Dont lose too many heirs over the 25 yo crisis LEN because there are many others that follow up... not to mention illnesses...
A childhood friend of mine that was only a few years older (now 37) got a brain tumor the size of 3 memory sticks bundled together as his wife was pregnant with their firstborn son - thats 8 months back. They removed the tumor with operation and the cancer did metastasis (reappeared) in 8 spots including the spine and the last i heard he could not read or walk and was doing intensive chemiotherapy.
When i talked to him on the phone (i live overseas now and could not see him) i broke into tears and two days later had my first panic attack - the first of many.
Being able to live on your own is a big step that is very difficult in Southern European countries, like Portugal, Spain, Italy and Greece and im not surprised at all to hear that its the same story in Turkey. I also know from personal experience that the social environment is demanding and not forgiving despite the fact that they are fully concsious to the lack of options.
Good luck with your new job. From the point of view of life quality, state jobs are the best - certain salary, certain (although not spectacular) promotions and relaxed working hours and responsibilities.
I am certain that its problem solved.
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