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    Oni Member Samurai Waki's Avatar
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    Default Re: Advice on an akward situation

    erm. Well, only so much a guy can do. I mean, you could talk with your local police precinct, and see if they have any insights. It's obvious this guy is just trying to be "intimidating" to you, since he hasn't confronted you yet, chances are he'll never confront you. But, you do have a family, and that raises some concerns with me. Basically, the most you can do is maybe file a restraining order, but it may or may not be denied, and really, if a person is serious about fulfilling a threat, a restraining order will only make them feel as though they've been pushed harder. Your best bet is if you see him driving around, is to walk out, and let him know you know what's goin on, and you're not going to be intimidated. Eventually, as all Bully's are cowards, and he's got too much to lose at this point to try anything, he'll go away and hopefully without having to pay court fees.
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    Hope guides me Senior Member Hosakawa Tito's Avatar
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    Take the threat seriously and report what happened to the police including him cruising your neighborhood. One can never tell what irrational crazy thing some people are capable of doing. Hopefully, when the cops talk to him, he'll realize that he'll be the first one the authorities come looking for if something happens, and he'll back off.
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