Life changes when you have children. You see things differently.
Life changes when you have children. You see things differently.
"The republicans will draft your kids, poison the air and water, take away your social security and burn down black churches if elected." Gawain of Orkney
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"The republicans will draft your kids, poison the air and water, take away your social security and burn down black churches if elected." Gawain of Orkney
Tin Cow got the feedback he sought, so maybe we can move the conversation on: over here (US) featured on TV is the Duggar family, who have just announced the wife's (age 42) 19th pregnancy.
Contrary to the usual "What are they, Catholic or Mormon?" question, it turns out that they are part of a sect or movement among conservative christians known as Quiverfull, which eschews any type of birth control or family planning, taking literally TC's thread title "Go forth and multiply" as a commandment from God - and children are a blessing, not a burden.
These folks see child-bearing as a moral obligation.
Q: Do you think there is any moral obligation, or civic duty to have children?
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Well...
I'm starting to think there is one. As it is, the norm for educated Frenchmen is to die childless. University educated women will not have children. Half of them none whatsover, the other half overwhelmingly one child, a small minority two.
No government program manages to remedy that. I do think there is a price to pay for society for this. For three generations now, the brightest 10 to 20 percent genocides itself. This will have an impact.
I hate to be a social Darwinist, but I just can't help to wonder what it means in the long run for a society if the lowest educated twenty percent have 3,5 children per woman, and the highest twenty have 0,5.
TinCow and his wife are rather representative of a wider phenomenon. Both are university educated, and their choice is 'one or none at all' children. Can I bring up the Bell Curve in this thread?
Some time ago I watched a History channel program where they covered this phenomenon. It's quite normal. In a sense, it's advantageous for this to happen. It facilitates the process of social if not biological evolution.
Reinvent the British and you get a global finance center, edible food and better service. Reinvent the French and you may just get more Germans.
Ik hou van ferme grieten en dikke pintenOriginally Posted by Evil_Maniac From Mars
Down with dried flowers!
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The Norm, really? We have the same issue over here, but among my generation, or people slightly older, women have begun to eschew high-flying jobs in favour of having children earlier. I think this has to do with a number of women from the previous generation coming out and saying that "success" made them pretty miserable.
"If it wears trousers generally I don't pay attention."
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French birthrates are actually soaring as of late too. It is not entirely clear what is owing to belated demographical trends (women going for their last chance), a swing back towards having children, succesful government stimuli, or the influence of minority groups.
We're predicted to take over Germany in population size in the not too distant future.Then we'll invade and they'll be sorry for all of it and
Of course you can bring up the Bell Curve since we are talking about ringing Bells after all. 'Ring my bell, ring my bell.'
To be or not to be is not a legacy of a great writer, Laws only exist whilst the maker lives?Originally Posted by Vladimir
No, we leave more then our genetic legacy there are our memes. Nor do all have to breed for the next generation to exist and excel. Ants far outweigh us as do other limited breeders. Not everyone needs to breed.
Our moral drive should not be to have a next generation, but to look after it.
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Did you ever watch Idiocracy*? It takes a humorous approach to the phenomenon. A good movie, btw.
*Language warning on the video clip.
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-Abraham Lincoln
I had never heard of the movie before. I just read up on it on Wiki. It's already the greatest movie I've never seen!
It hits the mark perfectly. Such a good portrait of my dystopian nightmares! What's funny, is that Fox buried the movie, because of the movie's (accurate, methinks) portrayal of Fox in the dumbing down of America.
I'm so going to rent it on DVD.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Idiocracy
Lemme guess: you are easily one of the brightest and highest educated in your family?Originally Posted by SFTS
Edit: I thought that its religiosity made America more resitant to the phenomenon?
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