Since everyone seems to explain his own personal drama...

[edyzmedieval]

Man, just get over WoW. Really, I don't understand how emotionally attached people can get to MMORPGs. I met a girl once a few months ago from Oregon on the Internet, after boringly surfing and finding a rather funny teen chatzone. I mean, some guys there are sooo desperate. So I made fun of them and this girl came up and chatted with me for a while and stuff like that.

Well with this and that we exchanged MSN addresses and soon I found myself bombarded with messages from her and e-mails when I was off-line. Messages of the: "I miss you, I want to talk to you" like. I ended up loging into MSN in off-line state most of the time, to avoid talking to her. Well of the times we did talk, she begun opening her heart more and more, telling me personal stuff and the like.

That's all good and sound, I can live with this, but that's when the big bomb exploded. She said one phrace that was enough to make me block and delete her from my friendlist: "Umm, Tasos (my name), I'm... I'm rather horny right now...". Believe it or not, laugh as much as you want (I did, for one).

So just forget about her, don't go messing with people you've never seen or have such erratic behavior and unpredicted personalities.

Maion

Dude, you refused free MSN stimulation? Come on man, a cute conversation now and then won't hurt...

[Ramses II CP]

Okay, as someone who finds damaged women appealing let me just give you two bits of advice:

1. Don't fight it. You're going to want what you want, trying to change it at the source is just going to make it worse. As a poet once said, 'The heart will bear no tether.' The harder you pull back the tighter that knot is going to get until you're drawn in like a black hole. So if you want it, go after it before your silly Romeo restraint makes you even crazier in love/lust/crush/whatever.

2. (And this only works if you're not fighting) Keep a clear head! The crushing current of her messed up life will swallow you in a hurry if you don't keep bobbing your head above water. By dosing yourself, indulging your crush bit by bit you'll find at least some moments to take a breath and realize just how deep the hole might go. Sometimes you need to let yourself be pulled along a little way before you can pause and really assess those little comments like 'When my ex introduced me to heroin..." or so forth.

This has seriously worked pretty well for me. I'm happily married... but I have a chain of *&@^ed up female friends whose lives I've found a stable place in to indulge what I think of as my dumb dude hero complex.

You cannot 'fix' people. Cannot. Especially not women. IMHO it's really not about them anyway, at least not so much as it is about you and your desire to see yourself as a part of their lives. So if you ever find yourself thinking "I could totally save this chick from porn," get the heck out! Women don't want to be saved any more than they want to be worshipped.

My 2 cents.

[Maion Maroneios]

Dude, you refused free MSN stimulation? Come on man, a cute conversation now and then won't hurt...

Ha, believe me sir when I tell you that I prefer (equally free) RL stimulation over Internet one any day But that's just me.

Maion

[Thermal]

You should pass, you don't know what you might catch If she's as deranged as you say then you'd never have a steady relationship, and it wouldn't last by the sounds of it. Please remember that 14 year olds know these type of things

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[edyzmedieval]

Ha, believe me sir when I tell you that I prefer (equally free) RL stimulation over Internet one any day But that's just me.

Maion

Of course RL stimulation >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>.... (n number) >>>>>> internet stimulation, but sometimes you might need some fresh blood. Depends on your personality.