On Conquest!

[Craterus]

King Henry:
When sitting behind her, tap on her shoulder and ask her a study related question. The first impression is incredibly important, so make sure to show your chocolate side.

Risky. Some girls don't like the approach from behind.

[Alexanderofmacedon]

Though it's not the case for all woman, it seems from my experience many like being treated like crap. Maybe it's the effort to get the guy that makes them like it more and more. Being only 18, I think it's also possible it's a maturity thing. While some girls mature, I think most woman realize a sweet devoted man who gives them affection is the way to go.

As of now hooahguy, I have the same problem. I will not say I'm 'needy', but I have no problem devoting more than the good amount of time and energy. I've learned to just cool it. Keep excitement to yourself and treat them normally. Hard for nice guys, but not impossible. Good luck.

[Centurio Nixalsverdrus]

Hard for nice guys, but not impossible. Good luck.

We nice guys must always suffer for our admiration for the girl race.

[Alexanderofmacedon]

We nice guys must always suffer for our admiration for the girl race.

Until they mature, I hope.

[||Lz3||]

even if i did move on, i should still try to be friends with her.....
which will be acheived when we break the ice....

hum happened to me once...I had this crush with someone for 2 years or so, so when I finally I made my move, I was already in the "Friend zone" or sort of, so she gave me a plain no .

just... erase your cassette

Forget what happened, clean your mind just ignore it with all your force of will, then continue as if nothing had happened ... talk to her as if she was somone else, and if an akward silence comes... just keep talking, you'll be friends in no time (you might need time...time heals every wound)

[naut]

Risky. Some girls don't like the approach from behind.

Oh my.

Good luck King Henry V, your Uni sounds similar to mine. So damn hard to get the time or space to get into a conversation with anyone.

And hooahguy, you have to move on. If you don't I'll fly over there and make you move on.

[Hooahguy]

lol. you want to come over and get into my mind? kinda hard....

[Abokasee]

Well, hooahguy, moving on would probably be one of the... 'wiser' decisions to make, but probably the more difficult and self harming (Mentally so), if you want to continue, you can, and I won't call you foolish.

There seems to be a slight joy I've noticed from people when they reject someone, the closer you are to them, the more joyous it is, maybe its not joy at all though, maybe they dislike going out with someone they know all ready.

Anyway, moving on is almost certainly the only thing could happen with a remotely good result. (as far a probability is concerned)

As for you King Henry V, it is not too late for you. Seize the moment, you might not get a chance like you've said again, sure theres not much time during uni, but after perhaps?

It seems to me like she's trying to avoid the subject without offending you.

Oh I hate when anyone does that, why can't anyone just say what they think.

When I try to be smart or give advice, theres a very arrogant tone in my head I simply cannot get out of there. Anyway, I shall resume normal, manically-depressed lunatic orgah soon.

[Strike For The South]

Well, hooahguy, moving on would probably be one of the... 'wiser' decisions to make, but probably the more difficult and self harming (Mentally so), if you want to continue, you can, and I won't call you foolish.
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its the opposite way cowboy.

[Abokasee]

its the opposite way cowboy.

Ummm... Enlighten me on that paticular response? I do not understand.


Unless of course you mean: If you do continue, bring at least 15 Bottles of your preferred alcohol, in which case you are absolutely correct.

[Strike For The South]

Ummm... Enlighten me on that paticular response? I do not understand.

If he keeps pining for her it will hurt him allot more mentally.

[Yoyoma1910]

Alright gentlemen, this is the current estimate of the world's population of women:


3,330,201,077

I'm assuming your in high school, so lets say women across the world in your potential dating range (not necessarily at this moment, please do nothing rash) are:


15-19: 292,128,544
and
20-24: 284,446,368



That's a lot of women for you to choose from. Get over it, and get to work. Make some little Hoohahbabies.

[Thermal]

do bring a pack of playing cards, for love and murder....

