

just... erase your cassette

Forget what happened, clean your mind just ignore it with all your force of will, then continue as if nothing had happened ... talk to her as if she was somone else, and if an akward silence comes... just keep talking, you'll be friends in no time

(you might need time...time heals every wound)