Should I?

**caravel** · 10-20-2009, 11:16

Originally Posted by pevergreen

Discover she now smokes, drinks heavily and does illicit drugs. Oh and that night I sat waiting for her for an hour to even show up.

Get out of it now before it's too late.

**naut** · 10-20-2009, 12:55

As Andres said. She is being selfish, and abusing your trust and emotions. Please, for your own sake do not go back to her. Yes, it's nice to think about helping people out, but in a situation like this where you now have very little to do with her you should think of yourself first.

On the other issue, 15 seems a little young. You are 18 correct well, 18 /2 = 9 + 7 = 16, which is sort of downward limit. However, I'm not here to judge and at the end of the day you should do what feels right by you.

**Fragony** · 10-20-2009, 13:04

Originally Posted by Psychonaut

On the other issue, 15 seems a little young.

Nah, being an 18 year old male is being young

**pevergreen** · 10-20-2009, 13:10

Its out of it, yes Rythmic, but...

She doesnt act her age.

shes 16 a month after i'm 19.

Point is probably moot. I mean, I'm more popular here than IRL right now (side effect of work) and I'm not exactley loved here.

**Beefy187** · 10-20-2009, 13:21

Originally Posted by pevergreen

Its out of it, yes Rythmic, but...

She doesnt act her age.

shes 16 a month after i'm 19.

Point is probably moot. I mean, I'm more popular here than IRL right now (side effect of work) and I'm not exactley loved here.

Nonesense! Your always on my top list.... Right after Flaxie

**naut** · 10-20-2009, 13:31

Originally Posted by pevergreen

Its out of it, yes Rythmic, but...

She doesnt act her age.

shes 16 a month after i'm 19.

Point is probably moot. I mean, I'm more popular here than IRL right now (side effect of work) and I'm not exactley loved here.

As I should have said. If you like her, you should go for it, the age gap won't matter.

Edit: Chin up lad. You're a good bloke and don't you dare forget that.

**pevergreen** · 10-20-2009, 14:23

I can't take that straight.

If you lived in any other state...

This all hinges on if I pass my driving test on thursday.

I need to pass for this, for life in general, and to show that techs beat salespeople (sales manager took his test today, failed. entire service team needs me to pass >_>)

**GeneralHankerchief** · 10-20-2009, 14:34

Well, I was originally going to offer my standard "apply game theory" advice to the situation, but this thread turned serious fast.

Definitely stay away from #2, and don't feel bad about it either. You've done all you can. Nobody will fault you for it. Appeasing her further ~~may~~ WILL drag you down with her. From what you've told me and said in other threads (assuming it's the same girl) I'd give #1 a shot. You seem happy about/with her, which is all you can really ask for.