Girl Help Cont.

**Prussian to the Iron** · 09-11-2009, 15:41

Originally Posted by Peasant Phill

So did you talk to her or not?
Oh and about the argument, don't get involved! NEVER get involved in a teenage girl argument, you'll always lose.

didn't get a chance to; she left 10 minutes before everyone else. I probably should've gone with her and tried to calm her down, but not sure how that would have gone.

so, should I just tell her she's right, or not say anything period?

**Philippus Flavius Homovallumus** · 09-11-2009, 18:13

Originally Posted by Prussian Iron

didn't get a chance to; she left 10 minutes before everyone else. I probably should've gone with her and tried to calm her down, but not sure how that would have gone.

so, should I just tell her she's right, or not say anything period?

Don't play any games, you don't have the necessary skills yet. Women come with thse pre-loaded, men learn them. It's really simple, next time you see here you say:

Are you still grounded?

If she says yes you say:

So maybe I could have your number and call you some time?

She says No = GAME OVER, she says yes, you get the number and call her in a couple of weeks.

If she's not grounded, ask if she'd like to go out some time, say later in the week.

Really, talking to women is easy, I nearly asked the girl in the Jewelers out today (needed a new watch), I didn't because I'm leaving the city next week and I don't know if/when I'll be back.

**Prussian to the Iron** · 09-11-2009, 18:37

so don't mention the fight?

**Philippus Flavius Homovallumus** · 09-11-2009, 19:11

Originally Posted by Prussian Iron

so don't mention the fight?

It doesn't involve you, does it?

It's simple, you want to ask here out, you goofed up a bit the first time, so have another go. If she doesn't give you a straight answer this time she doesn't want to.

Hell, don't make her beat you up, that's just cruel.

**Rhyfelwyr** · 09-11-2009, 19:24

You just need some poetry.

**Prussian to the Iron** · 09-11-2009, 19:34

well, not only would that be over-corny, but I don't think she really would want a poem like that from a 14 year old. that just seems creepy....

oh and I'm banned from TWC til december, and have no intentions of going back. and the season would be over by then...

**Peasant Phill** · 09-12-2009, 15:08

You'll have enough opportunities to talk to her. Don't 'force' her to talk, just be casual. If she says no a second time you ask her out then it's not going to happen. But maybe you can get a friend out of it instead.

**Owen Glyndwr** · 09-11-2009, 19:16

No! There's no reason to get trapped in the middle of a fight like that, especially if it's as bad as you described.

When someone vents to you, it's usually best to let them come to you. If you try to push them to talk about their feelings it can sometimes backfire on you.

I agree with Phillipvs in regards to the girl. Just ask her out again, and if she says no, forget about her.

If she says yes, your in!