Should I?

[Andres]

Sounds to me like she's abusing your friendship to help cleaning up her mess whenever a cleaner is needed.

Don't let her play with your feelings.

I'll be blunt: dump her.

And, since you're apparently still in love with her, do yourself a favour and give yourself enough time to get over it before starting something with another girl.

[pevergreen]

Theres nothing to be dumped.

I've tried. And it goes away. But then every time I get close to something new, she pops back in.

Like a tripwire.

[Andres]

After the last post in that thread:

Next few weeks we stopped lieing to each other about everything. A lot of what i knew about her was false, but it meant the bad things she told me were false.

Are you saying she was making all that stuff up back then?

Regardless, you had a relationship, it didn't work out and it'll probably never work out. You were there for her because there were signs of a serious crisis (depression, bad situation at home). You did what you could. In the process, your relationship didn't survive.

Now, you need to be able to carry on with your life. It seems to me that as long as this girl/woman has not completely disappeared out of your life, you won't be able to.

If she really cares about you, she'll understand that now is the time for her to disappear and to leave you alone.

Right now, she's being selfish and abusing your feelings. It has to stop.

[pevergreen]

Not entirely true. She said she was ing up and that she should never speak to me again, but I stopped her.

I don't know why.

I'm going to play D&D and think thoughts in a few hours.

I welcome any other opinions.

To all those who helped me back then, you have my sincere thanks. Because of your advice, she is healthy.

[Fragony]

I am with Andres. Don't put up with that.