Would you marry the ugly innocent man as well or are you perhaps shallow and sexist?

Im shallow and sexist when it comes to finding a mate, but in terms of mourning over strangers i have never met there is no shallowness or sexism. The ugly innocent man's death is as much of a tragedy as the beautiful innocent womans death... to me at least...

Though i am ageist when it comes to people who have been killed, younger is always more of a tragedy...