need help...

[HoreTore]

My advice is not to date your neighbors. If things go south, or you just want to get away from them, everyday will be awkward. It'd be kind of like being married.

My ex's are all in different parts of the country. The closest one is about 3 hours away, the next closest one 8 hours. Me likes.

Spare yourself the aggravation and forget about her for a few years. There's plenty of time for women to ruin your life later, no need to rush.


For the serious answer...

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Seriously, I think you're both too young, and if there's not some common point of interest (like, you both play WOW, or something) you'll be bored when you're alone.

But, if you persist in doing something, anything will do, trust me. At the age of 13, she's just insecure as you are. Act like you know what you're doing, even if you don't. She doesn't know what she would like you to do, so it's all the same. Don't talk too much, suggest some activity, it doesn't matter what, biking, arcade, mall, computer games, watching movies, swimming... You know what girls your age like to do.

I presume there are at least a few kids your age where you live and that you hang out with them sometimes. The next time you kids get together to do whatever you do, just go over to her house, ring the bell and ask her if she would like to hang out with you and your friends, 'cause you know she's just moved here, she doesn't know anybody blah, blah, blah. She should jump at the opportunity to meet kids her age. That's a good ice breaker and after that, if it goes well, you can invite her to do something together, just the two of you.

I made myself feel old before, now you've made me feel even older.... And I'm just 22

Mow her lawn.

Now you made my mind all dirty... This would be a good time to ship that young, hot maid we talked about. You got daughters, right?

Reminds me - Rule 7 of First Dates - no curry.

I am proud to say that I've never been on a "date". Sounds like way too much work, with too little chance of any fun stuff happening. Much better to consume large ammounts of beer and go out ....and go home alone a few hours later....