Quote Originally Posted by Philipvs Vallindervs Calicvla View Post
Does all this bitterness come from somewhere?

You are aware that historically gay men often married gay women, raised perfectly normal families and had an affair on the side. While the deception is certainly morally questionable I think the number of "ruined lives" was relatively low.

Which is not to say it didn't happen far too often.
When you say "often" what are you basing this on? Are you saying that in relation to the amount of homosexually active males who married heterosexual females?