[Hooahguy]

i plan on directly confronting her on why we dont talk too much, then work with her to figure out a way to make it less akward for her to talk to me.
would that do more harm than good?

[Decker]

i plan on directly confronting her on why we dont talk too much, then work with her to figure out a way to make it less akward for her to talk to me.
would that do more harm than good?

Maybe if you did it in the nude...

[Hooahguy]

that a joke?

[Decker]

that a joke?

No...

This is serious business get with it

[Yoyoma1910]

i plan on directly confronting her on why we dont talk too much, then work with her to figure out a way to make it less akward for her to talk to me.
would that do more harm than good?

It sounds like you're trying to make the situation more awkward.

[Hooahguy]

maybe. but i should definitly tell her that my intentions are only to be friends, not anything else (as of now).
that should help, i guess.

[Yoyoma1910]

If you're going to be direct and confrontational about it, why lie?


Just go the whole way and get it over with, rather than drag it out.


If she's not interested in you now, what is going to change the situation? Is she dating someone she might break up with? Are you planing on changing your personality? Lifting some weights maybe?

[Hooahguy]

shes not dating anyone, and she just broke up w/ someone a month or two ago.
so i dunno....
EDIT: and ya, im working our and stuff......
when i rip that shirt off at the next dance i wont be that flat stomach anymore!
but the key is that i just want to be good friends with her, before anything else....

[Yoyoma1910]

Alright,


How long was she dating the other person? Give her a week or so of recovery per month of relationship.


When you go in to tell her, "You simply want to be friends," use a neutral, low key social situation to talk to her about it. And don't force the issue. Start off with something light, maybe ask her how she's been, since you haven't seen her in awhile. Feel out whether she's willing to address what you actually want to talk about. Don't make her deal with it if doesn't want to.

[Megas Methuselah]

Oh, wow. King Henry is creeping me out with his stalker-like description, as others have previously pointed out.

Anyways, this is for you, Hooah. I've never been involved in a serious relationship, so I would have to agree with others on the following advice: Move on. However, you're a little stubborn about not doing so, therefore I'll think of something else.

[previous advice removed]

EDIT: Hmm. Now that I really think about it... Perhaps you should just casually talk to her, as you previously suggested. It requires a lot of thought, though. Taking into consideration that you want to be good friends with her first, then yeah, I would approach and say something along the lines of, "Hey, how's it going? I haven't heard from you for a while!" You should ensure, though, that there's at least a week or so of no direct contact beforehand. It makes your approach seem more legitimate.

Anyways, if she says no when you eventually ask her out, then so be it. Just move on and do what I do, casually hopping from girl to girl. I can guarantee that it's really fun.

[Yoyoma1910]

If she says no, then so be it. Just move on and do what I do, casually hopping from girl to girl. I can guarantee that it's really fun.

Eh, it gets boring.

[Megas Methuselah]

Well, I'm still young and enjoying the great fruits of life! It's not boring, yet! And it wouldn't be for Hooah, he's still younger than me!

[Hooahguy]

Alright,


How long was she dating the other person? Give her a week or so of recovery per month of relationship.


When you go in to tell her, "You simply want to be friends," use a neutral, low key social situation to talk to her about it. And don't force the issue. Start off with something light, maybe ask her how she's been, since you haven't seen her in awhile. Feel out whether she's willing to address what you actually want to talk about. Don't make her deal with it if doesn't want to.

she dated for a month with him. technically 2 months, but one of them she was at camp.

[Craterus]

Oh my.

I was actually being half-serious. Something about trust issues.

[Abokasee]

If he keeps pining for her it will hurt him allot more mentally.

Thats what the booze was for!

Anyway, normal Abokasee will resume shortly...

[Yoyoma1910]

Well, I'm still young and enjoying the great fruits of life! It's not boring, yet! And it wouldn't be for Hooah, he's still younger than me!

Age has nothing to do with it. For all choices in life their are effects and repercussions.

[Hooahguy]

i did it! i somehow got her out of my mind!
yay, im so proud!